Woman Hollering Creek Essay

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Domestic abuse within the Hispanic community is prominent. I have lived within a large Hispanic community for the majority of my life, and it is something that I would not find in statistics. With insider information from family, friends, acquaintances, friends of friends, people I have gone to school with, neighbors, local news, and so much more, I can say that I have seen enough to know that the truth is not reported when gathering information for statistics. This is due to the fact that in our community domestic abuse is dismissed, a topic refused to be acknowledged, or dealt with under the circumstances of the person. This can be seen with the main character, Cleofilas, in “Woman Hollering Creek” by Sandra Cisneros. Earning a Psychology …show more content…

This can be seen in “Woman Hollering Creek” with Cleofilas, who married a loving man who showed his true self not too long into the marriage. And even if there is a way out, what if the partner changes or loves her like before the abuse begins? It does not help that novelas portray these dramatic scenarios that people watch and live for. Cleofilas wanted her life to be like the novella. This false hope is painted in several ways that lead Hispanic women to stay in these misfortunate situations. As many survivors of domestic abuse have experienced, it is common for a feeling of shame to stop them from reaching out for help. As Cleofilas debated going back home, she also thought of how she would be viewed. “But how could she go back there?” (pg 50) She thought to herself that she cannot go back home because of what people at home might think of her. However, it was reassuring to read that the ladies ended up choosing to help her escape and live a better life with her children. They pushed to help her, and it reassured her to know that everything would be …show more content…

I have briefly spoken about our culture and Catholicism in my previous essay writing about the same kind of awareness. Our religion is heavily emphasized in our marriages. Adding to the list of things that are stopping Hispanic women from leaving their abusive husbands. There was a line in Woman Hollering Creek that was a perfect example, “[...] this husband till kingdom come.” (pg 49) After having to list out reasons she loves him despite his behavior, she ended it with this line. This is a line that comes out in one of the Catholic prayers, “till thy kingdom come.” In my introduction I mentioned that I have seen enough to know that statistics are not telling the full truth for this reason. Not only will they not admit the full truth to others, but mainly to themselves as well. Because of the influence Catholicism has on our religion, women must remain with their husbands even if they happen to be abusive. Many are told to pray and believe it in their hearts that he will change. That divorce is never allowed, and if they do, they will have to spend the rest of their lives alone because they have made a vow to God. Many of these women, such as Cleofilas, are dependents and need their husbands. It is not easy to report or seek help, let alone admit it. This is not to say that our religion is causing this to happen, but it is definitely a profound influence in the way it has been

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