Pessimism In Ta-Nehesi Coates's Between The World And Me

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Whether we are naturally an optimist or more of a pessimist, it’s impossible to know what the future holds. So perhaps the best of both worlds is to be a realistic optimist - someone who tends to maintain a positive outlook, but within the constraints of what they know about the world (actionforhappiness.org).
After reading Between the World and Me, it is not hard to see that Ta-Nehesi Coates has gone through the rollercoaster ride of living in his black body. From growing up in the streets of Baltimore city, where fear and vulnerability was his bullet proof vest; to the fear of PG county police as a young adult. For Coates to tell his son that “the struggle is really all I have for you,” is not optimism nor pessimism, but it is the realism …show more content…

“You went into your room, and I heard you crying. I came in five minutes after, and I didn’t hug you, and I didn’t comfort you, because I thought it would be wrong to comfort you. I did not tell you it would be okay, because I’ve never believed it would be okay” (Coates, 21.) In this portion, Coates is demonstrating the struggle that many black parents have when talking to their children about their importance in the world. Many choose to tell their children that everything is going to be okay and there’s nothing to worry about. Deep down, though children want to believe their parents, they know their safety is in jeopardy. When little black boys watch TV and see their peers being killed in cold blood, it sparks fear and a need to defend themselves within. Coates feels it makes the most sense to be honest with his son because realistically everything is not going to sunshine and rainbows. It is his job to let him know that from what he has experienced with the world, things are not going to be “okay.” Coates has witnessed friends get gunned down, he himself has a gun pointed at him. These things aren’t what you would consider okay. Because he knows the things that could occur when you’re on the streets, he wants to be honest with his son. Though there are going to be hills and valleys, you must find a way to live …show more content…

It teaches us a way to channel our energy (qi), it teaches us how and when to react without been violent, making us stronger and self-defensive. To be black in America is to be placed in consistent condition of inequality, bias in the police department, racial profiling, and unfair criminal justice system. Yes. Absolutely. Knowing this keeps you up at night. It gets your blood pressure up. It sits on your shoulder, and you walk slower because of it. What do you do as your people are being slaughtered with what is implicit permission from the system of oppression? What do you do with it? How do you feel less helpless? What do you do with all that anger? Tai chi is the answer, it is a way of channeling all the pain, anger, aggression into something positive. It helps you to deal with the emotions that cause you to get angry because it centers you, and makes you more aware of where your body is in space. Tai chi turns that feeling of helplessness to a strength to overcome force and severity with softness, gentleness and smoothness. Tai chi teaches you to adapt your opponent’s style and beat him at it (the police tries to take advantage of black people by forcing a heated reaction out of them, but by mastering the act of Tai chi, you would be able to sink all that energy and react with

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