Why A Horse Is Important To Me

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When I was around the age of 7 or 8 I was one big handful. Accident prone, annoying, rude, and thought I could do whatever I want. But that all changed one summer morning. I woke up to the sound of a horse neighing. I quickly ran to my barn to see my dad with a little Shetland pony. He scooped me up in his arms as he told me that this pony was mine as long as I started behaving better at home and at school. From that day forward, I kept my act together and started acting better. Looking back, it was actually my horse which my parents got for me that kept me out of trouble and shaped me into the person I am today when my parents could only do so much.

There are many reasons that your child might want a horse. There’s also many reasons …show more content…

From vet bills, the feed, the tack, it can eventually add up to a large sum of money. As parents, you must be responsible for these costs. But in no way should any parent be expected to front all of that bill. Your child should be at least partially responsible. Figure out a system to split up the costs that works for both of you. If your child wants a horse, they should be expected to do jobs such as chores to help you out as a parent and contribute to the payment of the horse. While doing this, it can teach your child to be responsible for their horse and work for it. Responsibility is a great moral and a sign of hard work and dedication which is a great thing to put into a child that will grow with them and shape them for their future. Results of a study published in February 2006 by the American Youth Horse Council, an organization created to promote horse education in American youth, “found a significant positive relationship between horsemanship skills and life skill such as responsibility in children.” Responsibility is a life skill that will be applied in your child's everyday life, when they are young and old, from doing homework to raising a child of their own. As a parent, you’re thinking that any other pet can build the same responsibility and be a lot cheaper. You’re right and you’re wrong. While other pets may be cheaper, having a horse builds more responsibility than any other pet. With a horse, your child must …show more content…

Horses tend to take up lots of time and if you happen to live in a house without close access to a barn, create the annoyance of taking your kids to the barn where their horse is. But these downsides lift a great weight off your shoulder by keeping your child out of trouble. When your child is busy at the barn riding and grooming, and cleaning tack, and cleaning stalls, and dumping wheelbarrows, and raking the barn, and so on, they have less time to get into trouble. Children are always bound to get into trouble. Boredom creates the exploration of their surroundings and trouble. Friends who are a bad influence often create trouble. Your child can be peer pressured into doing something that can get them into trouble. A recent study titled “Does Peer Pressure Highly Influence Students” researched and showed showed that peer pressure is a huge problem in today's world: “Students felt pressured by their peers between 35 and 49 percent of the time.” This clearly shows that peer pressure can affect your child. But, boredom and friends who may be a bad influence get pushed to the side, because frankly, doing chores to pay for that new saddle is more important than going and doing something bad with friends. Some may argue that horses take up too much time for kids, but I disagree. As long as it’s not all work and there is some play, their days may be filled up but they’re

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