Similarities Between The Awakening And If I Were A Man

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In the late 19th century, women didn’t have as many opportunities as men to do what they pleased. Both the novel The Awakening by Kate Chopin and the short story “If I Were a Man” by Charlotte Perkins Gilman are similar in the sense of shedding light onto the ideals of women and men of that time. Men were the providers and women, the caregivers.
Both the texts have a sense of restricted freedoms for women and almost unlimited freedom for men. Whenever The Awakening described what Edna was trying to get away from and gain freedom in the process it was the weight of responsibilities. Women have to take care of the children, plan gatherings, be a loving wife and always seem happy. Men could run lose and do as they pleased. The men could play …show more content…

Men were supposed to be smart and …show more content…

In the short story “If I Were a Man” one of the male characters states; “we are always criticizing them for making mercenary marriages, but what do we call a girl who marries a chump with no money? Just a poor fool, that's all.” Women are supposed to be taken care of financially because they are to marry for money. It is apparent that the women who did not marry for money are simply stupid and looked down upon. Women were to be in the house taking care of their families or socializing with others to promote business in their husband's life and had no freedom when it came to objecting to it. Edna’s sphere of concern was caring for their home, socializing , and caring for her family, so in the beginning when she was the ideal women of her time. The ideal woman was frail and graceful, they ever so desperately needed a man to save her from the harsh world. “If I Were a Man” states; “In the upper half were the tenderest emotions, the most exquisite ideals, the sweetest memories, all lovely sentiments as to "home" and "mother," all delicate admiring adjectives, a sort of sanctuary, where a veiled statue, blindly adored, shared place with beloved yet commonplace experiences.” Men were to be nothing but husky and strong, they could not show any signs of tenderness or “feminine” traits. They were all supposed to be financially stable and want

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