One thing that we all (humans) have in common is that we lie and cheat. At some point of our lives, whether young or old we have been guilty of lying or cheating. The book The Honest Truth About Dishonesty by Dan Ariely delves into the question of why we cheat. He explores this question through numerous experiments, real life examples, and personal encounters. This book has honestly been one of the most interesting books I have ever read. It kept me going from the beginning to end, captivating my attention through every page. The book is balanced between delightful learning and humor. Dan Ariely doesn’t fail in keeping you laughing while learning something new. What I liked most about the book was that it not only entertained me, but also taught me some lessons and helped me learn things that I didn’t know about myself. One of the things that I learned was that we tend to cheat when we are tired (Ariely 97). As we go through our day complete with various stressors (especially me) and saying no, we are more prone to cheating than someone who isn’t as mentally strained. This helped me recognize that by the end of the day I am predisposed to cheating and lying more often. After using so much mental effort it just becomes easier to do the wrong thing. This reminded me of what we talked about in class about system 1 and system 2 thinking. We naturally used our system 1 thinking because it’s our default, but through the day we still use our system 2 thinking which uses a lot more mental effort. We are essentially miserly by this point. Because we use so much mental effort, we immediately go back into system 1 thinking which would make it easier to cheat. You can see this in one of Ariely’s experiments involving the Stroop Task (Ar... ... middle of paper ... ...r he explained the right answer I was still confused. After looking at the question over and over I could not see the answer he got. This made me question this specific experiment. If I was not able to understand whether I was truly right or wrong, how would the participants feel? Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed reading Ariely’s book. It was a pleasant, refreshing, and easy read that I would recommend to anyone. It doesn’t focus on one type of audience; rather it engages many different kinds of people ranging from CEOs to golfers to fashonistas. There is a section for everybody. But the most wonderful thing about this book is that it is humbling. It is pretty rare to find a book that can be entertaining, knowledgeable, and teach you something about yourself. The Honest Truth About Dishonesty is an impeccable book and I would advise you to go to the bookstore now!
Richard Gunderman asks the question, "Isn 't there something inherently wrong with lying, and “in his article” Is Lying Bad for Us?" Similarly, Stephanie Ericsson states, "Sure I lie, but it doesn 't hurt anything. Or does it?" in her essay, "The Ways We Lie.” Both Gunderman and Ericsson hold strong opinions in regards to lying and they appeal to their audience by incorporating personal experiences as well as references to answer the questions that so many long to confirm.
William Damon uses the classical rhetorical devices of logos, pathos and ethos to convince his audience of the urgency to address the decline of honesty. He provides a balanced assessment of the need for discretion in specific circumstance, the expectation of lying that leads to the decline in honesty, and the outright accommodation to cheat without consequence. By alluding to historical attitudes regarding honesty, Damon provides a vast background to support his thesis. His essay successfully evokes a response to this current situation of decline in honesty, and creates an urgent call for action to restore the virtue of honesty. As a society, the audience would likely agree with Damon that the virtue of honesty is fundamental to the success of democracy and we would desire to espouse to the protection of this jeopardized virtue.
Although it is considered wrong to tell lies, it seems that literature has offered us situations where telling lies isn’t necessarily bad. Of course, lying often has a tragic outcome, but not always for the person or people who told the lie or lies. Oftentimes, these unfortunate outcomes are directed at the person about whom the lie was told. Furthermore, these stories have explained that dishonesty can result in success for both the liar and the target. Maybe we have been teaching the wrong values to our children.
Lying is an issue that has been debated on for a long time. Some people believe that lying is sometimes ok in certain circumstances. Some people believe lying is always acceptable. In contrast, some believe lying is always bad. Keeping all other’s opinions in mind, I believe that lying is a deficient way of solving problems and is a bad thing. I claim that only certain situations allow the usage of lies and that otherwise, lying is bad. Dishonesty is bad because it makes it harder to serve justice, harms the liar individually, and messes up records. Furthermore, it should only be said to protect someone from grave danger.
In short story “The Cheater’s Guide to Love,” written by Junot Diaz, we observe infidelity and the negative effects it has on relationships. Anyone who cheats will eventually get caught and will have to deal with the consequences. People tend to overlook the fact that most relationships are unlikely to survive after infidelity. Trust becomes an issue after someone has been unfaithful. Yunior, the main character in this story, encounters conflict as he struggles to move on with his life after his fiancée discovers that he has been unfaithful. Over a six-year period, the author reveals how his unfaithfulness has an effect on his health and his relationships.
