How would you feel if someone you trusted secretly collected personal information about you? Would you feel safe knowing your personal information could, one day, be used against you? Today, many kids are facing this problem. Kids are facing the problem of having their privacy stripped away from them. But, by whom, what? Maybe they are being tracked by an anonymous user seeking to cause trouble? Instead, they are being monitored by the ones they trust the most: their parents. Kids should not be tracked or monitored as monitoring kids sets parents up in a bad relationship with their child. Also, there are many ways to bypass the trackers, and kids knowing they are monitored 24/7 can strip away their ability to learn to make good choices for themselves. Firstly, tracking a kid's private information results in a bad relationship between the kid and the parent. The text "Should Parents Snoop on your Kids Online" states, "Furthermore, Knorr says parents need to recognize that kids "believe that their phones are sacred …show more content…
The article "Technology Let's Parents Track Kids Every Move" says, "Shlozman says that tracking kids also undermines the trust that's critical to their development. He says kids need enough slack to learn to make good choices on their own, not just because they know Mom and Dad are watching." The article further mentions, "That''s the moment of growth -- and you lose that if you monitor them, "Shlozman says, "They won't grow up: they'll get stuck developmentally." How can parents expect their kids to develop into respectable adults if they are preventing their kids from growing up? Tracking kids teaches them to only behave when they are monitored. If they carry that lesson into the real world, they will make bad choices that could endanger them. In short, monitoring a child’s private information leaves them with trust and developmental issues later in
The expansion of the Internet infrastructure across the world, has brought an increased audience. Which has provided expanded markets for businesses and exploited new opportunities. There are virtually countless social sites and media used by individuals to access and share experiences , content, insights, and perspectives. Parents today tend to believe they should spy on their kids online activity. I argue parents should respect the privacy of a child's social life and his/her internet activity.
There are, after-all, ways to be an effective, inspiring, and supporting parent without spying on the child’s every online
...child myself, I wouldn’t want to provide the tools which enable my friend to do so. I believe that people have a perfect duty not to spy on one another. As someone with a reasonable technical knowledge, I would inform the parent that there are other ways of controlling their child’s computer and phone usage without directly monitoring them and reading their conversations. For example, the parent could instead opt to block access to adult websites from the router, restrict functions such as video chat or picture messaging, and limit the amount of time a child can spend on their devices without viewing each and every individual thing that the child does. This way the child will understand what is expected of them with regards to their electronic device usage without feeling that their every move is being monitored and that their private conversations are being read.
I agree with Coben when he says that he is okay with the monitoring of your teenagers use of the internet. I especially agreed when he said “Trust is one thing, but surrendering parental responsibility to a machine that allows the entire world access to your home borders on negligence.” It’s true you can’t just let your teen roam on the internet with no boundaries. The internet is a dangerous place and your child would not go through life unharmed by it if you let them handle it them it alone. Teenagers make mistakes and it’s parents’ jobs to fix them, prevent them, or teach them the correct ways. If you don’t monitor your teenager with spyware they will make a mistake and get hurt. Coben is only trying to persuade parents to do the right thing in the article so why don’t more people listen.
Many minors have social media networks and smartphones that are relatively easy for them to use. In Let Kids Run Wild Online, Danah Boyd is stating that there should not be any “helicopter parents” who watch the every move of their child online. I completely agree with Boyd’s statement and think that minors should be able to feel independant without their parents monitoring their online activities. By not monitoring their child, there will be many benefits such as a better open relationship with child and parent, the child will know how to ask for help when needed, the child will aso know how to use technology in this technology-soaked world and the child will have better social and interaction skill
Parenting has become a challenge for the 21st century modern world and with so many technological advancements parents have started relying on High-Tech gadgets to stay connected with their kids. Interest and demand of using technology by parents to monitor their kids are increasing all around the world. As pointed out in the article “More Parents Going High-Tech to Track Kids” by Martha Irvine, how technology is helping parents track their kids’ location, how fast they were driving, and what they buy or eat. Even though these devices are helpful to parents, but they may be dangerous to the kids in many ways and that's why parents should be extra careful on its use.
Some parents care about their children but don’t care about the drama going on at school or who their best friend likes. I can see how parents think it’s an invasion of privacy and some feel like if the child found out about the software they wouldn’t trust their parents because who knows what else they could be hiding. So as a parent I could see why they wouldn’t want to put spyware on their teen’s computer because they are invading in the privacy of their kid.
