Marriage Proposal In The Victorian Era

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Marriage Proposals during the Victorian Era In The Importance of Being Earnest, Oscar Wilde demonstrates that many Victorians have different values and beliefs on marriage proposals compared to most people in the modern society. They emphasize appearances and wealth, so these are the two aspects that they stressed the most. In fact, true love is often regarded as not important. Victorians often treat trivial matters as significant and pay less attention to important matters, shown through how the characters deal with marriage proposals. Like many young Victorian women, Gwendolen chooses her spouse by his appearances, and she does not think deeply …show more content…

Algernon falls in love with his spouse the moment he meets her. He goes to Jack’s house to meet Cecily and proposes to her even though he has only known Cecily for less than a day. He treats marriage proposal as picking someone who he thinks is good for him even if he does not have prior knowledge about his partner. Second, Algernon lies to Cecily about him being her cousin, and he thinks it is fine to lie. Unfortunately, he does not know that lying has a bad consequence. As a result, Cecily rejects Algernon, and he decides to make “...arrangements with Dr. Chasuble to be christened at a quarter to six under the name of Ernest” (Act 3). Algernon thinks that changing his name to Ernest is important for his marriage, and Cecily will accept his proposal. On the other hand, Algernon needs to apologize to Cecily for lying to her because it is more crucial than changing his name to Ernest, but Algernon does not understand this. Algernon is a character who illustrates the young men during the Victorian Era. Many men often confuse what should be their priority. They make quick decisions based on their feeling instead of using their heads and reasoning skills. This often results in regarding unimportant ideas as …show more content…

Cecily makes quick decisions in her marriage proposal similar to Algernon. When Cecily hears Jack talks about his “wicked” brother named Ernest, she falls in love with Ernest even though she never has met him (Act 2). Cecily even broke her engagement, and she believes that an engagement is not serious if “...it hadn’t been broken off at least once” (Act 2). It is normal for Cecily to fall in love when she hears stories about a man who has been through tough situations. In other words, Cecily feels sympathetic to Ernest, and this can potentially lead to love. It is not right for Cecily to think she is engaged to Ernest when she never met him. In addition, Cecily thinks that her engagement should be broken once in order for it to be serious. This has a negative effect in marriage itself since the idea of breaking off an engagement proves that the Algernon and Cecily go through a rough path, and they can potentially not be right for each other. Unfortunately, Cecily sees this will make their marriage proposal more interesting. This situation shows that Cecily has a childish mind. She does not think deeply about marriage proposal. Third, Cecily is not aware of the fact that her partner is a liar; therefore, she only sees her partner based on his appearances. She does not think that marrying a liar can have a detrimental effect on her marriage. Lying in marriage can lead

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