Personal Narrative: Losing A Loved One

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Losing a loved one is one of the most challenging situations a person can face in life. Losing a loved one is not just about death, a person can go through a break up and it still be consider losing a loved one. No matter how it feels or who the loved one was the pain is still there. In my case losing a loved one was when my brother died, in the story Removal of the Cherokee Chief John Ross’s wife dies, and in Christmas Eve on Lonesome when Buck’s female friend finds a new love.
Right before my brother died my life was going very well. I had great grades in high school, I was in just about every club, and I was on three sports teams. When I got the news that my brother had died I felt like I lost everything. My brother was my best friend and the person I went to for advice for school or life situations. My other siblings thought I was going to start failing my classes, and drop …show more content…

In college you discover who you really are, and I found out who I am just being in college for two years. With God I know all things are possible, and I know with my degree choice I’ll have a bright future and a career I will love. One thing in the sixteen years I was able to spend with my brother he always told me to find my happiness in things I loved to do. Granted death is not a happy subject for anyone who has lost a loved one, but in my case I would say that losing my brother was one of the hardest things I have had to face so far in my nineteen years. But knowing that with everything choice I make in life would have made him very proud and happy is what keeps me going. In other words the two stories: “Removal of the Cherokee” and “Christmas Eve on Lonesome” both men learned to face losing a loved one just like I did. Even though Buck didn’t have anyone die he almost killed a man for ruining his happiness. Happiness is the greatest thing a person can have after battling

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