More often than not forgiving yourself is easier than forgiving others who hurt you, but what if you had to forgive yourself for the destruction of your best friend’s life. That doesn’t seem so easy when I word it that way. In the essay “ The Seventh Man”, the seventh man was unable to to save his friend and some may say that he should forgive himself, I argue otherwise. The seventh man should not forgive himself for not rescuing K. K was his best friend, but when you love someone you need to put some effort into meeting their needs, especially if it concerns whether or not their life will continue. The narrator obviously did not prove his love for his friend when he stood and watched his friend be taken away by the wave, that ended his life just as quick as it began. …show more content…
This is supported by the first warning received by the seventh man through his radio. “ It is to be the worst in ten years”. This is based off of paragraph 11 of page 134. This meant that the seventh man knew ahead of time that the typhoon and the debris being escorted with it was going to be destructive to everything in its path, including K. Additionally, in his essay “The Seventh Man”, Haruki Murakami writes, that to the kids the typhoons were like a big circus, and a great source of excitement. (135). This shows that although the seventh man knew the typhoon was coming, he and many others did not take the damage the typhoon would cause seriously. Others may say that this isn’t the
“It is your reaction to adversity, not the adversity itself, that determines how you life’s story will develop” (Dieter F. Uchtdorf). Most people can deal with difficulties, but their reactions to the hardships are different. Only some people can manage their problems. We should try to manage our behaviors in tough situations. If we can deal with our situations, we can overcome difficulties easily. In the story of Farewell to Manzanar written by Jeanne Wakatsuki, the story shows how war can change humans, their life, and their ranks. Although all of the characters of her book face the same problems due to the war and the camps they had to live in, they responded to those situations differently. All of them presented
The act of forgiving a murder is out of the question for most people. Simon is confronted with this very dilemma in The Sunflower. Karl, a dying Nazi, is asking forgiveness from a Jew, the narrator. The narrator leaves the dying Nazi with no answer, leaving him with an agonizing thought of whether he did or did not do the right thing. Due to the fact both Karl and the narrator’s psychological well-being is affected by not only wartime but other extenuating factors, the narrator should grant Karl forgiveness, as this dying man is an individual who is genuinely repenting for the crimes he has committed. Forgiveness will allow Karl to die with piece of mind while the narrator will continue life with a stable and clear conscience.
The book Farewell to Manzanar by Jeanne Wakatsuki Houston and James D. Houston explores many subjects and ideas, including our universal concept of power, our theme of justice, and events happening during World War II. Throughout the book I learned many things I did not know that have really benefited towords the way I think. From reading this book I have gained a new knowledge of this time in history and what it might mean to teenage Americans today.
The essay "Forgiveness," written by June Callwood, explores the concept of forgiving and how it influences people's lives for the better. Her work describes many components of forgiveness, such as how difficult it can be to come to terms with, why it is such a crucial part of humanity, and how it affects all people. Her essay aims to prove that forgiveness is the key to living peacefully and explains specific examples of people who have encountered extremely difficult situations in their lives- all of whom found it within themselves to forgive. To clearly portray this message in her writing, Callwood uses several strategies. She includes fear inducing statistics, makes many references to famous events and leaders, and uses a serious convincing tone, all of which are very effective.
