Social Observation In Childhood

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I observed a child at the elementary school I was working at for SERVE while he was playing during lunch. I first walked around the playground during recess to get a feel for the school and the students on their breaks. As I sat down on a bench near the playground I noticed there was a lot of segregation between genders throughout the activities. For example, I saw that the girls were more likely to be found playing “house”, hopscotch or playing with other girls whereas the boys gravitated towards the more physical activities such as sports like football, kickball and basketball. Although there were expectations for both groups around the playground jungle gym area with monkey bars, slides and more, that had an equal balance of boys and girls. I chose to focus on a boy, around seven or eight years old, who was socializing with others and engaging in various activities.
The young boy started off his lunch recess on the jungle gym. He had a few other friends (boys and girls) around him and they were all showing off their skills on the monkey bars. Then, one of his friends started to what looked like to be a competition to see who could race across the monkey bars the fastest and the rest of the group seemed to follow along by starting to race. A boy who was not part of the original group walked towards the monkey bars and did not seem to be very happy or even have a friendly approach walking toward the group. When he made it up to the group, it did not look like a friendly conversation, it looked as if he had said something mean or rude to upset the boy I was observing. The newer boy could have teased him in an instrumentally aggressive fashion “to gain peer approval,” or he may have said something relationally aggressive “inte...

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...tion via his aggressive behavior. Additionally, they did not seem to notice the “neglected children” that I saw sitting or playing by themselves for the entire lunch break (Lightfoot et al, 2013, pp. 484-485). Furthermore, the children spent a large portion of time in gender separate groups, although opposite sex interactions did occur throughout games and discussions of rules.
My observation at the elementary school gave me a better understanding of the behavioral and cognitive characteristics that are typical of middle childhood. I saw how highly they value the stability given by rules, and the ways in which they interact among the social structures. I also noticed the seven year old boy have incredible self-control and the way his friends empathized with him afterwards. Finally, I witnessed the behavioral aspect of Piaget’s concrete operational stage in action.

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