Two star-crossed lovers meet their demise because of poor mentorship. The star-crossed lovers, Romeo and Juliet, had two mentors, Friar Laurence and the nurse. Who helped Juliet and Romeo get secretly married and helped them work around the problems that came their way? William Shakespeare’s play Romeo and Juliet shows the importance of having good mentors in someone's life and what can happen when bad mentors don't lead their mentees well. Friar Lawrence and the nurse do not lead Romeo and Juliet to greatness because they let them secretly get married, help hide it from their families, and create a crazy plan that could hurt them. The Friar married Romeo and Juliet, knowing they just met a few hours prior, yet he still married them, showing …show more content…
He has a new lover who loves him back and wants to marry her the next morning. The Frair worries it is happening too fast but proceeds to agree and states to Romeo, “For this alliance may so happy prove” (Shakespeare 2.3 91). The Frair is going to marry Romeo and Juliet the morning of, in secret. Although this was questioned, the Friar didn't protest that he thought they should wait or tell their families. By doing this, he is feeding into their poor impulsive thoughts, which could lead to harm to the young lovers and/or their families. This shows that Frair Laurence did not show good leadership toward Romeo and Juliet. Prior, Juliet has shared with the nurse that she is married and this leads to the next argument. The two mentors, Friar Laurence and the nurse, decided to hide the fact that Romeo and Juliet were married to both of their families. Romeo and Juliet trusted that the nurse and Friar weren't gonna tell their secret so Juliet sent the nurse to find out if the wedding was on, where it would take place, and when it would occur. The nurse meets Romeo and is teased and mocked yet still converses with Romeo about their wedding and asks Romeo, “Is your man secret” (Shakespeare …show more content…
This shows the nurse wants to make sure the Lord and Lady Capulet don't find out about the wedding. The Nurse is Juliet's caretaker and mentor and has little care and delicacy with such a powerful thing as marriage. Letting Juliet secretly marry Romeo and help hide it from her parents shows a great lack of good mentorship and carefulness, Juliet needs to be influenced to succeed and make smart decisions, so because the nurse doesn't show Juliet good mentorship and carefulness, she is a poor mentor to Juliet and doesn't show that she can be a mentor. Not only did the nurse show poor leadership skills, but Friar Laurence also showed the same lack of skills. However, some would state that the nurse and Frair Laurence are good mentors because they were just trying to help Romeo and Juliet. The Friar and the nurse would give Romeo and Juliet plans to get around their problems, trying to help. Although, the reason why the nurse and Friar Laurence aren't good mentors is that they let Romeo and Juliet get married without any thought. The two young lovers' mentors helped plan a wedding and keep it a secret, undermining their
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Friar Laurence was once looked up to by both Romeo and Juliet, constantly telling them to act with more caution and restraint. In spite of this, he doesn't wait long to marry off these lovebirds. It has broken many hearts of the citizens in Verona and left many others
Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare, takes place in Verona, Italy where two star-crossed lovers from rival families meet and fall in love. The protagonists, Juliet Capulet and Romeo Montague have to keep their love a secret as their families are sworn enemies which leads to a series of tragic events. Friar Lawrence acts as a mentor for Romeo and Juliet and strongly influences their decisions as they try and make their relationship succeed despite the tension between their families. In Romeo and Juliet, the mentors are often portrayed as helpful and loyal; however, the actions of the mentors lead to the tragic death of the two lovers, this can be seen when Friar Lawrence approves of their marriage, when he secretly marries them, and when
Throughout the play Romeo and Juliet were aided in their love. It was according to Romeo and Juliet love at first sight and with the help of Juliet’s closest companion the nurse and Friar Lawrence it was made possible for the lovers to exchange vows and continue their relationship behind the twos houses backs. The nurse plays a role in Juliet’s life ‘when it did taste the wormwood on the nipple’ we find out that Juliet’s and the nurse have ad a close and long term friendship with Juliet even feeding off her as a baby, this close relationship is important alter on in the play when the nurse betrays Juliet’s trust.
