Lauren Hooks
CSME 1491
QBQ! The Question Behind the Question
The Question Behind the Question is a book that begs the question of personal accountability. Too often we go through life without power because when things happen we look to point the finger. This book empowers the individual by seeking to change the way that we respond. When we take matters into our own hands we can determine our own reality.
Throughout the text, the author shows us how much power the words that we use have over the outcome of any situation. Words like “When, Who, and Why” unknowingly create an outcome that is seemingly out of our hands. With these words we seek to remove the problem from ourselves or put it off until later which can be very dangerous. When using the word “Who” we seek to place blame on someone else. The word “When” seeks to buy time which will eventually be wasted through procrastination. The word “Why” lives in the past and acts as if we are helpless to do anything about the problem now. Words like “What” and “How” are the first steps to solving a problem which will make you a more productive individual.
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Personal Accountability lies within the individual.
Seeking to blame in any situation renders one powerless in the problem solving process. Instead we must focus on asking questions that contain “I.” If there is an “I” in the question, then only I can solve it. Frequently there are road blocks in life that we cannot destroy. The successful person concentrates on what I can accomplish as opposed to what “They” have done to stop me. Successful individuals seek only to make progress in spite of whatever may get in their way. Continuous forward movement, no matter how big or small, is what will get you to the finish
line. The ultimate “Question Behind the Question” will lead to action. Actions give us the power and momentum that we need to succeed. Start with “What or How”, add “I” and an action that moves you towards your goal. If we train our minds to think in this way then there is nothing that we cannot achieve! Instead of focusing on the negative things that are sure to come our way and seek to stop us in our tracks; we must flip to the positive things that we have the power to do. Often times we are afraid to take action but the opposite is standing still which leads to stagnation and loss of the dream. If we dare to move forward then we can learn new questions to ask. In order to be successful at life we must be present and absent of fear and doubt. This book has given many the confidence to be accountable and courageous. After reading you cannot help but take a leap of faith. The change of thought will change your life!
Conover inferred many times that when something bad happens there will always be another person pointing the finger at another o...
Why is it that we as human beings feel the need to blame someone for every negative situation, which occurs? If we really look at the situation with any great depth, we may discover that an almost endless amount of things may be 'blamed' for the tragedy blaming an individual is pointless - only fate can really be blamed.
The article that I will be summarizing is “Half of Teens Think They’re Addicted to Their Smartphones” written by Kelly Wallace. This article is about how teens are addicted to their smartphones and how it is becoming a problem. The text is stating facts about how many teens and adults use their smartphones. Teens depend on their phone greatly which can make it hard to get off of it. This does worry people. Teens also say they check their phone hourly, so they also feel that they need to respond to texts and social networking messages immediately. Teens are not the only ones that are addicted though. Even parents have trouble getting off the phone to enjoy life. If you have this trouble and feel like you want to get on
I think this practice is best exemplified when people are stuck in agitated/unsettled states. For example, when there’s a long line at the bank and a specific person is taking a long time with one of the tellers. Someone in line who is late for work might begin to project the negative aspects of his/her situation towards the person holding up the line, who is unintentionally making him or her even more late. The person working with the teller likely has no intention on making the person in line late, however it is easier to blame others for our situation rather than to accept personal responsibility. I see it more as way to push our own problems on
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Scapegoats appear abundant in the world today. Political parties and businesses consistently seem to find a person or small group that takes the blame for serious issues. This can cause problems and arguments that sometimes lead to something serious like wars. Scapegoats are just a way of passing blame off of oneself and on to others, just so reputations can remain intact. This sort of attitude shows how lethargic the world has become, where people don’t even take responsibility for their actions. Many people from older generations complain about how all the new generations become too comatose and unwilling to take on their own actions and indiscretions. With attitudes like this, peace will never be found and will inevitably lead to conflict. Something must be done to stem the flow of scapegoats which have been utilized far too much over time.
Responsibility: jy717 (1999) wondered "1) to what extent is each tragic hero responsible for his own downfall? 2) to what extent does each hero take responsibility for his actions?"
There are many types of people in this world; there are athletic people, artistic people, smart people, and not the brightest people. Most importantly, there are Creators and Victims. In Dr. Skip Downing’s book, On Course: Strategies for Creating Success in College and in Life, he describes who Creators and Victims are. Downing says, “A mindset is a collection of beliefs and attitudes.” (42) A Creator is a person who has a mindset of thinking differently about the choices that they make by not blaming anyone for their mistakes and take responsibility for their actions, leading them to better outcomes. I for one, am a Creator and do not push my actions towards others. A Victim is a person who is not as persistent with their choices and tends to not take responsibility for their actions.
Kane, Robert. "Free Will: Ancient Dispute, New Themes." Feinberg, Joel and Russ Safer-Landau. Reason and Responsibility: Readings in Some Basic Problems of Philosophy. Boston: Wadsworth, Cengage Learning, 2013. 425-437. Print.
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