The Lie Of Honesty: Article Analysis

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Imagine this! You and your friend are about to go to a party. However, your friend isn’t dressed up so satisfying. They ask you, “ Do I look good?” What would you say? I firmly believe that lying is unacceptable in our society.
To live a life of lying can ruin trust in relationships. For example, in the article,” Honestly Tell the Truth,” it states,” Many people think they are telling the truth, but they don’t because they withhold information,” says Brad Blanton (5). Even if you think you’re telling the truth you might not, you can be adding stuff that didn’t happen. Blanton wants you to have the audacity to be honest and have a relationship based on reality. In addition, in the same article it states,” I have Republican friends who I play …show more content…

For example, in the article,” Rejecting All Lies,” it states that a lie always harms mankind and the liar.(Brad,4) This can ruin the liars dignity and make him or her feel worthless. This is what lying can do to you. In addition, in the same article it states,” To be called a liar is a moral insult, it can cause harm, maybe even for legal action or duel, to be proved a liar could lead to self-exile, out of shame,” says Immanuel Kant 18th century German philosopher. (4) He’s trying to tell us that lying can cause self-harm when called a liar. This is why he rejects all lies. As a result, this is why lying makes you less of a human being.
Some people may argue that lying is ok to protect someone’s feelings. Those who believe say, that if your friend is wearing an ugly dress and they ask you if they look superb. You would say,”Yes,” right? This argument is wrong because if they go out with that same dress on and they get made fun of they will blame it on you. This is why you should tell the truth, not blunt but nicely so you can keep friendships and relationships.
Lying isn’t welcome in our world. Losing trust in relationships because of lying. Lying isn’t OK because it makes people feel less of a person. Lying can ruin your

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