True Parenting In Great Expectations By Charles Dickens

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Children need real parents with good parenting skills to properly develop in life. Throughout the book Great Expectations by Charles Dickens many of the main children grow up without (or with very little) help from their actual parents. Some of the other characters who do know their real parents do not even care about them. The most predominant examples of this are Pip and Estella, the first part of the story appears to paint them as very different characters but actually are very similar. Pip reveals in the first page of the book that his parents are long dead by saying ”..., my first fancies regarding what they [Pips parents] were like derived from their tombstones.”(Dickens 1). Then later in the book Pip learns from Herbert that Estella was adopted when he says “‘What relation is she [Estella] to Miss …show more content…

Pip and Estella really are not too different in how they were raised. This is especially apparent in how they were raised on an emotional level. Both Pip and Estella are raised in cruelty and as a result turn into damaged people. This is because children who develop and grow lacking true parenting usually tend to miss the most important morals and values in life. Pip lived his entire life without ever knowing his “real” parents. As a result, young Pip was deprived of the most basic key morals and values that life has to offer. Due to Pip's parents being dead, he was raised by his sister Mrs. Joe Gargery and her husband Joe. Mrs. Joe was very abusive to Pip as well as Joe. Dickens reveals this by writing “… knowing her [Mrs. Joe] to have a hard and heavy hand, and to be much in the habit of laying it upon her husband as well as upon me, …” (Dickens 6). So Pip grew up with his harsh, cruel and abusive sister who had no care for him. Mrs. Joe was also furiously annoyed with the inconvenience of

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