Parker Palmer's Concept Of The Tragic Gap

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Reading the story of John Woolman helped in driving home Parker Palmer’s concept of the tragic gap. Parker Palmer states this gap exists “between what is and what could be” (Palmer, 2009). Upon reflection, I realized that I have stood within this gap and most likely, will do it again in the future. This course has provided the opportunity for self-reflection and analysis of my ethical beliefs and actions in both a personal and professional setting. The various readings and teachings throughout this course have brought comfort to my beliefs. Previous to taking this course, I was feeling like maybe my stance on certain issues and beliefs might be wrong because they clashed drastically with many of those closest to me. However, I’ve come to the realization that I have to be true to myself and respond to my critics in that same manner. I am who I am. I cannot appease others at the cost of living a divided life myself. The price is too high. Therefore, I recommit to authenticity of self. I aim to …show more content…

Becoming a Mother triggered a shift in thinking, as well as, participating in this program. The exposure to a variety of perspectives challenges and solidifies my resolve. The second concept is “the third way”. “The third way is the way of nonviolence, by which I mean a commitment to act in every situation in ways that honor the soul” (Palmer, 2004, p. 170). I love this statement! It is my ultimate goal. These two concepts will assist me when faced with dilemmas by keeping me centered and providing me with solid ground to stand on when chaos surrounds me. If I can stay true to my beliefs and operate in an ethical manner, then I have met these obstacles with the best of me and that is all that I can do. Working in an organization, I don’t expect for my methods or opinions to be accepted by all, stay or go, I will carry confidence in knowing I “honored my soul”. (Palmer, 2004, p.

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