Father of the Bride ( 1950 )
Cast: Spencer Tracy (Stanley T. Banks), Joan Bennett (Ellie Banks), Elizabeth Taylor ( Katherine “Kay” Banks), Don Taylor (Buckley Dunstan), and others
Director: Vincente Minnelli
Synopsis: The movie is in both comedy and romance when it was released on June 16, 1950. The film tells the tale of a father who is very set in his old ways and stereotypes. His twenty year old daughter is ready for things to change and very unconventionally tells them she is going to get married. Throughout the film we witness the father’s struggle with letting go of not only his daughter, but the past traditions he has always known. The night before the wedding Stanley has a dream in which his worse fears come to life. It is during
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The father’s character is an easy to relate to as most fathers share his thoughts to some degree. In the opening scene we see him sitting in a chair trying to recover from his daughter wedding reception, that has just ended at their home. He tells of all he has learned, and things he was wrong about. He goes on to compare the news of his daughter 's marriage to that of a storm breaking. “It was a day like any other day, and then it hit.” The scene played out is easily compared to that of other shows of that time and life in the early 1950’s. The wife/mother, stays at home and the kids have their certain roles to fill as well. It is like that, but different in some ways as well, you see the boys are not at home for dinner and off doing their own things, yet have a plate set at the table. Kay calls her dad pops, she loves him but thinks him old fashioned. It is at the dinner table that the Stanley, the father, starts to notice something is different about his daughter and tries to figure it out. She lets on at this Buckley that she is head over heals for. Her mother asks, “are you going to marry Buckley” to which Kay replies, “I guess I will”. The father begins trying to figure out who this Buckley is and runs down a long list of boys who Kay had brought to the house. Stanley has something negative about each one of these boys, “the one with the teeth”, …show more content…
This is yet another comparison of the old ways to new modern ideas. Needless to say he never gets to make his big speech he has prepared for his daughter and all the guest. The house is too small, they had to use the church for the wedding, the food, the clothes, the cake the bills keep mounting as does Stanley stress over the wedding. Atlast it is the night before the wedding, but Stanley can’t sleep. He tosses and turns and begins to dream. This is the point in the film with a clear tie to Dali and his idea of surrealism. He can see himself arriving at the church, and he is late. His eyes are a focal point at the top of the screen (again the eye). He can’t seem to move his feet and begins to be sucked into the floor one foot at a time. As he pulls his leg free his pants are torn and tattered, then it is arms. In the background we hear the wedding march but in a warped kind of way. We see the horrified faces of the wedding guest as Stanley keeps trying to get down the aisle. Suddenly the floor turns like a bounce house, but with glue on it, pulling off his pants leaving him in only rags. His daughters screams at the altar and this wakes him up from his nightmare. This dream state paints a clear picture of all Stanley’s fears. That is doesn’t know this Buckley fella, he is going to go broke
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. . .” implies the narrator can only see through so much of the door, his sight is restricted to only his father. This allows for a very strong description of his father in the moment. The narrators’ father was walking towards his bedroom with his back to his wife. He had clearly dismissed his wife’s’ argument until she cruelly remarked “Well, I hope you 'll be satisfied when they come home knocked up and you 'll have had your way.” (Alistair Macleod 229). Without stopping, revealing how shocked he was to hear this, he turns around. He is mid stride, but so taken back that he spins to face her. The offence that he feels is a result of his opinion that it would be best for his children to find a better way of life than his own. His children have an opportunity for a much more fulfilling life and he wants nothing more than for them to pursue it. This would seemingly be a goodtime for him to explain to his wife the way he feels; instead he holds it in, knowing that she would not understand. By turning back around without saying a word the only statement he makes is that he is mad. In this moment he is described as looking old and hard worked, though very
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...ices, such an attempt to elicit sympathy for this monster falls short” (Bell 2). Stanley is looked at as the monster of the play which is how he should be viewed. Luck was not on Blanches side through her life which made her make the mistakes she made. Even though her past was not clean, Stanley did not purge her of this. He tried to show her the reality of the world, but through his brutal treatment, only made her sensibility worse. Stanley is a primitive ape-like man, driven only by instinct, who views women as objects and has no respect for others. He is a wife batter and a rapist who is responsible for the crumbling sanity of Blanche who is “the last victim of the Old South, one who inherits the trappings of that grand society but pays the final price for the inability to adapt to a modern world that seeks to wipe grace and gentility out of existence” (Bell 2).
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...t people around Elysian Fields were living a contrasting lifestyle from theirs. That “their” type is not the one they’re used to. Stella and Blanche were raised on a plantation with money, while Stanley and his friends were poor and uneducated. The conflict began when these two classes were pushed together in the same world. This is shown when Stanley and Blanche meet each other, and their opposite lifestyles are obvious. Stanley is sweaty, dirty, and rude; whereas Blanche is well dressed and soft spoken.
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