This is not true because if The seventh man ran to get K, he might have also died. In moral logic of survivor guilt the author of Moral of Logic of Survival guilt, Nancy Sherman, states it is a flight or fight mentality. This is basic for survival. In this instance the seventh man chose flight. He should not feel guilty he would have died if he did run over and save his best friends life. Fighting in this situation or running over would kill both of them. When people say that he should have just gotten over his fear. This is very hard to do. How can someone simply get over their fear in a couple of seconds? How would the seventh man even know if the wave would hit . It was not his fault ; this wave was uncontrollable. Just because the seventh man is older it does not mean he ultimately responsible. In The seventh man the seventh man says how K would follow him every where. Even if the seventh man told K to go away he would probably still want to follow
People must forgive themselves before they can help others. It’s hard to fill a cup of water when your sink is broken. I believe the main point in life is to help others out. In order to help others, you must be happy. You’re not happy if you’re constantly sad about the things you’ve done in your past. You cannot change what happened in the past. Live in the present and live one day at a time. If living one day at a time is still too hard, live one hour, one minute, or one second at a time. Do whatever it takes to forget what happened. If you cannot forget it, learn from it. Take your mistakes and turn them into something
Has there ever been a time in your life where you had to experience a tragedy. The Seventh Man did. The seventh man was only ten years old on a september afternoon when a typhoon hit his home town of Providence of S. During the eye of the storm, he and his friend named K went down to the beach. A wave hit and killed K but the seventh man was able to escape. For the rest of the seventh man’s life, he had to deal with survivor's guilt until he was able to forgive himself. Should the seventh man forgive himself of his failures? Yes, The seventh man should forgive himself of all responsibility of K’s death.
Even though the seventh man was responsible for the lost of his best friend he also brightened K’s life in many ways. The seventh man had the mentality that K hated him for killing him when really K was okay with dying. He lived a happy life and the seventh man realized that after studying K’s paintings. I think the seventh man should forgive himself as even though he cost his friend’s life, he also made his life better by being a part of it. Forgiving yourself after one mistake is hard for everyone, but realizing what we’ve done for others can wash those terrors away like the ocean with
He should forgive himself because it’s not his fault that K. was unable to hear him when he shouted. “I was sure I had yelled loud enough, but my voice did not seem to have reached him,” (Murakami137). The narrator tried as much as he could to save K., but K. was too absorbed into what he was looking at. The second time he shouted it was too late and fear took over and he had to try to survive himself. As a child you can’t override the fear that kicks in. There was nothing he could’ve done that would result in both of them alive. Why should you not forgive yourself for something for a failure that you tried your hardest to
Fear is consuming. It can take over your mind and constantly prevent you from experiencing all life has to offer. Concurring your fear will take most, if not all the power away from it. “The Seventh Man” elucidates the effects of fear and how it keeps one from reaching their full potential. Whether you chose to fight or fly, the impact will be as great as you let it. In “The Seventh Man”, Murakami uses similes, foreshadowing and symbolism to develop the theme that it is better to face one's fears then to turn one's back on them.
Fear is a part of everyone’s life, but it is how it is handled that makes all the difference. In the story “The Seventh Man” by Haruki Murakami, a tragedy consumes a young boy and stays with him for many years. As the story continues, the narrator eventually realizes that he has to face his fear in order to lead a normal life. In “The Seventh Man”, Murakami develops the theme that one should face his or her fear with the use of similes, imagery, and symbolism.
How would you feel if your friend died and it was believed in your mind that the death was your fault? It’s hard to forgive yourself. Even if it is not your liability, you feel guilty. You feel survivor’s guilt. The narrator of “The Seventh Man” should forgive himself for his failure to save K. K. was a young boy who didn’t hear the call of his name. The narrator should not be at culpability for the miscommunication between him and his best friend. If he tried to save K. for even a minute longer both of them could be gone. Then who would feel the guilt? His parents for letting them go down to the beach? There will always be someone who feels solely responsible for a death that was close to them personally. Many people
The moment we learn to forgive and love is when we can begin to recover and move on.
Moral repair is a word of many meanings. One may say it's "restoring or creating trust and hope in a shared sense of value and responsibility". Others will say "Moral repair is the process of moving from the situation of loss and damage to a situation where some degree of stability in moral relations is regained." Others will have different perspectives on the true meaning of moral repair and whether someone has achieved it. In Haruki Murakami’s short story “The Seventh Man”, the narrator speaks of a tragic event that took the life of a close childhood friend leaving the narrator with a weight of guilt and need for moral repair. Murakami illustrates the narrator’s internal self battle and struggles throughout the story which gives the reader
In the short story The 7th Man, the narrator's best friend dies. He is swept away by a typhoon wave. Although the 7th man could’ve saved him, he didn’t. This man shouldn’t feel guilty for not saving his friend. He was surviving and didn’t know exactly what to do in that instant.