Argumentative Essay On Family Therapy

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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is hard work and part of that has to do with the distress progress can sometimes create in a family system. Yeah, that's right. We're going to look at how CBT can potentially impact a family from a systems perspective. Why? Because I'm to therapy what Ninjas are to martial arts. Actually, that's not true - I feel really guilty about neglecting the blog since getting a PS4 and Killzone Shadowfall, so I forced myself to write today. CBT is also a short-er term modality, involves homework and the idea of concrete change is on the table a lot sooner than folks may expect. It is not uncommon for clients to get angry at themselves, me, their family members, God, the guy who prepares their bagels in the morning...anyone.... …show more content…

Now this does not mean that the family is the primary contributor to the client's issues. It can mean that, but it can also mean that the issues the client struggles with has, in some way, shaped how the family works. Because of the (relatively) rapid and (sometimes sort of) roller coaster type progress CBT initiates in a client, the family system the individual lives in can become a bit confused and disoriented. Family members may feel an individual is getting worse when he/she may simply be more distressed because they are taking more risks. Other times, family members may feel and express disappointment after a lapse because they were, for a time, noticing progress in a loved one. This can feel disappointing to a client who is being asked, in therapy, to focus more on process in defining success. Family members may also fall back on their old patterns of dealing with their loved one which can not only engender frustration but may create an environment that makes it easy for their loved one to slip back into old patterns longer …show more content…

Family members, like clients, develop workarounds to symptoms in ways they can live with and sometimes these workarounds are time consuming, intricate and exact. Therapists should always leave the option of family involvement on the table for clients. It's even appropriate to make it a condition of treatment sometimes. With adolescents or young adults who do not wish to have family members involved, therapists will sometimes wait until the client feels distressed enough about the family's "push back" to bring the matter of family involvement up again. Once a family is in the room I don't necessarily go through the nitty gritty details of our work but I do speak to the treatment logic that is being used and, in general terms, talk about how families can act to help or hurt the process. Sometimes family members need therapy themselves to adjust to the changes especially if the issues are tied to loss or

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