“A persona that lies should have a good memory.” Said Quintillan. Lying is the most common wrong people do, it is an unavoidable part of human nature. Most likely, you are lied to multiple times everyday. Whether they are Malicious, Jacose, or Officious lies. So, today I’m going to tell you about the background of lying, what lying looks like and how to catch a liar, and the morality of lying.
A lie is a form of deception. It is giving some information while believing it to be untrue, intending to deceive. A lie consist of 3 main things: A) it communicates information B) the liar is trying to deceive or mislead and C) the liar believes what they are saying isn’t true. Lying is believed to require the liar to speak, write, or gesture. However, doing nothing in response to a question can also be a lie. Yeugen Yeutushenko says, “When truth is replaced by silence, silence is the lie.” This leads into mental reservations. Mental reservations are when you divide a statement into two parts: the first part is misleading, the two pats put together are true-however only the first part is said aloud, the second part is a ‘mental reservation’. For example: “I did not steal the cakes” (on Thursday afternoon) or “I have never cheated on my wife” (except for last Wednesday).
Why is lying wrong? Lying is wrong for multiple reasons, here are a few:
A) diminishes trust
B) makes people being lied to unable t make a free and informed decisions about the topic, or it leads people to make a decision they wouldn’t usually make
C) It’s something ‘good people’ don’t do
D) and it can become a habit leading to more lying or worse things
These are only a few examples of why lying is wrong. Lying also causes harm. It cause harm to the 1) person be...
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However, are white lies OK? A while lie is not intended to hurt anyone. The characteristics of a white lie usually include: A) no intended harm B) no harm done C) about something morally trivial D) not told often enough to devalued what you say. But, white lies do have a few flaws. The person being lied to is deprived of information, even if they wouldn’t like the information. The person telling the white lie may find it easier to lie and the line between white lies and blameworthy lies becomes blurred. Finally, white lies weaken the general presumption that lying is wrong.
So, now that you know what lying is, what it looks like and how to catch a liar, and the morality of lying, you can use this information to create a more trustworthy and truthful society. George Washington said, “It is better to offer no excuse, than to offer a bad one.”
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