How Becoming a Mother Shaped My Life When I first saw my daughter, I decided that I was gonna do better in life, not only for her but for myself. I wanted her to be able to have nice things that she wants and never to go without. I wanted my baby girl to have a good role model to look up to. I wanted to be the person she could come to for questions about her future issues no matter how little or how bad it could upset me. Just seeing my daughter made me realize how important being her mother truly is, and how I am the one who will mold who she will become. First of all, my daughter made me mature and change my way of thinking one-hundred percent. After having her I talked to my teachers, my principal, and was able to finish my senior year of high school early threw an online program. As soon as I graduated high school, I got a job at Go Green to be able to support my daughter on my own. I was able to buy diapers and wipes as needed; I paid for my daughters whole first birthday party and all the accessories and decorations on my own. I worked at Go Green for three months and absolutely hated it, I realized I wanted to do more; I wanted to become something more than someone who cleans people's clothes. If it was not for having my daughter, I do not know if I ever …show more content…
When my daughter wants to play and I have homework or a final exam, for example I turn on her favorite movie Moana for her to watch while I finish. My family helps occupy her while I do what I need to succeed. Haylee has been sick many times and I still have school work to do, so I have learned to multitask to help her and myself at the same time. I give her paper and a pencil at times to allow her to believe she is helping me with my work. My father and I also will give her our phone to play on or to listen to music while I do homework or housework. Everyone has to learn to manage their time for a reason; mine was for my
And it’s all thanks to my mother that I turned out the way I did. I wouldn’t have survived my younger years, both physically and mentally without her unwavering support and love. These situations have taught me more than I would have thought as a child. Even with the absence of a father for virtually all of my life, I would be confident in my abilities to provide everything I could to my children. I know from experience what is missing when there’s no father figure, and I would put my all into giving them everything that was missing from my life.
The moment in time when I realized that I was never going to have a Father like the rest of my friends changed the course of my life. As a young boy it was difficult coming home after a baseball game where each of my friends dads were there to cheer them on. I was left with the Father that was incapable of working or even getting himself out of bed. My fathers illness showed me to never take life for granted because one day your life can be normal and another day you're best days have already past.
I will start off by talking about my amazing mother and how she helped me out in the long run. My mother taught me to never rely on anyone that I can do whatever I set my mind to. She also told me that life is full of mistakes, and I would always learn from them. She taught me how to cook so if you ever want something to eat you know who to come to.
...child. I had no choice but to shape up and make a way for the both of us. Having a child made me realize that life is not all fun and games as my mother would say. I learned that in life there are responsibilities. I truly believe that had I not had a child at an early age, I would still be a wild absentminded party girl and who knows what else may have happened.
Motherhood has taught me many life lessons. Before becoming a mother, I was a self centered child. I had no motivation to succeed. All I was worried about was where the next party was. At that time I had no want to try because I was so scared to fail. I was slowly progressing to go nowhere and do nothing with my life. That has all changed now. I no longer party or use drugs. I work full time, attend college full time and devote my all to my children. Without them I would probably be in a jail cell not where I am today.
The greatest woman I’ve ever known always told me that education was important…and she was right. I came from a small town in the suburbs of St. Louis, Missouri prior to becoming a teenager. At the time, education was abundant in St. Ann, where I lived. I attended a decent elementary school and made good grades, despite mathematics not being my cup of tea. I have
Being a Mum has taught me more than I could have imagined, and I know, all of my children are the greatest thing I will have ever done with my
I dont really know what im doing, seems like i never have. From being in grade school and not knowing why God put me here to being in high school and still wondering the same thing. You said you wanted something interesting, yet not sad, but those two things are like best friends.
The authoritative style has been perfect for me; it is very common amongst most homes, and it is one of the most positive parenting styles you will ever see. The authoritative parenting style has affected my life tremendously, as my parents have helped me to have strong morals as well as being able to stand on my own two feet. Although I grew up in an authoritative parenting style, I was also greatly affected by the other parenting styles, through some of my friends and associates, and those experiences made me appreciate the parents, and the life I had even more. These styles have affected my life greatly, and I believe that have been very effective in raising a kid into an adult, through learning and education. This topic relates to my life, because without the
There have been a vast number of lives that have touched mine. Many different people have shared a piece of their soul in my formation. However, it is my mother who is the most important and most influential person in my life. My mother raised me by herself since the day I was born. My father was abusive and she left to make a better life for the both of us. She has worked as many as four jobs at one time. My mother wants to make sure my brothers and I have a better life than she did. It hasn’t always been easy for her, taking care of us on her own, trying to pay bills and making sure we had everything we needed. My mom has always had us involved in sports at a very young age. We always were doing something or involved in something growing up. We went to summer school all through elementary school because she wanted us to get a head start. I remember when we were little she enrolled us I a manners and more class and I can recall when we would go out to eat people would compliment us on how well behaved we were.
Becoming a mother has been the best part of my life. I became a mother at a very young age. I had no idea what to expect and was not in the least prepared for the journey that lie ahead. I have truly embraced motherhood and enjoy all the wonderful things it has taught me. While living through motherhood, I have found that it can teach you the most valuable lessons there are to learn. Being a mother has taught me how to have patience. I have also learned that being a mother takes a lot on mental and physical strength. My children have been the best to teach me how to juggle many tasks at once. They have made me strong. Even through some unexpected turns, I have learned how to get through hard times and really learn what it means to never give up. My children are my biggest blessing, and I hope they will learn valuable lessons through me. The skills I have learned from being a mother have helped me in my college journey.
Being a mum at this tender age brought a significant sense of how life is of good meaning to me. My new responsibilities encouraged me to provide for my child. Every day was a great opportunity for me to take care of my kid. It was such an inordinate feeling for me to get to sleep every single night knowing that I had accomplished so much by making my kid happy during the day. I got used to the routine of waking up and getting to do the usual routine.
So here’s a little bit about some stuff that has truly shaped my life. First off I originally was raised in Senatobia, Ms and in this town the main thing you are taught is manners and to respect people even if you don’t want to. So I was very respectful to teachers and adults and would help my neighbors do stuff such as take their trash out for them, cut tree branches, or little things like if they needed light bulbs changed. While living in Mississippi I grew up with two older siblings a brother and sister. This kept me to be very competitive in all things i did from sports to hunting. They also taught me to be careful of believing everything people told you because some people just want to see you get in trouble or they might tell you that
I get it, your time is valuable, but guess what everyone’s time has value – and even more so does their life.
Many of us have role models in our lives and to most people role models are athletes and movie stars, but to me a role model is much more. To me a role model is a person who has positively influenced someone in life, and is not a person filled with selfishness and greed. They help shape someone’s personality, and characteristics. They are people who someone can look up to for advice in a hard situation, and know that they will give those words of wisdom. They will never judge our past actions, instead only look to help because they really care. A role model is someone who we should never feel awkward talking to about our problems. A perfect role model for me is my mother. She is a wonderful human being. She’s smart, wise, ambitious, patient and such a loving person. There are no words that can describe my gratitude towards her, but through this essay I will describe some of her characteristics that makes her my role model.