“Human beings are not meant to lose their anonymity and privacy,” Sarah Chalke. When using the web, web users’ information tend to be easily accessible to government officials or hackers. In Nicholas Carr’s “Tracking Is an Assault on Liberty,” Jim Harpers’ “Web Users Get As Much As They Give,” and Lori Andrews “Facebook is Using You” the topic of internet tracking stirred up many mixed views; however, some form of compromise can be reached on this issue, laws that enforces companies to inform the public on what personal information is being taken, creating advisements on social media about how web users can be more cautious to what kind of information they give out online, enabling your privacy settings and programs, eliminating weblining,
While not always seen, overall, teenagers get far less privacy than adults do. Between schools checking through the belongings of their students without solid evidence to allow it, or parents monitoring the activity of their children online, teenagers today are subject to much of their privacy being taken away. It is true that this can sometimes be helpful in busting drug dealers or keeping teenagers from getting involved with bad habits online. However, it can also have an adverse effect, ruining the relationship between a parent and his or her child, or other relationships throughout the rest of the teenager’s life. Teenagers should be allowed more privacy, if not as much as adults have, as it will keep them less fearful, as well as help to keep their interpersonal relationships strong and their emotions in a good state.
If my parents decided to get a tracker and watched me what I was doing, I would not care about it at all. My parents has brought me up in a good way. My personal demeanors are neutral, and I do not have a concrete position about tracking their kids.
On the other hand, using a tracking device can also hurt both the child and the parent. Using a tracking device can make the child feel like they are being watched too much or that their parent does not trust them enough to let them go out by themselves without constantly being watched. So, while there are a couple of negative effects, there are many positive effects to having a tracking device.
We currently live in a world that functions based off technology. As new technologies emerge each day, our ways of life continue to evolve, especially with parenting styles. Children grow up and begin to explore their freedoms, resulting in frantically worried parents who fear the worst. These fears cause adults to keep a close eye on their kids by tracking them in multiple ways, but specifically in GPS tracking. However, this topic of tracking one’s child becomes a highly controversial topic since adults see it as a safety precaution and children see it as an invasion of privacy.
However, sensitive information that may be shared might later embarrass the children as they grow older and realize what is available on the internet. Such events may result in resentment and misunderstandings on both the children and the parents’ sides. According to Steinberg (2017) in “Sharenting: Children’s Privacy in the Age of Social Media,” there have been long-term issues and conflicts regarding parental sharing and whether children have the right to control what is shared about them. Another long-term problem raised by parental sharing is the idea of data collecting. Per “Children’s Privacy in the Big Data Era: Research Opportunities,” “These trends raise serious concerns about digital dossiers that could follow young people into adulthood, affecting their access to education, employment, healthcare, and financial services. Although US privacy law provides some safeguards for children younger than 13 years old online, adolescents are afforded no such protections” (Montgomery, Chester, & Milosevic, 2017, p.
These individuals feel that it is an invasion of the teenagers’ right to privacy and the development of their trustworthiness. Kay Mathieson states “only by giving children privacy will they come to see their thoughts as something that belongs to them – to which they have an exclusive right.” In the United States and according to the law, monitoring the internet usage of a minor does not break any laws and is a moral obligation of the parent. Trustworthiness is an important development of a child to learn in order to develop genuine relationships with others in the lifetime. “Not only does monitoring have the great potential to undermine the trust of the child in the parent, and thus to undermine trust in others more generally, it also has the potential to undermine the capacity of the child to be worth of trust” (Mathieson). If the parent has not already had conversations with the teenager about monitoring internet usage and the parent is not telling the child about the monitoring, there is already an issue with the development of trustworthiness in the teenager. There was already a failure of development of this skill before the internet or internet monitoring was introduced.
When it comes to having an account online it can get quite dangerous. Not only is it dangerous but having the gadget lying around the house or even having their own at a young age can make it easier for them to have easy access to those social media accounts. Parents need to take precaution with their children and the internet. Meeting someone online is so much more different from meeting them in person. It is hard to tell if people and kids are their real age that they put on their information because you can actually lie about how old you really are. There has been many cases where involving younger girls talking to older men, a 15-year-old can be talking to a