Pride In The Kite Runner By Khaled Hosseini

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Much of Afghan society is built on the concept that a man’s image comes from his status, and that his manhood is defined by his honor and his pride, his nang and namoos. In this society, men appear to hold most of the power. This power is fragile, however, because “all a man ha[s is] his honor [and] his name” (223). Without honor, or with a tainted name, a Pashtun man is nothing. In The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini, some characters follow this standard to a fault. General Taheri, for example, is so prideful that he remains on welfare in the US, as he believes that getting a job would be degrading to him and his position as a general in Afghanistan (176). Ironically, the women in the novel achieve true nang and namoos, while most men cannot, …show more content…

He sees her determination to stand up to her father for what she loves, as she exclaims, “Teaching may not pay much, but it’s what I want to do! It’s what I love” (182). Amir sees a woman stand up to her father, a strange occurrence in Afghan society, which provides him with a model of what it means to stand up for one’s his own beliefs and dreams. Later, after General Taheri calls Sohrab a ‘Hazara Boy’, Amir is able to follow this model, telling the general, “You will never again refer to [Sohrab] as ‘Hazara Boy’ in my presence. He has a name and it’s Sohrab” (361). He stands up to a powerful proponent of the status quo, rejecting the general’s discrimination towards Sohrab and making Amir’s belief that Pashtuns are no better than Hazaras very clear. Soraya also shows Amir courage in her willingness to face her past. Right before they marry, Soraya reveals the secrets of her past to Amir. Amir realizes that he is jealous of her bravery, noting, “I envied her. Her secret was out. Spoken. Dealt with” (165). When he finally tells her of his past, years later, Amir “imagined Soraya had experienced something similar the night of our khastegari, when she’d told [him] about her past,” a sense of relief, a lifting of weight off of his shoulders (325). He learns that, through courage and the ability to face his past , he can start …show more content…

In her quest to atone for her sins, Sanaubar first returns to Kabul and faces her past head on. When she first sees Hassan, she exclaims, “I have walked long and far to see if you are as beautiful in the flesh as you are in my dreams” (210). She then admits her sins, crying out to Hassan, “Allah forgive me, I wouldn’t even hold you” (210). She asks for forgiveness from Hassan, and after a long night of deliberation, Hassan tells her that “she could cry if she wanted to but she needn’t [because] she was home now … with her family” (210). She is forgiven, but she still must make up for her actions, so when Hassan’s child, Sohrab, is born, she walks out of the hut “clutching th[e] baby like she never wanted to let go. Not this time” (211). She cares for Sohrab, the two of them becoming “inseparable” (211). She tends to Sohrab as she should have for Hassan, making up for her sins with her actions towards his son. Amir then follows her model, first returning to Afghanistan to get Sohrab, then admitting his sins, and finally completing the atonement process by bringing Sohrab home to care for him and give him a better life, beginning to do what he can to make up for betraying Hassan and driving him out of his house in Kabul. Because of the model

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