My Personal Identity: The Ideas Of My Identity

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When people ask me about my interests, I’m usually unsure of what to say. I find it difficult to define myself in broad terms and generalities akin to ‘interests’. I usually like specific things and not generalities. Similarly I find it difficult to define myself. Who I am on the outside and who I am on the inside are intertwined through my race and yet still do not dictate one another. My ideas of the person I want to become is equal in emotional to professional parts.
Who I am on the outside is very influential on who I am on the inside. I am Korean, and I am adopted. My race has been a large part of my identity and has aided in forming my definition of myself in good ways and bad. For most of my life my life has revolved around places where …show more content…

This isn’t a negative thing, but it’s definitely confusing to how I identify myself. I’ve never met them, and I don’t know anything about them, but I know somewhere in Korea I have biological parents and maybe even a family. I don’t think about it that often, but it’s kind of a funny feeling thinking about how I don’t know these people who are so close to me. Knowing that I’m from there and I do have family makes me feel a sense of allegiance to Korea even though it hasn’t touched my life in many other ways. In American media, Asian people are often portrayed in unfavorable ways. Many times our thoughts about Asian peoples are about oppressive regimes, war, unchecked pollution. Because of this limited view of Asian cultures, which is quite varied, I often feel a sense of Asian shame. I know it’s widely and easily used, but I sometimes am annoyed by the umbrella term ‘Asian’. There are many different countries in Asia, many different people, many different cultures, so it annoys me when we all get grouped together. I know there isn’t an easy way around it, but I’m just slightly more sensitive to this …show more content…

One of the biggest things that makes me happy is traveling; I want to become a globetrotter (world traveler). I love seeing new landscapes, meeting new people, hearing a different language, and experiencing a new culture. The world seems so endless and interesting when I experience something so different. One of the greatest dreams I have is to step into another world, and traveling to a foreign place is the closest I’ve come to realizing this dream. I also want to be the kind of person who brings happiness to other people or at least a sense of peace and calm. I don’t need to do anything extraordinary or be recognized. I just want to be like an anonymous ray of sunshine. I also want to be an even more caring person than I am now. I want to help animals and help people. I want to become involved and try to make the world a better place. I know that sounds cliche. I don’t need to change the world, but I do want to make an impact in my corner of the world. I want to help people who live thousands of miles away, but I also want to help people where I live. I hope to make the people’s lives who intersect with mine a tiny bit better and spread happiness because it makes me feel happier. Besides animal cruelty, I also really worry about the environment. In any ways I can I want to lessen the damage. Many people are just too lazy or don’t care enough to act, but I want to know that I

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