I attended an AA meeting held on a Tuesday at St Stephens Catholic Church. It was an open –discussion meeting and as I walked into the room I was greeted right away by an older gentleman who welcomed me in and offered me some coffee and a snack. I was handed a book and a coin as I sat down and explained that the book was called the big book. The coin had the serenity prayer and AA logo on it. I felt a little uncomfortable because there were only older men sitting around the table at the time I walked in. I soon began to feel better when two women joined the grouped. There were about fifteen people total and about five of them were women. The overall tone of the meeting was friendly and welcoming. The meeting was called to order by the …show more content…
chairperson at exactly 12:00 p.m. A person read from the AA preamble which explained the purpose of Alcoholics Anonymous. Everyone went around the room and introduced themselves, first name only; followed by the statement “I am an alcoholic”. When it was my turn I began to feel uncomfortable again because I had not explained why I was there and felt like everyone expected me to say the statement “I am an alcoholic”. After introductions several people read from the big book and others shared their stories. The group was diverse but their stories were similar. The last part of the meeting was the reciting of the Lord’s Prayer. We all stood in a circle, held hands, and recited the prayer. The meeting was adjourned and I was invited to come back. The second meeting I attended was an Al-Anon meeting.
The meeting was held on a Saturday at the University Presbyterian Church. As I walked in three ladies were sitting at a table talking. They asked if I was looking for an Al-Anon meeting and invited me to come in and have a seat. They were very friendly and welcoming. I was approached by one of the members which appeared to be the person in charge of the meeting. She handed me some reading material and welcomed me into the group. She also made it a point to let me know that although the meetings are held at this church the group is not affiliated with the church. She also explained that the group references a higher power but it is whatever higher power you believe in. She wanted to make sure to let me know that the group does not endorse a particular higher power. A few more people walked in and the meeting started with a reading from Paths to Recovery: Al-Anon’s Steps, Traditions, and concepts. The meeting began on time and consisted of six women, two teenage girls and one man. The group read from chapter 10 and everyone read a paragraph. After the reading each person spoke about either their thoughts about the reading or what was on their minds at the time. At the conclusion of the meeting everyone stood up and recited the Lord’s Prayer, hugged each other and said their goodbyes. I was given more material and asked to come back. I was also given phone numbers of two of the members and was told that I could
call anytime even if it were in the middle of the night if I was having a hard time. I learned in both groups’ people are comforted in knowing that they are not alone and that most, if not all of them are trying to better themselves and find peace in their lives. The Al-Anon members were there to detach themselves from their situation and not to try and change it. They take things one day at a time and try to keep themselves busy and are there to support each other.
This was evident in the meeting as well. Of the ten members, only one was attending their first ever A.A. meeting (two others were attending their first Brown Bag Meeting). Ann declined to speak the first time they went around the circle, but she seemed very nervous. She later decided to speak, and related her experience to us. She had been sober for 10 days now, and when she woke
I attended Al-Anon meetings on Sundays at St. Matthew Episcopal Church. The meetings began at 11:45am, and were held until 1:00pm, which was contingent on the progress of each small group. I was in attendance beginning January 19th, with attendance on January 26th, and February 2nd. The groups first met in one room together, and then broke into smaller groups to process. The initial meeting room is a nursery room in the church. It had a lot of natural lighting from the windows, and was decorated in children’s religious artwork. The room was far too small for all of the attendees. There was an average of thirty-five attendees at each meeting. Many times people who came late had to stand outside the doorway and listen in, because the room was literally overflowing with people. There were never enough chairs, which forced some individuals to stand, until the large group, broke into small groups.
...t could very well be god. I’ve tried to base this paper on my view of AA as a cult, so before I conclude I will list off a few definitions of a cult. 1.) a system of religious and devotion directed toward a particular figure or object. 2.) a misplaced or excessive admiration for a particular person or thing. At first when I even had heard of the thought or idea that AA operated similar to or had cult like similarities I completely disregarded that kind of thinking. After our unit on Bill Wilson, however, as well as our discussion and reading material from the AA chapters and articles I have a total change of heart. AA is a cult group that uses alcohol as a lure for new members to come together that all have similar problems. Most people who come don’t return, but the people who remain are given a sort of standardized one-size fits all kind of treatment.
