On The House On Mango Street By Sandra Cisneros

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Mickey and Minnie, Shrek and Fiona, Barbie and Ken, Troy and Gabriella, Cinderella and Prince Charming, … Even before I knew what love meant, I already knew that coping with the opposite gender came hand in hand with growing up. In the book The House On Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros, the author displays how the narrator Esperanza discovers that men play an important role in her transition to adulthood. However, Esperanza highlights that the kind of impact boys have on you, depends on your actions and qualities.
I have never understood boys and I will not waste time trying to understand them. Just like Esperanza, when I was little, I was completely disgusted by them; Esperanza says: “The boys and girls live in separate worlds”(Cisneros, …show more content…

I was not dressing up to for any boy or girl; I wore that dress because I like it. I wore that dress for myself. This reminds me of when Mr. Benny tells Esperanza and her friends that girls should not be wearing high heels. Cisneros writes: “They are dangerous, he says. You girls too young to be wearing shoes like that. Take them shoes off before I call the cops, but we just run” (41). Esperanza is erroneously taught that being feminine is dangerous, and that she should avoid things such as high heels to save her dignity from being diminished by men. However, just like Esperanza, I strongly disagree. I will not deny that I felt disappointed after I heard that rumor, (which was not the last rumor invented about me) but that is how “el que no debe no teme” became my motto through adolescence. And it was hilarious finding out that the ones inventing those rumors were always boys I never even …show more content…

My parents are divorced and I treasure the fact that my mom embodies the power of feminism. That might be the reason why I have never felt like I needed a man. This also explains why my guy friends used to tell me “es que eres muy complicada” (throwback to where I said I did not understand boys… I clearly know the will never understand girls either). Many say women are from Venus and men are from Mars. However, my mother always taught me that the right boy would even fly through space just for you. If you do not believe it takes that much effort to get to a girl who has strong independent ideals, tell that to my boyfriend (mayor plot twist, I know). That is how I know that strong women are also the ones who still know their own way through life, even when having a man by their side. As old as I get, I will still believe that staying true to yourself will always lead you to your Prince Charming. I definitely want to get married one day, but I know for sure that you will never find me melancholically looking throughout a

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