The Great Gatsby Dialectical Journal

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Helen, As I have thought and prayed a bit more about what you have experienced this weekend it strikes me that as you entered it with the expectation that it was a beginning, Ruben entered it with a number of lines drawn in the sand that He knew he couldn’t cross, and was entering the weekend seeking to discover where you stood in relationship to those lines before he took the risk of allowing his heart to get too attached. If he had, he may have found himself in a position later on having to decide between what his heart wanted and erasing the line he had drawn and stood behind for so long. As hard as this may be to understand, in many ways the decision has very little to do with the real you, and more to do with the wishdream he has been holding onto. I know it doesn’t ease the pain, and it may not even help with the confusion you are feeling, but I think it is true. He has an idea of what perfect looks like and he is committed to holding on to it. He has held it for 32 years. Maybe he …show more content…

You deserve a man who does not expect you to be perfect, but who is willing to go all out in his love for you, exactly as Christ did for the church. You deserve a love marked by giving, not getting. Christ’s love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness. And that is how your future husband ought to love you (before you think me too profound, I stole much of this paragraph from Ephesians 5). This is the man I am praying God brings to you. He will not be perfect at it in the beginning, but he ought to at least be point this direction. Many men will say they are shooting for this target, but it is their actions and their words which really tell the

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