What Does It Mean To Say About Marriage

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Mr. Darcy says, “A lady’s imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to matrimony in a moment” (Austen). In Jane Austen’s novel, Pride and Prejudice, the characters have different views on marriage and reasons for marriage. Most everyone in this time period believed that they should marry for money because that was just how their society worked at the time. Some, however, like Elizabeth, believed that one should only marry for love and nothing less. These two differences play a major role in the novel because of the difference from today’s society. Also, the differences help the reader to determine the right and wrongs on the topic of marriage. This paper will discuss how some married for money, how some married …show more content…

In that day and time, one was supposed to think that. Every woman should only wish to marry someone with more money than her family has, and if you happened to fall in love then it was just luck. Woman were not supposed to wait for love before they marry. For men, they just needed to find a wife, and if they had money that was just a bonus. “...a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in search of a wife” (Austen). This statement suggests that a single man must be searching for a wife to share his fortune with, not his love and affection. Even though most people believe in marrying for money, there are some that believe …show more content…

The roles of each character accentuates the comparison of the differences in beliefs. “The mother's sole purpose is to get their daughters married” (Austen). This quote shows that no matter what the daughters beliefs were, it was the mother's job to make sure the girls were married and did not become an old maid. When Jane was invited to dine with the Bingley’s, her mother made sure that she would have enough time to spend with Mr. Bingley. “You must go on horseback. It is supposed to rain so you will have to stay all night” (Austen). Mrs. Bennett says this after Jane has asked to use the carriage. Mrs. Bennett knows that Jane may get sick but states “no one dies from a fever” (Austen). Even though her daughter may get sick, she still sends her on horseback in the rain for the purpose that Jane will have to stay the night and possibly make Mr. Bingley want to marry her. This situation very vividly shows how the parents believe in the topic of

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