The Pressures of Teenage Life

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Teenagers constantly worry about their body image. Magazines, newspapers, and television don’t exactly help to boost their confidence. The portrayal of stick thin woman and body building men forces teens to believe they need to achieve that “perfect” body and look. The biggest issue of these images being broadcasted to teens is the effects that the images have on them. Teenagers who obsess over their body image can experience stress due to trying to impress others, develop an eating disorder, and neglect, and even jeopardize, important aspects of their lives when they focus too much on their body image. Stress is a big part of teenagers’ lives. From school to boyfriends to keeping up with the latest fashion trends, there is already enough stress to deal with. To add to it, teens often spend too much time focusing on how they look. Anna Quindlen, a humorous journalist and novelist, states that she works out three times a week to keep her husband from looking at younger women (283). She is clearly exaggerating the fact that her husband will leave her for someone else, but she is trying to make a point. Although Anna is older and married, she most likely still felt she needed to stay thin to keep guys interested when she was a teenager. Teens feel like they need to stay thin or fit to impress other people, rather than focusing on the good qualities they already have. Others wear a lot of makeup to try to live up to the images portrayed in magazines. Whatever happened to personality is the best quality? Teens are now so focused on how they look that they begin judging each other and forming cliques before they even have a conversation. But it’s hard to have a conversation with someone when their ribs are poking through their shir... ... middle of paper ... ...ng it. Not to say that tattoos and piercings are a bad thing, but when teens choose to get one, they don’t think of the consequences they might have. The images in the media are not going to go away or change, but the way we look at them can. Pointing out the positives in yourself is a great start to having a more positive self-image, and will help you to stop comparing yourself to others. Talking to someone about what is going on is also a big step in the right direction. We are never going to be perfect, but that’s what makes the differences in each of us that much better. Works Cited Maynard, Cindy. “Body Image.” Readings for Writers. Ed. Jo Ray McCuen- Metherell and Anthony C. Walker. Boston: Wadsworth, 2010. Print. Quindlen, Anna. “Stretch Marks.” Readings for Writers. Ed. Jo Ray McCuen- Metherell and Anthony C. Walker. Boston: Wadsworth, 2010. Print.

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