Relationships Recon: Relationship Resolutions: Conventions, The Basics

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Relationship Recon

Chapter 1

Relationship Resolutions Basics
The Basics

If you are like the couples today, your previous year has been filled with many good and bad memories, triumphs and conflicts, happiness and sorrow. So when we start a new we should say goodbye to the all those bad memories in our relationship which happened in previous year. Sit down with your partner and discuss on how you can make your relationship better than it was before.

Forgiveness is the Key

The two of you should forgive and forget all the things which happened in the past with the start of New Year. If there are things which are hurting you from long time and you find it difficult to forgive your partner, then this is the best time to let things …show more content…

Until and unless you are peaceful and happy, you will never have a happy and peaceful relationship.

If you try to avoid these things, it will eventually trouble your relationship. So that is the reason why you need to stabilize yourself prior then getting over the problems.

First you need follow these steps, prior to confronting the issues of relationship in order to increase the possibility of being successful.

Commit to Staying Okay Whatever Happens Along the Way
One should wow that whatever happens in relationship, you will take care of yourself. If your happiness depends upon your partner, you end up feeling fearful and powerless. This will led to ineffective actions like begging and pleading and when this takes place, the less will your partner want to stick to this relationship.

A good reason behind this is that your partner will get to know that you are emotionally dependent and needy. The things which other person will do for you will be insufficient as you start expecting more. This will led your partner to be fearful of being consumed by your endless demands and starts feeling angry and resentment. In some cases they feel the need of running …show more content…

All people in this world have intentionally or unintentionally hurt people you have loved. Every relationship tend to experience their own share of conflicts it can be confusion, disagreements or misunderstanding and eventually something will take place which leads to tension. People also make you feel angry, disappointed, frustrated or upset. As even your partner is human just like you, so there is no way to get around this.

While giving your partner the benefit of doubt, it only means that you still lack all the required information even at the times of conflict, you will still be willing to assume the best. The benefit of doubt can be given by love. It will work in its own way in difficult situations even after being proved wrong or disappointed.

Love is something which bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things, stated in bible. It chooses to see the best in other people and you do not give such kind of benefit simply because you want to.

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