An Introduction to Sexual Fitness

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Sexual fitness is an innovative construct for men, women, and couples. Single, married, gay, or heterosexual adults can learn how to practice and attain sexual fitness. Becoming sexually fit has nothing to do with a sexual orientation or relationship status. Even age has no bearing on this practice.

Thoughts, feelings, actions, and perceptions are all involved in this exciting new concept. Sexual fitness is a state of mind combined with actions of the body. If practiced correctly, the art of sexual fitness impacts science as extensive clinical studies have proven the physiological benefits related to a healthy sex life.

Similar to physical fitness, sexuality has everything to do with attitude and effort. A perfect metaphor is "like riding a bike." The initial stages of learning to ride a bike requires effort, persistence, mental focus, and determination. Once achieved, a person never loses this ability and merely needs to refresh their skill set even after time has elapsed from riding. Sexual fitness is based on the exact same concepts.

The ultimate decision is deciding what benefits are sought in the pursuit of sexual fitness. Using the metaphor above, the choice becomes whether to engage in leisure weekend bike rides through the park or become the proverbial next "Lance Armstrong." The definition and practice of sexual fitness will help you make this decision.

Sexual fitness is defined as a threshold a person reaches after they have applied consistent effort, practice, and determination. The endeavor to reach a state of sexual mastery requires psychological motivation, education, and implementation of specific physical skills. An athlete becomes proficient at his/her sport by engaging in physical and mental pract...

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...d via a belief of necessity. Simply put, belief of necessity is a set of thoughts encouraging determination.

Fitness, whether sexual or physical, is defined as a measure of efficient functioning. A person who is sexually fit is efficient in their capacity to think, feel, and behave in a sexual manner without shame, embarrassment, or hidden agendas of falsely boosting their ego or self-esteem.

People who reach and practice sexual fitness are more likely to function efficiently in all aspects of their perceptual world. These fortunate individuals are more confident, physically ill less often, and manage stressful events more successfully. Sexual fitness is an achieved state of being allowing people to perform better in every action they engage in. Having this capability affords people to feel confident in all situations whether a partner is involved or not.

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