Have you ever imagined a world without any family or your annoying friends texting you every second. In today’s technologically advanced world the answer is probably no, because communication via technology is ubiquitous, whether you live in the deserts of Africa or New York city. But this technology did not exist in 1929 during the era of depression. John Steinbeck’s Of mice and men depicts solitude and the distrustful nature of mankind during the Great Depression. This sense of isolation is best portrayed by Crooks and Candy.
American writer and speaker, Dorothy Allison, once said “things come apart so easily when they have been held together by lies” (Allison). One of the first lessons that kids are taught is to be honest and always tell the truth. Being honest is not always easy, but the result of lying is much worse then telling the truth. In Animal Farm, George Orwell demonstrates how lies and deceit will ruin society if everyone always believes what the leader says, people lie to themself, and if laws are changed to benefit the group in power.
Stephanie Ericsson’s The Ways We Lie, analyzes and reflects on how lying has simply become the norm in our society. We all lie, there is not one person in the world that does not lie. Most people lie because they are afraid of telling the truth, however what they do not know is telling a lie can lead them in the wrong direction because many things can happen when lying to a person. The person can find out when everything unravels that person will not have trust in you and you would be known as a liar. To every action there is a consequence, so why not deal with just one consequence when telling the
“Honor pledges, signature placement, moral reminder, and supervision”, are factors that (incite) dishonesty, according to Dan Ariley’s essay “Why We Lie”. Dishonesty is a very wide question with a lot of answers. As a college student, cheating is a very common option amongst students.
Through out history people have been influenced by what they want to hear and the way a current trend is happening. The evolution of mankind has drifted towards a different society than what we where born to sustain. We are emotionally driven human beings that want to feel accepted by the rules of society. Sometimes an individual can confuse actions or emotions towards trying to fulfill the standards society has imposed. I have analyzed two articles that incorporate how a society reacts towards integrity as well as honesty and the belief that an individual in order to be a part of society one must comply with the standards that are set. As I began to interpret what Stephen L. Carter explained in “The Insufficiency of Honesty” I examined they
When parents tell their children how great the pictures they drew in school even though were realistically mediocre, is a primary example of dishonesty for the better of others. One of the roles of parents is to provide their children with optimism and support so they learn to be motivated and strive for success. Despite their children’s flaws in certain skills, parents feel obligated to provide them with dishonesty because their kids desire positivity about themselves. Lying is one way to protect people’s feelings about themselves.
To live a life of lying can ruin trust in relationships. For example, in the article,” Honestly Tell the Truth,” it states,” Many people think they are telling the truth, but they don’t because they withhold information,” says Brad Blanton (5). Even if you think you’re telling the truth you might not, you can be adding stuff that didn’t happen. Blanton wants you to have the audacity to be honest and have a relationship based on reality. In addition, in the same article it states,” I have Republican friends who I play
Honesty and integrity are very important in the medical field. We as healthcare workers are given such trust and responsibility. We should always strive to do our best and when faced with tough situations. When we don't always know what to do or the proper way to react we should always be honest. Let our superiors know what is going on and ask for advice when we need to. This would show that we are honest. When we come into contact with patients they rely on us to do the right thing and always perform our job with integrity. Often people’s lives are in our hands. We have to care about the patient and care about our job in order to continue to provide quality care. If someone hates their job they are not going to give their best in every way they can. The medical field is not a place for that person.
For quite some time, I had looming suspicions that my best friend of about three years was a pathological liar. Initially, I would simply dismiss these instincts of mine as mere speculation for the reason that anything he said that sounded “off” was almost always trivial and unimportant. After all, he would often use hyperbole when sharing anecdotes for comedic effect.
Honesty is a characteristic that everyone should possess. However, being honest is a difficult task for many people. Living honestly means allowing a person’s true self to be exposed to others. Honesty is considered owning up to one’s wrongdoings and not lying, cheating, or stealing. Being honest is a trait that many people believe is obsolete. Even though every person interprets honesty differently, it all stems back to telling the truth. Being honest allows a person to earn respect from their peers. Honesty is allowing oneself to be completely exposed by being truthful.