Furthermore, Juliet’s actions were very childish, but the person that was supposed to guide her did not do anything to stop her. Instead of going to Juliet’s parents and telling them what was going on between the two, The Nurse helped them get married. “Then hei you hence to Friar Lawrence's cell./ There stays a husband waiting to make you his wife. ”(2.5.
Friar Lawrence knew better than marrying two reckless, love-crazed teenagers. First, there was a brutal feud between these two families! He knew one was of Montague and the other of Capulet, but he did not process the possible results. Second, he knew Romeo had just met Juliet, in fact he even told Romeo, “So soon forsaken? Young men's love then lies not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes”. If the Friar had been responsible to delay the marriage so that they could furthe...
Friar Laurence plays a most intriguing role in Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet. He is a priest, and a friend to Romeo. With the absence of Montague parental scenes, Friar Laurence also becomes like a surrogate father to Romeo. Romeo seeks him out to marry him and Juliet, obviously assuming that the friar would without parental permission. The friar greets him and addresses Romeo's past love. He even tells Romeo that he mistook what he felt for Rosaline as love when it was not, and therefore not be too haste, " They stumble that run fast" (2.2.94). Therefore, not only has Romeo discussed matters of the heart with the friar, but also the friar himself feels in the position to be able to speak with Romeo on a more personal level.
Friar Laurence is a great friend and Ally to the couple and blessed them and performed their marriage ceremony. He guides them through the ceremonial stages. Friar Laurence had a vision that Romeo and Juliet will get married and when the secret of their marriage will be known, their families will accept it. This will bring peace and harmony in Verona. The Friar was still concerned about the consequences, but his vision was stronger than the reality. As previously mentioned, Friar Laurence is a great ally to Romeo and Juliet only for the sake of bringing peace to Verona.
The Friar married the two without the families consent; setting it all in motion. Friar also came up with all the plans for the marriage and Juliet's fake death. The friar predicted his fate when he said, "May the heavens be happy with this holy act of marriage so nothing unfortunate happens later to make us regret it." (2.6.1-2). The marriage would result in the death of the lovers. Friar purposely kept the wedding a secret, and told Romeo he would, "help you with your secret marriage" (2.3.89-90). If they had never been married they would both still be alive. Friar married Romeo and Juliet which made the wedding to Paris an even greater pressure for Juliet, and eventually leading to their deaths.
The nurse has been taking care of Juliet since birth and always has the best intentions when it comes to Juliet. For example, the nurse one of the few people was aware of Juliet’s relationship with Romeo and she helped with arranging the marriage. In Act 2 Scene 6 the Nurse exchanges a message with Juliet saying, “NURSE: Then hie you hence to Friar Laurence’s cell./ There stays a husband to make you a wife./ Now comes the wanton blood up in your cheeks;/ They’ll be in scarlet straight at any news./ Hie you to church; I must another way,/ To fetch a ladder, by the which your love/ Must climb a bird’s nest soon when it is dark./ I am the drudge and toil in your delight,/ But you shall bear the burden soon at night./ Go; I’ll to dinner: hie you to the cell. JULIET: Hie to high fortune! Honest nurse, farewell.”(lines 73-83). This quote demonstrates the Nurse’s love for Juliet. In this scene, she comes back from talking to Romeo to tell the anxious Juliet the news on their marriage. This shows that, the Nurse will go out of her way to ensure that Juliet is happy. Furthermore, the Nurse is always there to protect Juliet even from her own father, Lord Capulet. In this scene, Lord Capulet has informed Juliet about her arranged marriage with Paris, knowing nothing about her relationship with Romeo. Lord Capulet and the Nurse have an argument: “CAPULET: Hang thee, young baggage, disobedient wretch!/ I tell thee what: get thee to church o’ Thursday,/ Or never after look me in the face./ Speak not, reply not, do not answer me./ My fingers itch. --Wife, we scarce thought us blessed/ That God had lent us but this only child,/ But now I see this one is one too much,/ And that we have a curse in having her./ Out on her, hilding!/ NURSE: God in heaven bless her!/ You are to blame, my lord, to rate her so./ CAPULET: And why, my Lady Wisdom? Hold your tongue,/ Good
