Should Homosexuals be able to adopt or foster care to children?

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If there are over two million LGB (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) people willing to adopt a child, why not give a child a permanent home? There are over 65,000 adopted children and 14,000 foster children in the U.S. that are being raised in homes headed by non-heterosexual individuals or couples (Evan B. 2011). To let same sex couples adopt has been a huge deal throughout the United States for the past years that some states even banned them from ever adopting. Many lesbian and gay couples have been denied the application to adopt due to agencies that have negative views towards the couple because of religion or other beliefs. Everyone no matter who they are have “equal rights” and those rights are disrespected daily when it comes to homosexuals adopting or even thinking of becoming a parent themselves. Even though it is said children need both a male and a female parent to psychologically develop properly, homosexual couples should have the ability to adopt because they are equally capable of raising a child as a heterosexual couple.
People say that a child needs both a male and a female figure in their life to psychologically develop properly but;
Scientific studies have shown that children who grow up in one or two-parent gay or lesbian households fare just as well emotionally and socially as children whose parents are heterosexual. Studies have shown that children are more influenced by their interactions with their parents, than by their sexual orientation. (Kathy Belge, 2014)

(Picture by: Children adopted by gay and lesbian couples, September 3rd, 2010)
A mother and a father figure will always give you love and affection while the mother teaches you morality, the father teaches you discipline. People see ho...

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...ian and Gay Parents in the United States. Retrieved May 14, 2014, from http://www.urban.org/publications/411437.html
JaeRan, K. (2013, March 5). Report on children adopted by gay and lesbian couples - Stability, Permanency and Adoption Blog. Report on children adopted by gay and lesbian couples - Stability, Permanency and Adoption Blog. Retrieved May 13, 2014, from http://blog.lib.umn.edu/cascw/adoption/2013/03/report-on-children-adopted-by-gay-and-lesbian-couples.html
Do you think homosexual parents should be able to foster children?. (n.d.). The Premier Online Debate Website. Retrieved May 14, 2014, from http://www.debate.org/opinions/do-you-think-homosexual-parents-should-be-able-to-foster-children
LGBT Adoption Statistics. (n.d.). LGBT Adoption. Retrieved May 13, 2014, from http://www.lifelongadoptions.com/lgbt-adoption/lgbt-adoption-statistics

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