Chapter 1:Uncover That Wound: Feel the Pain Women often tend to have the mindset that we can change a man, make a man love us, and futher more not cheat. Im here to emphasize just how unture this statement is and how to heal. In order to get over a bad breakup we must first leave the wound uncovered. In order for a wound to heal we must allow air to reach it and temperature changes touch it. An opened wound is a wound in which the injured tissues are exposed to the air. When you allow the wound to reamin uncovered, you allow the healing process to take place. When a wound is exposed to the air, yes you feel the pain, but yet and still you allow a scabe to cover the once open wound. Once the scalp heals sometimes it leaves a scar. In order for a wound to heal you have to apply ontiment so a scar is not left behind when we were children. Now as adults and in relationships, if we learn to allow the wound to remain uncovered, pray for peace and follow the simple steps: • Uncover the wound • Allow air to touch it • Allow it to form a scalp • Pray • The scar is either not present or less visible to the naked eye Prayer changes all so know matter how deep the wound is, stop hiding it with depression, dressing not at your best potential, frowing, and being angry. Ladies we must smile, …show more content…
Allow yourself freedom. Don’t rush to date, become intimate with anyone or become to casual with a guy. Spend this time being alone with yourself. After your have allowed a man to disrespect you and cheat over and over again you will need time to love yourself again. Self love is the best love a person can provide themselves. Under no circumstances should you allow any man to treat you like the bottom of the barrel. After this healing stage you will feel refreshed. Once you feel comfortable and truly understand this process ou will be able to attrach the right man, and dismiss the wrogn one. Always remember that you attrach what you
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One of my favorite songs I learned in Primary as a young LDS child was “A Child’s Prayer.” It’s opening lines are “Heavenly Father, are you really there? And do you hear and answer every child’s prayer?” For some children in the United States, they are in such destitute conditions they may doubt there is hope, or anyone above that is listening. Abusive parents, a life in poverty, or sexual abuse are only some of the problems some children in the United States are facing right now. The LDS Church places immense importance on families, and healthy familial relationships– Jesus Christ himself taught little children with love and patience, and in Matthew 19:14 he said “Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is
... grow. Though God she can learn to love again. With the help of friends, she can establish trust. Praying to God brings life back into her eyes, and over time she can learn to forgive the world as well as the people that have wronged her.
Most scalp wound is caused by blunt hit. However, it will bleed a lot although it is a minor wound since there are so many blood capillaries in the area. Normally to treat this injury, we just need to put a direct pressure on the wound with sterile dressing material until the bleeding stoped. And tie the cloth into place with a triangular bandage if continued pressure is needed. Carefully assess whether stitches are needed. If decided to treat at home, be sure the wound is free of dirt and debris. Clean with clean water , then dry the wound and surrounding hair. It usually recover well. Make sure there is no wood or gravel in the wound. To avoid more serious complication, pay a visit to a doctor for double
Critique of Wilson's Book Hurt People Hurt People Summary Wilson’s book Hurt People Hurt People is quite interesting, the book is designed to help the readers overcome past wounds. Wilson indicates from the moment we are born we start forming questions for living, in such cases the basic questions “Can I be safe? 2) Can I be me? 3) Can I be accepted”?
In her Cosmopolitan article titled “Get Him to Forgive You,” author Debra Wallace states that there are four steps that a women has to take in order to gain her male significant other’s forgiveness after she has “messed up:”
The healing process in a patient with a chronic wound can be a difficult one. However when it comes to healing, it isn’t just about the specific condition which needs to be addressed It is actually more important to look at the persons wellbeing as a whole and work on helping with the healing process with that in mind. The human body and mind are powerful tools. The ability to heal is multifaceted. There are many things that are needed for a patient’s wellbeing. This, especially in wound care is broken up into many facors These include. Physical, mental, social, and spiritual. (This is taken from optimizing article) (can this be rephrased?)
After understanding, and coping the problem a person can deal with their problem at hand by perhaps writing it down or writing about who hurt them, according to Melanie Tonia Evans, “this is self-recognition that will assist you in healing and reclaiming your right to perfect love, success and happiness.” A person can feel as if they were abandoned, unwanted, unloved, or forgotten. The most important thing though, is to stay positive about themselves at all costs. When a person loves themselves and is happy with their life it can make everything much easier and healing can begin. “Once you have validated and learned what you can from the experience, you can let it go and move forward. This won’t happen all at once. Those imprints are still there, and they need to be replaced with healthy, positive ones,” (Dania Vanessa.) The dysfunctional experiences that a person has from their childhood can pose as a learning experience that shaped someone into who they are now, from the hardships they
...nd that may only heal as time goes by and will forever leave a scar.
Reed, G. L., & Enright, R. D. (2006). The effects of forgiveness therapy on depression, anxiety and posttraumatic stress for women after spousal emotional abuse. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 74(5), 920-929. doi: 10.1037/0022-006X.74.5.920
But there comes a time when you have to start letting go of being okay with being the rebound, the second option, or not number one in anyone 's book. This morning I had a conversation during my lunch break with someone, no names are given. In this conversation I heard my self clearly stating whoever it is I will not be a second option. This was something I know I have said numerous times over the years, but this time I feel like it was worth speaking out about. It 's not healthy when you start to feel like you can 't live up to someones expectations. Somewhere out there, you are not just "good enough" - you are more than enough. You put the stars in the night sky and somewhere out there, someone is waiting to meet you and fall for you on good, honest terms. Not because they 're lonely or looking for some action. But because they cherish and treasure you. One of my closest friends always says " love should be easy, not hard- it should be as simple as breathing." Mandi, yes you still need to write your book.
Treatment for this condition depends on the severity of the cut, including the risk of infection and how deep the wound is.
Physical pain doesn’t have much of a trigger for a repeat, while emotional pain leaves numerous amounts of reminders and triggers. When we have a cut we apply medicine for it to feel better and help your body heal-(positive).As physical pain can also be used as a distraction from emotional pain. Some of you may know teens and or adults have used ‘cutting’ their skin with a sharp object causing physical pain, to distract the emotional pain. In the long run that’s not going to fix your problem-the pain can tend to get worse the more you decide not to deal with the issue. Emotional pain we do little to protect our self- esteem when it's low. A Lot of the time people do not use positive results for distraction in the long run. We’ve grown into a world where others begin to ignore the situation, smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol, and or use drugs. In the long run that’s not going to fix your problem-the pain can tend to get worse the more you decide not to deal with the issue. Positive ways to deal with emotional pain and or problems with the connection of physical pain would be- therapy, focusing on your strengths, apologizing and or forgiving yourself in times of guilt, and don’t forget to remind yourself that you are more aware of your mistakes than someone else
There have been many relationships that did not work out between men and women due to someone being hurt in a past relationship and carrying their issues into the new relationship. There are some women who carry the mentality “all men are the same”, therefore, they ruin their next relationship because rather than spending the time building on the relationship they are establishing with their significant other, they find themselves consumed with trying to prove that it is “too good to be true” or that the person is just like every other man they have encountered. Men also have this same issue. There are some men who have been hurt in past relationships and rather than opening their heart to the new woman they have encountered, they keep their guards up and some men even have other women just in case that one doesn’t work out to save themselves from heartache. Not just in dealing with significant others, but in all relationships, we have to lose the “guilty until proven innocent” mentality.
The past is over, let it go. Forgive and then forget. Allow the power of God to heal your heart and soul by trusting in Him and feeling His pure love for you. You are a cherished daughter of a loving Heavenly Father who only wants the very best for you. You are divinely watched over and guided continually—trust in Him.