Unlike the Nurse, Friar Laurence displays wisdom, but contradicts it through rash guidance: “Take thou this vial, being then in bed/And this distilled liquor drink thou off.” (4.1.193-194) Terrorized by a suicidal Juliet, Friar Laurence devised a plan through an illusory ploy of a sleeping potion. His hasteful consolation through a thoughtless scheme contribute to misunderstandings that lead to a tragic end. In similar fashion, the Nurse betrays Juliet’s trust by rashly advocating Lord Capulet’s proposal of marriage: “I think you are happy in this second match/For it excels your first; or if it did not/Your first is dead…” (3.5.223-225) Beforehand, Nurse’s maternal instinct toward Juliet buoys her meddling. However, Lord Capulet’s rage led her retreat submissively, driving Juliet to adhere to the friar's shortsighted plan. Although rich in heart, the parental figures display hasteful judgements that led to the lovers’
The Nurse makes mistakes which not only confuse Juliet, but also make her lose trust. In the beginning of the play, she supports Juliet through her actions and behaviour; she helps deliver messages to Romeo in secrecy and even encourages them both to get married. However, when Juliet needs the Nurse’s support the most, she quickly abandons Juliet. She immediately switches from favouring Romeo to taking Paris’ side when asked her opinion. As Juliet is making decisions about Romeo, Nurse states, “Romeo is banish’d; and all the world to nothing, / that he dares ne’er come back to challenge you.” (3.5.214-215). She obviously does not truly understand the feelings of true love that Juliet is experiencing, and these harsh words spark Juliet’s decision to exclude Nurse from her plans. As Juliet starts to question the Nurse’s decisions, she asks, “Speakest thou from thy heart?” (3.5.226). This demonstrates that Juliet can no longer trust her Nurse with any of her secrets. Juliet feels betrayed by her Nurse, which is part of the reason she decides not to include the Nurse in her plan with Romeo and Friar Laurence. If Nurse had known what was going to unfold, she might have been able to intervene at some point, and the lives of Romeo and Juliet might have been saved. The Nurse is one of the key factors towards their death, however, the biggest factor is Juliet’s
To add to the issue, the Nurse later betrays Juliet when Juliet begs her for help. “I think you are happy in this second match, For it excels your first, or, if it did not, Your first is dead, or 'twere as good he were, As living here and you no use of him.” (3.5.226-238). The Nurse goes against her previous actions and expects Juliet to forget about Romeo by dispraising him. Juliet wants to remain faithful to her husband and this betrayal, along with Capulet’s ultimatum, causes Juliet to act hastily and want to die if she wasn’t with Romeo.
After finding out the nurse opinion on this matter, she decided to go to the Friar to find an answer to her dire situation. Romeo and Juliet have tried to find a way to be with each other but it seems fate could not have that who knows it’s maybe Romeo and Juliet could have lived if they thought this out and told everyone about their secret relationship it would of turned out better.
Friar Laurence, through his lack of good judgment, is largely responsible for the deaths of both Romeo and Juliet. Rather than being supportive of them and helping them disclose their loving situation, Friar Laurence took the “easy” way out. He succumbed to their desire to elope. He secretly married Romeo and Juliet instead of standing behind them and encouraging them to confront their families with the facts about their commitment to and love for each other. As a result, an even stronger bond between them was created through marriage: "For, by your leaves, you shall not stay alone / Till holy church incorporate two in one" (2.6.36-37). Friar Laurence married Romeo and Juliet, hoping that their union would bring an end to the constant feuding between their two families, the Montagues and the Capulets. Though the friar’s intentions were good and above reproach, they were certainly missteps along a pathway to tragedy. None of the tragedies would have occurred if Romeo and Juliet were not married. When Tybalt challenged Romeo...