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I walked downstairs to the basement of my grandpa Jack’s. His house was in boxes. his memories, life, and possessions neatly sorted into cardboard boxes. I slowly walked to the closest portion of his life. It was labeled Keegan. My mom walks over with tears in her eyes.
“Grandpa Jack left this for you”.
I slowly ripped back the brown packing tape sealing the box. I reached inside the box and pulled out the first object I touched. It was his pocket knife. His lucky pocket knife. No note. No sentimental letter informing me of his grand-parental love for me. Just a pocket knife and packing peanuts. I sat in the corner running my finger across the synthetic shiny wood, the somber air crashed around me, people were crying, but I just sat in that
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Today was the day we went to the O’brien family farm to say our last goodbyes. I slipped on shorts and threw on a shirt. i securely fastened my ballcap to my head and slid my Grandpa’s pocket knife into my pocket. The thirty minute drive through rural Illinois was filled of rolling hills, and golden wheat. Rows of dull yellow Corn stalks went on as far as the eye could see. The road was smooth and accepted the cars as they glided across its surface. I lightly slid my finger across the cold metal point of my knife. Thinking what my grandpa thought as he made the drive through this very …show more content…
You either grow or descend from them. Jack made enough mistakes for two lifetimes, but he learned from them and grew. In the last few years of his life he came back into our lives, and ended up loving and cherishing his family more than anything. I love you ya bastard, I love you”. He threw his ashes into the wind as my grandpa became one with the earth.
I sat silently on a rock with my grandpa in the palm of my hand, i was remembering the events of my life with him. From the first time I met him, to the last time I saw him. His remains were clutched tightly in my left hand. My grandpa 's old poems went through my head. One stood out in particular.
I will arise and leave you
I will find a place somewhere
It will be a place of tranquility and I will wait for you there we will sit together side by side breaking my long game of solitaire
Because one day we will be graced by each others loving care
I loved him. I love him as a friend. I loved him as family. I have accepted his death, and he has left this world. People always say that when you die you go to a “better place”, whatever this place is maybe someday I can see him. at that moment on the rock with the sun shining in my face I accepted my grandpa’s death. He won’t come back, but he will live on through the memories I have of him. I threw his ashes into the
cold, harsh, wintry days, when my brothers and sister and I trudged home from school burdened down by the silence and frigidity of our long trek from the main road, down the hill to our shabby-looking house. More rundown than any of our classmates’ houses. In winter my mother’s riotous flowers would be absent, and the shack stood revealed for what it was. A gray, decaying...
I woke up at John Morris’ house, on his coach. As I knocked a flyaway hair out of my face I noticed my face was wet, with tears, and then it all hit me at once that my Dad and Mrs. Borden were dead. Suddenly I couldn’t breathe. I heard John Morris ask if I was alright, but that seemed like a completely different world, I responded with a meek okay, so Mr. Morris wouldn’t see me like this. That didn’t work though, I saw his tall shadowy figure ducking under the door frame with tea. As Mr. Morris sat down and put the tea on the coffee table in front of us, I turned my head and quickly wiped the tears from my eyes in hopes he wouldn’t see.
As I walked through the door of the funeral home, the floral arrangements blurred into a sea of vivid colors. Wiping away my tears, I headed over to the collage of photographs of my grandfather. His smile seemed to transcend the image in the pictures, and for a moment, I could almost hear his laughter and see his eyes dancing as they tended to do when he told one of his famous jokes. My eyes scanned the old photographs, searching for myself amidst the images. They came to rest on a photo of Grandpa holding me in his lap when I was probably no more than four years old.
I peeled open my eyes, feeling the cloth beneath me. It feels like night now but I can see the light shine through the logs on my roof. I pushed myself from my unsteady bed and walked downstairs. My brother, Devrik, greeted me with a good-bye as he walked out the door to work with our father in the fields. Today was my day to milk the cow. I walked over to my chest in the corner of the room. 'Lillian Cartwright' was engraved into the chest. I shuffled my hands through the chest looking for my Bible. I soon picked up the leather wrapped book and placed it on the table side next to the chest. I went back to the chest and picked up my skirt my aunt had just made for me and started to wash it. I then went outside to lay it on the string outside to dry.
A calm crisp breeze circled my body as I sat emerged in my thoughts, hopes, and memories. The rough bark on which I sat reminded me of the rough road many people have traveled, only to end with something no one in human form can contemplate.
