Adolescences have to face many problems throughout their day. Most teenagers have troubles with being who they are. Teenagers as a whole should take responsibility for those teens that do not fit in with certain groups. From personal experience, everyday you see students being bullied. Bullying is the biggest problem though out the day in high school. There are many ways that we could fix this problem of bullying, considering many students suffer everyday just because they do not fit in.
Adolescence is all about wanting to be able to fit in with your peers. It is a hard thing to not feel accepted in high school. When someone does not feel accepted you can tell because they are always quite and shy. They will usually hang out by themselves instead of in a friend group like other teens might do. Moreover, they do not feel accepted because they are afraid to be who they are. The article “Transgender Girls Parents Lobby for Her Rights to Use the Girls Bathroom” points out, “I just didn’t feel comfortable in my own skin, especially, like, in the bathroom,” (Greenfield). This shows how someone cannot be themselves around other people. Coy just wanted to be accepted as a girl. This quote from the text shows how harsh some people can be towards others when it comes to being able to fit in.
Teenagers should take some responsibility for others that do not fit in. If everyone was willing to make new friends, be nice to everyone, and not be so judgmental toward others, more people would feel comfortable around different friend groups. In the video “People Like Us, Part 4, Most Likely to Succeed”, acknowledges all of the different cliques there are in high school. It listed them off one after another, from the jocks to the geeks, also known...
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...12 year old boy would attempt and succeed at killing someone, but when you want something bad enough you tend to do whatever it takes to get it.
To concluded, teens compromise many things to try to fit in, a lot of students see what happens everyday though out the hallways of their own school. As a whole, adolescence should find ways to stop bulling and become more responsible about it. As I proved in the paragraphs above, teenagers all want to be able to fit in but we come from a society where people are blinded and cannot see the good in people without judging them first.
Works Cited
Greenfield, Beth. “Transgender Girl’s Parents Lobby for Her Right to Use the Bathroom.” Yahoo Shine, 27 Feb 2013. Web. 11 Dec 2013.
“Girl Bullying.” Pittsburg Post-Gazette, Mar 2005. Web. 11 Dec 2013.
Golding, William. Lord of the Flies. Perigee Books: New York, 1954. Print.
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...drama going on in their lives. With the help of the teachers and the bullying awareness program after school, the adolescents will become comfortable in a school environment.
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