You ain’t shit, or to put it in a more colloquial term. MEN ARE TRASH. Does that offend you? Are you triggered? Good that mean you have some maturing and self reflecting to do. All over social media and in society the words ‘Men Are Trash’ are being plastered all over and I am so here for it. Now before you jump to conclusions hear me out. For decades and even to this day men have been and are at the top of the social hierarchy and I support that completely. I firmly believe men have such a huge responsibility in society and have a greater purpose and there are certain things that men can do that women simply cant. Sorry not sorry feminists. Men are biologically stronger than women. Accept it and move on. That’s not to say women are …show more content…
When we actually analyse and look deeper into the roots of the problem, when and how “men are trash” existed and why men continue to disregard their wrongdoings instead of changing our ways.. For the mere fact that you condone certain utterances and acts among your friends make you trash. What many fail to understand is that you honestly don’t have to be an abuser or rapist to be trash, but at some point, you ignored the fact that your friend would loosely call a woman a “bitch” or witnessed your friend mistreat his girlfriend ( verbally or physically ) and stood idling by or even encouraged him. That is where the trashness occurs, by not showing one another “the way” or calling them out. So from a young age men have been taught to protect, be providers, be strong and women have been taught to aspire to be gracious, maternal and ideally the perfect wife and mother and that message has been promoted throughout various media formats from the movies we watched as children to the toys marketed to us and that the ideology that’s been engraved in our minds that men are providers and
The topics that Joe Ehrmann uses as framework for his Building Men for Others program are quite intriguing and make you really question masculinity. The first topic, rejecting false masculinity, can be interpreted a few different ways. In the book, it states: “As young boys, we’re told to be men, or to act like men” soon followed with “we’ve got all these parents say ‘be a man’ to boys that have no concept of what that means. I completely agree with the statement of Joe Ehrmann and often question the definition of ‘being a man’. Many boys and men will reject the idea of a man being anything other than being big and strong or having power. Overall instead of a true definition of a man, kids and even adults interpret it as athletic ability, sexual conquest, and economic success. The second topic Joe speaks about is the relationships that make a real man. In the book it states “the number one complaint I hear from most wives is ‘My husband has no relationships with other men.’ In other words, most
Woman can not understand the concept that not all men think all the time. They sometimes have boxes that are just empty and they seem as though they are staring off into space and not thinking of anything. Men also have the power to block out all other noise when they are trying to focus on one box, this is what women call selective listening. Not quite this is the cause of men being simple minded and not being able to focus on one this at a time. The men in this book seem to have problems understanding what women need and what they want to have, which is a man to love. This book also brings up stereotypes that characterize men and women. Such as woman are worse drivers, more emotionally in control and better at day-to-day decision making ,while men seem to be more focused on tools, sports, and sex. Which seems to point out the differences of men to
A woman’s only job is to stay at home, take care of her family, and pleasure her man. What is a man’s job? “Men, they do everything,” quoted a fellow male classmate, “Men get the real money.” But it is the twenty-first century! Women are no longer expected to stay at home; they have taken roles as teachers, doctors, C.E.O.s, part of the military, and the list goes on. As for men, it is now acceptable for them to stay at home, take care of their families or even become nannies and nurses. Will Meek, creator of website “Psychology of Men”, defined gender role as a set of attitudes, behaviors, and self-presentation methods ascribed to members of a certain biological sex. Gender roles have changed throughout the course of American history; both sexes have come so far from sexist stereotypes that resulted from societal expectations that existed in the past.
‘Women and men are different. Equal treatment of men and women does not result in equal outcomes.’ (Corsten Report, 16: 2007) According to Covington and Bloom (2003) numerous feminist writers have demonstrated and documented the patriarchal nature of our society and the variety of ways in which the patriarchal values serve masculine needs. ‘Despite claims to the contrary, masculinist epistemologies are built upon values that promote masculine needs and desires, making all others invisible’ (Kaschak, 11: 1992).
The Bro Code breaks down the establishment and encouragement of sexism into four “steps” that society uses to form sexist men (Keith). These steps are: “1. Train Men to Womanize, 2. Immerse Men in Porn, 3. Make Rape Jokes 4. Obey the Masculinity Cops”(Keith). Thomas Keith begins by addressing the fact that he grew up in this “bro culture” and that men today are continually taught to have the same mentality that Keith had when he was younger. However, he claims that “bro culture” has changed and has become a more “dangerous sexist” (Keith). Our culture continually promotes this behavior through music, television and media, all which tell men that in order to be successful and true men they must be rich, strong and surrounded by women.
... be stronger and faster than any woman whatever is obviously absurd.” (P.734) This statement shows you exactly how I feel. Women can do the same thing that man can do. I feel that Germaine Greer’s view on man and how men have to be better then women is correct but women are starting to change it.