Everything else is just sprinkles on the sundae.” – Paula Walker. My grandpa “Earnest Lachney Jr”, is important to me because he was an intelligent man. He was also a well-known man whom my family loved very much. In my eyes, Earnest made my cloudy skies turn to a bright sunny day, he was my father when my dad didn’t want to be. He raised me until I was thirteen, then I had to move back with my parents. As many people knew Earnest was a heavy drinker, he argued with my grandma for years. Yes, it bothered me but he was much more of a man than my father was at the time. Not everyone thought that he was the best husband in the community but he did treat my grandma and me like we were queens. My grandpa had the most amazing eyes that I loved, when I stared at him they made me feel like I was standing in front of an ocean. They were deep ocean blue and made me feel safe. The death of Earnest devastated me when my mom told me, my heart was completely broken. Til’ this day I pray for him to watch over my family and keep me safe. He was my hero in life and still will be even though he is no longer here with me. Everything about that man made me feel loved and when I think about the chills still come to me as I smile and see his face in the back of my mind. The world will never know my feelings toward that
It was the summer before sixth grade. I remember the heavy growl of the rumbling truck filled the air as the last of the boxes were placed in the back. With a screech and a clatter, the dreary back door slid down and fastened in place. I stood on the driveway speechless and stared at my childhood home. It felt so distant, unfamiliar with its contents devoured by the grumbling vehicle behind me.
When my grandpa died, my whole family experienced a period of depression. In the poem and in the event that my grandpa died, everyone was sad and mourning, but people also celebrated the life he lived. Eventually everyone accepted that he, Lincoln and my grandpa, was gone. They accepted that he was now in a better place. When my grandpa died, we had a shrine of some sort to honor him and give offerings.
As we arrived so many sweet memories filled my mind. Memories of Grandpa teaching me how to play chess and him showing me all of my dad’s awkward and embarrassing pictures from when he was a child. Dad and I stayed for hours looking through old pictures, secret recipes, and random newspapers that Grandpa kept for some reason. As I was looking through the newspapers, I saw one that caught my eye.
When you look back at life, the time passes by quickly and things change, but the memories will always stay the same. Memories can bring someone back to a time in life where they had the best and worst times in their life; but that’s what is so great about them. A place where most of your memories were made can be very special, mine being my old house I grew up in. It was home, where I was most comfortable, so when my life turned upside down and we had to move, I couldn’t cope very well. My life changed, and all I wanted to do was go back to my comfort place; but I wasn’t able to, which makes the memories of my house even more treasurable.
The day arrived to move out of this ghostly home in Indiana and move on to a new location. I remember wearing shorts and a sleeveless top as we all squeezed in the back of the station wagon. I didn’t say goodbye to Pamela, she was working when we left. My dad pulled out across the yard cutting over onto the neighbor’s property using their wide long driveway as the flight road. I gazed back at the tiny white home that sit on nearly two acres of land, believing one day when I get back, I will dig up the treasure I buried. A tiny light blue plastic treasure chest I received from a box of Cracker Jacks; back then these gifts were pretty nice, it even open and closed snapping shut as a real treasure chest. I had to leave “a promise to return” behind.
Being raised in a small town lower classed city called Cleveland Texas, my goal was to make it out of the rural area. The blue house is what I called my childhood home, even though most of the blue paint was chipped off and you mostly seen wood with a few areas of chipped blue paint. Before, getting to the house you had to go about a half mile down a red dirt clay road before getting to what looked like a small blue shake. Living in the home was a total of ten people, which included myself, mother, father, three siblings and three older cousins that stayed with us at the time. There were three small bedroom that did not include any type of closet, a full sized bed, and two dressers with a small TV with the fat back attached to it. It also had
Jean sat with Armin on the bus ride home. Each of them stealing a glance from each other every now and then. Jean watched Armin out of the corner of his eye pull out an old flip phone to text someone under a contact named: Grandpa.
The house had a dark sensation with no noise just a quiet place like if no one was there. I approached my uncle who was battling cancer and gave him a warm hug and kiss on the cheek. His body was thin and fragile, his head shiny and round, himself in general looked different. How can someone feel so much pain and deal with it for 10 years? As I glanced at my uncle I reminisced all the memories I shared with him.
There is only one place in this world I would go to find the meaning of life, my childhood home. In my memories, that house has always been my sanctuary. Safety brings a touch of tranquility, free of twisted negativity that would clear the way of finding the meaning of my life. My house opens a door to a whirlwind of deep love for everything it stands for and distaste for the way it looks. When you 're living in an unseemly house, surrounded by people who thinks its an eyesore, was when I learned the superficiality of the people around me. That house became my heaven as well as, my hell. I was caught between my appreciation for my own home and the approval of others, but as I grew up I found out what I should treasure more is the simple joys of life.