The Alcoholics Anonymous meeting was an open discussion meeting. There were people from different backgrounds but everyone was respectful and friendly to one another. We started the meeting with a word of prayer. As a group, we held hands and recited the Lord’s Prayer. After the prayer the group recited a chant and swung their hands back-and-forth. After the prayer, we sat in a circle and the facilitator passed around an offering basket. Once offering was completed, I was asked by the facilitator to introduce myself. During my introduction, I politely stated my name, the name of my school, and major. The other attendees introduced themselves by stating “Hello, my name is John Doe and I am an alcoholic.” They then proceeded to share their personal experiences with alcoholism and express their gratitude for the 12-step meeting. While speaking, each attendee shared the moments in their lives that made them decided to seek treatment and how many years they have been sober. Each member of the group was very supportive of their group mates. They showered each other with love and gave advice for staying on track.
Attending an NA meeting during finals was one of my smarter decisions, as I procrastinate my work until the very last minute this week. However, in my opinion, going to a meeting was a good type of procrastination compared to other things I could be doing. Instead of going with the same friend this time, I asked a friend who was struggling with a ________ addiction. Not knowing that I was aware of his addiction, I asked him to join so I didn’t have to go alone; and he was more than happy to join me. I was very happy he agreed to join, because hopefully it helps him with his personal addiction, and he continues to return to the meetings.
...ethnicity or culture; it happens to anyone such as, doctors, lawyers, teacher, judges, students and many more. My observation of the meeting was that every member seemed to really listen to each other’s sharing, where each member shared an experience, and others could relate to that particular experience or had similar experiences, such as struggling with promiscuous behavior or relapses in attending meetings, but they still stuck with the program because they wanted change in their lives. No one was rushed in their sharing, and everyone was opened and friendly. It was a cohesive group. I felt a sense of that openness, when I was introduced to everyone, and included at close of the meeting, where everyone one formed a circle, held hands and recited the serenity prayer. Overall, it was a new and knowledgeable experience Another Chance gave me.
They were all conversing with each other seeming to already be a cohesive group outside of group settings. A few of the members greeted me politely, however, did not engage me in further conversation. As the meeting time came closer, we were all able to enter a room where the meeting would be held. My immediate thoughts on the room were that the room was cold and with simple settings. The room was not very well lit, had a bunch of benches and folding chairs to accommodate the members, and had a table with information and pamphlets about other support groups. Perhaps I had formed an idea of an AA meeting in my head based on movies and TV shows I had seen, but I was expecting to see a table for refreshments and snacks where the members could chat around as they waited for the meeting to begin. However, there was only a water fountain at the very corner of the room, somewhat hiding from all
I attended an AA meeting at the 5th street fellowship on October 6, 2015. I looked forward to attending this meeting since the beginning of the clinical rotation. The meeting exceeded my expectations. It was an eye-opener and a life changing experience. The meeting at the 5th Street Fellowship consisted of a leader and two members. Even though there was only a smaller group gather, I could see the positive impact AA has had on each of the members personally, regardless of years of sobriety. The chairman of the group discussed the influence his sponsor, AA, and the 12-step program has had on his life and how he lives a happier, healthier, and a spiritual life due to his sobriety. I learned that all three components - sponsor, AA, and the 12-steps – are important in aiding in the sobriety of an
Attending an A.A meeting for anyone may be hard. According to, “Psychiatry and Wellness”, “Practically nobody looks forward to going to their first AA meeting.” Alcoholics or recovering addicts may feel the same way I felt when attending their first A.A meeting. Some alcoholics may feel worse than I did. Some alcoholics may feel ashamed to attend an A.A meetings. Some alcoholics may be scared or have fear to go to an A.A meeting because they do not know what to expect. The thought of attending an A.A meeting may be worse than actually attending an A.A
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The people there were all extremely nice and would try to help me understand. They understood and accepted the fact that I wasn’t religious, but was showing interest in their faith. There were not as much people there as I had expected, but that might have been because it was a smaller church. It also wasn’t as racially diverse as I had expected. I thought that because it is the world’s biggest religion, that it
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