“It is not probable that the greater strength of man was primarily acquired through the inherited effects of his having worked harder than woman for his own subsistence and that of his family; for the women in all barbarous nations are compelled to work at least as hard as the men” (234). Men may usually be stronger than women but it’s not necessarily always true. Women could be just as strong as men if the cultural and beauty standards were different and if it was what women desired. This idea has evolved from social factors being implemented more than evolution or biology.
When someone is thinking of a man, what do they think? Strong? Brave? That’s what most people think; in reality that is a very false image. In “Bros Before Hos: The Guy Code,” Michael Kimmel, talks about what it means to be a man and what it takes to be a man in today’s world. Men are pressured into what they “should” be. If they don’t follow certain unwritten rules, which include: not asking for directions, not giving up, not showing fear, or any signs of emotional weakness, such as tears; they are considered less than a man, a wimp. A real man must be aggressive and brave, he must defend his territory: status, family, possessions. Men blindly follow the Guy Code, they believe in order to fit in, they must comply and be part of the pack.
Men were taught to be superior to women since the dawn of time, whereas females were looked down upon. Ruled by patriarchy, it was hard for most of these women to do more than just be a stay at home wife. In some of the stories we have read, the women were portrayed as submissive, obedient, with no voice. Women have struggled to break out of this mold and find a voice for themselves. However, some managed to break out of these expectations and standards. Women and men have had to fulfill different set standards before anyone had stepped foot outside the womb. For both genders those standards came with different expectations.
Within the “social norms” men/boys are labeled to bet the masculine figure in society while women the most feminine. Men play this role well by always fighting for the title of alpha male. This is something that has been put on us humans since the beginning of time by pretty much everything. Because of this, we are set to think a specific way and act. Women are always portrayed as the caretaker, the housekeeper, and children bearer.
Women and men are nestled into predetermined cultural molds when it comes to gender in American society. Women play the roles of mothers, housekeepers, and servants to their husbands and children, and men act as providers, protectors, and heads of the household. These gender roles stem from the many culture myths that exist pertaining to America, including those of the model family, education, liberty, and of gender. The majority of these myths are misconceptions, but linger because we, as Americans, do not analyze or question them. The misconception of gender suggests that biological truths no longer dictate our gender roles as men and women; they derive from cultural myths. We, as a nation, need to do severe critical thinking about this delusion of gender, how has limited us in the home, media, and education, how it currently limits us, and what the results of the current and future changes in gender roles will be.
“The expression ‘Be a man!’ strikes me as insulting.”(P.Theroux, pg 567) This bold statement is made by author Paul Theroux in his composition Being a Man. Theroux argues that from boyhood men are forced to be things that they are not. They are viewed by others so stereotypically, the author describes the expected qualities of a man as the following:
Men have assumed a more aggressive and dominant role “Many traditional gender-based stereotypes are widely accepted in our society. Someof the prevailing notions about men maintain that they are aggressive” (Crooks and Bauer, 2014: p 134), whereas, woman are supposed to nature and run the household “Women are frequently viewed as nonassertive, illogical, emotional, subordinate, warm, and nurturing (Crooks and Buaer, 2014: p 134). However, in today’s society gender equality has become a more common practice where both sexes take on masculine and feminine roles to in every day life “Research suggests that women are less entrenched than men in rigid gender-role stereotypes and are more inclined to embrace positions of equality with men (Ben-David & Schneider, 2005)” as cited in (Crooks and Bauer, 2014: p 135). Due to ability to work from home, woman have accepted a modern role of holding a career as well as raising a family and men are seen working and helping out with regular house hold chores. People are beginning to conform to are less traditional view, but in my personal experience woman still hold a more traditional role and men are still the primary providers for a family. Women tend to be stay at home moms and only work part time jobs, while men establish a career and focus primarily on their work. In smaller communities this seems to be more of a
I'm not saying all Men are bad but in general , we take advantage of women and their abilities , even though I believe women are the most important piece of our race , without them we don't have the power to reproduce. A huge example of this is Rae Carruth , a professional football player who had killed his ex baby momma who was eight months pregnant , all because this guy making millions , does not want to pay child support. The five shots fired at his baby momma left his son with terrible disabilities and permanent brain
The differences between women and men are not solely biological. Our society’s culture has established a set of unwritten cultural laws of how each gender should act, or in other words society has ascribed a stereotype. Men’s gender identity has been one of masculinity, and masculinity is defined as referring to a man or things described as manly. What does manly mean though? Is a male manly if he is “Mr. Fix-it”, or the jock, or if he sits on the couch on Sunday watching football? This latter statement is a stereotype of men, that has been around for decades, and is current as well, but starting with the 1960’s a man’s role started to change, despite the stereotype not changing to accommodate it. For the past 40 years one can see how men have taken on roles stereotypically ascribed to women, such roles including being the “stay-at-home mom”, which we can find an excellent example of in the 1980’s film “Mr.