The Gift of Pain

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At some point in our lives we all experience suffering. Whether it’s pain caused by an emotionally abusive partner, a narcissistic mother, a neglectful guardian, mental illness, the pain of a separation, or physical ailments; all of us at some point in time will be scarred by the act of living. When we’re faced with these challenges often the pain can feel like it’s too much to bear. We wonder if we’ll ever be whole, if the pain will ever subside, or if we can continue to live at all. It’s difficult to see the big picture when you’re so close to the canvas. However, after some time has passed, or some distance has been placed between yourself and the source of pain, most of us find that life indeed does go on: We can feel whole again, the pain becomes less intrusive. What we also find is that all the pain and suffering may have been “a gift.” Even a lingering state of morose can be “a gift.”

After all, it’s a fairly common folk wisdom that depression and pain can lead to greater creativity. Aristotle stated in the 4th century B.C. “that all men who have attained excellence in philosophy, in poetry, in art and in politics, even Socrates and Plato, had a melancholic habitus; indeed some suffered even from melancholic disease.” Artists throughout the ages have been afflicted with both depression and madness at a fairly consistent rate. Virginia Woolf, for example, at the age of 59, after struggling with manic depression her entire life, filled her pockets with rocks and walked into the River Ouse. Vincent Van Gogh cut off his own ear, and Edvard Munch, who painted The Scream, once said “Sickness, insanity and death were the angels that surrounded my cradle and they have followed me throughout my life” (Sussman).

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In conclusion, the “darkness” can be a gift. It can also be a curse. Your ability to choose which one tips the scale may partially be determined by your chemical makeup. However, for most of us, the onus of choice lies with us. You can choose to see the “darkness” as a gift or a curse. The truth, more than likely, it that it’s a bit of both, and like most things in life the trick is striking a balance you can live with.

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