Moving abroad to live and work can be an incredible adventure, but many expats have the very real problem of being homesick. Most of the time they're thrilled and excited to be in another country, but there are times of real sadness associated with missing friends, family and home. If you're trying to become a freelance photographer, digital nomad or remote design professional, these tips will help you combat those sad, homesick moods.
1. Stay Connected
One of the best ways to avoid feeling homesick is to stay connected with those who are still back home. Use services like Skype and Facebook Messenger to video call with family and friends. Let them know how you're doing and that you miss them.
2. Take a Break
While you should use video to
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stay connected with those back home, you can be too connected and not let yourself experience your new home. Don't video call every single day. Get out and have new experiences, so when you finally talk to them you have news to share. 3. Immerse Yourself Instead of thinking about what you're missing back home, get out and immerse yourself in the local culture.
Visit the market or take a casual walk with no destination in mind. You'll feel less like an outsider when you spend time in the community.
4. Bucket List the Country
Make a list of all the things you'd like to see while living in the new country. Don't miss the tourist places, but make sure you're experiencing the country as a local would. Talk to locals to find out the best places to eat or shop.
5. Meet Others
If you're in a country with another language and vastly different culture, that could make you miss home even more. Connect with people who are from your neck of the woods. There are likely plenty of people from home who are feeling the same.
6. Routine and Habits
If you enjoy activities like running, yoga or music, take part in classes or groups like you would back home. Make the activity part of your weekly routine too. If you had a book club at home, find one while you're away too.
7. Find a Family
While it might seem bizarre and slightly awkward at first, make some new friends and see if they'll adopt you into their family. Most people love to host others from places far and wide. They'll love having you at their table. You just need to get the courage to
ask. 8. Take Courses It can be a language barrier that makes you feel a bit homesick, but learning the local language can help you become more connected. Along with language courses, take a cooking class to learn the local flavors and meet others in the area. 9. Bring Your Camera When you visit local markets or walk around your new city, it can be a good ice breaker to take your camera. If you're a photographer, that's a natural way to make you feel more at home. Take pictures of local people and landmarks. Visit the parks and shops with your camera too. 10. Banish Negative Thoughts Sometimes, it can be as simple as changing your mindset. If you're allowing yourself to have negative thoughts like "It seems like I stick out" or "I can't seem to make friends", you'll end up setting yourself up for negativity. Instead, turn those negative vibes into positives. Promise yourself that you'll get out and meet new people every day. Don't allow those thoughts to dominate your life. Overall, this is an adventure. You're in a new country and can learn to make the best of it or wallow in misery. Most of us would rather be happy than miserable. Make sure you're taking care of yourself and keeping an open mind about your new surroundings. It won't be like home, but that's the entire point of going to a new country.
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I myself no longer have a home. I have lost the feeling of belonging somewhere. MY home is the world. I am a citizen of the world.