Themes of Love and Loss in Poetry

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Themes of Love and Loss in Poetry

In this essay, we are going to analyse five poems to study the way

love and loss are treated in the pre-nineteenth century poems, "So,

we'll go no more a roving" and "When we two parted" by Lord Byron,

"Sonnet 116" by William Shakespeare, "How do I love thee?" by

Elizabeth Barrett-Browning and "Remember" by Christina Rossetti. After

looking at the level of implication of each of the poets in their

writing, we will show the way they treat the themes of love and loss.

Written by William Shakespeare in the 16th century, "Sonnet 116" is

the most ancient poem in this collection. It has fourteen lines and is

structured into three quatrains and an ending couplet. The rhyme

pattern is ABAB. The main differences with the other poetry is that

Shakespeare doesn't get involved personally in his writing until the

very last lines. He only speaks of love, not loss. There aren't any

marks of his presence, he keeps the tone impersonal and neutral, thus

his poem has a general outreach.

He describes, explains what love really is and, mostly, what it isn't.

He isn't indulgent with people who blame time or "impediments" on the

vanishment of their love. In his opinion, love does not alter "when it

alteration finds" and is not "Time's fool". The metaphor "it is the

star to every wandering bark" depicts love as the guide to every soul

who cannot appreciate the importance of it although it can see "his

height". The second quatrain contains an extended allegory of Love; it

is said to be "an ever-fixed mark", "a star", personnified by the verb

"looks". The third quatrain personnifies Time because love does not

bend unde...

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...uthors deal with the emotions of love and loss. On the one hand,

"Sonnet 116" by William Shakespeare is an explanatory and

argumentative poem about what love should and should not be. He

doesn't speak of his own emotions, it is not a personal poem. On the

other hand, all of the other poems speak of personal experience and

include a certain level of sentimentality. "How do I love Thee" and

"Remember" are the most romantic and emotional poems, probably because

they are written by women. We then have a man's point of view in Lord

Byron's poems "So, We'll Go No More a Roving" and "When We Two

Parted". He writes about the end of relationships and the loss of a

loved one when these separations occur. He treats this theme in an

extremely modern way, making his poems an interesting dramatised

reading in a contemporary context.

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