Self-Absergation: The Motivator Of Self Abnegation

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The Motivator of Self Abnegation An individual's internal values have the capacity to persuade them into doing what they otherwise wouldn’t be inclined to do. These sacrifices are made in the name of the "Greater Good", when a person's ideals lead them to visualize only what they want to protect, rather than themselves. Often humans are perceived as a selfish species, but as other species do, we also have protective instincts, and when those instincts kick in, we have the capacity to be remarkably self-abnegating. Self-abnegation is a quality that all of us obtain for something, but that something depends entirely on our person's values. Our values are the motivator for sacrificing ourselves. This selfless quality reveals itself when the circumstances …show more content…

Julia has become one of the sparse people during the Second World War to stand up against Nazism and acknowledge that it's wrong. This is her internal value. Her instinct to protect is targeted towards the discriminated Jews, political people, Socialists, Communists, and Catholic dissenters. She has evidently gone to great lengths to protect them and in the process overlooked herself, now left with her crutches and an amputated leg. Julia seems to even be ostensibly contented with the outcome of losing her leg, perhaps believing that her cause is much greater than something as trivial as her personal limb. "Stop the tears" Julia continuously insists to Lilly, denying any pity that anybody should feel for her. She insists on continuing life as she ordinarily would, and even still fights for the same cause after the amputation. To Julia, the loss of her leg has been justified through the fight against Nazism. Her limb isn't the only thing that Julia has found worth the sacrifice during the pursuance of her cause. Later in the story, Julia states that she has a baby. She does on to explain that the baby doesn't even live with her, instead of living on the other side of the border. Julia keeps her baby safe by leaving her at other people's homes, sacrificing the time and connection that a mother would otherwise …show more content…

The difference is that the values the sacrifice centers on are entirely the other end of the spectrum. The person in my life who has also gone to great lengths to sacrifice is my Mom. She has said that for as long as she can remember, that one of the things that she was always sure she wanted in her life was children. This, obviously, got fulfilled, as she got married at only twenty one and soon had my brother and I. For her entire life, as a stay at home mom, she sacrificed everything for us and our family, losing friendships due to the time she had to spend with us, taking on gruesome jobs, and most of all, sacrificing her time. Day in and day out she's spent 24/7 using the time she will never get back to raise us the best she could. This time is something that is irreparable, but my Mom's values were what gave her the capacity to make this immense self-sacrifice. In contrast to what Julia did, my Mom chose to pursue her family and that child-to-mother connection over what would be seen by the commoner as her "greater purpose" and meaning in life. To Julia it was the fight against Nazism, to my Mom it would have been her passion for music. For the past eighteen years, she has put music on the back of the shelf (much like Julia put her daughter on the back of the self over the border) and set us as her priority. Now, with her kids almost ready to leave the nest, she is able to start picking up music

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