Self Care: The Importance Of Mental Health

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Despite being in a selfish generation, we forget to care about what is really going on in front of us. Mental health is very important to any individual. What we experience in our day to day lives has an impact on how we think. The people in our lives can help us get through these experiences and help us create some new memories along the way. My mother has always let me know how important self care was. You are going to live with yourself everyday, you should love the person you are. In a society that is so self obsessed, we fail to ask ourselves how we are truly feeling behind closed doors. We spend so much time in the day trying to conform to society and their standards that we lose our true selves and throw who we really are in a dark, …show more content…

In 8th grade, I told myself that I was going to change my life. I made this decision for myself and nobody else. I bleached my hair, surrounded myself with new friends and threw away any negative energy holding me down. Though this was helpful for a short amount of time, happiness is internal. You must let go of what is holding you down. Along with letting go, trust issues can be a huge problem. The one time I tried opening up, I did it to the wrong person. They ended up going behind my back and telling people who had no business knowing what I was going through. If I wanted them to know, I would have told them. Trust is a precious thing. You have to learn to trust those who allow you to open up. I started journal writing in the middle of my 8th grade year just to have something to always express my ideas in. When you bottle things up, they consume you and your ideas. You have to release in order to feel free. The weight off of your shoulders can lead you to a new chapter in your …show more content…

It takes a lot of growing mentally and emotionally. When I finally became content with who I was, I sat my mom down and opened up to her. I shut everyone out of my life and my mom was excluded from a lot of my personal issues. It turns out that we had both been through the same experiences. I had shut her out because I thought she would not have understood or would have judged me because of what I had been through. She was very comforting and sensitive towards my feelings. She told me, “No matter what you go through you will always have me to turn to.” Sometimes you have to be selfish and be there completely for yourself. We only suffer what we

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