Love In The Novel 50 Shades Of Love On Teens

Love is an intense feeling of deep affection. Love is seen everywhere from music, movies, TV shows, and most commonly used is literature. In today’s society teens tend to see love as the man having the control in the relationship. For example if a man did something wrong and the women confronted him about it the woman would be the bad guy. Having a “main chick” and “sides” is a new trend now. It works both ways, women can have three men and men can have three females. The sad thing about the new “trend” is that’s not an honest, truthful relationship. Love is having affection for one person only, not multiple people all at once. It take s more than looks to fall for someone. Media and literature have changed it up on society that now females

50 shades of grey puts girls down and make the man in control of the relationship. Grey is a wealthy man that takes control over a college girl named Anastasia. Grey has the girl under his spell, she can’t let him go as much as she tries Grey always finds a way to get her back. The relationship they have I would say is an abusive relationship. Grey tells the girl she can’t roll her eyes or he’ll spank or punish her in some way. The girl goes along with it which lets Grey do whatever he wants with her. Grey has the Anna sign a document about what to do, what to eat, and what to wear. On page 105-106 Grey tells Anna, “read these rules and let’s discuss.” Grey has made up a document that states obedience, sleep, food, clothes and exercise. Grey has control over Ana in every aspect of her life. Girls should know when the relationship is worth the stay or when the man is worth leaving. The other view on 50 shades of grey is the guys view. 50 shades of grey gives the guys an okay direction. In the novel grey is abusing the girl. If a guy sees this he will end up thinking its okay to do the same to his girl. That’s where abusive men come into play in society. Grey tells Ana on page 119, “You are mine,” he whispers. “Only mine. Don’t forget it.” Grey makes sure no one has Ana like he does. Grey isn’t much of a romantic guy for any girl but for Ana he has this different feeling towards her. An abusive relationship ends up in a crime which then ends up in prison. That’s what they didn’t write in the novel. They made the novel seem as if it was all okay and nothing bad could ever go wrong. Grey didn’t really show a negative side to when the girl refused he seemed to have tons of patients. If the author gave Grey a bad side the novel would change completely. It’s not just about what happened in the relationship between them both. Kids would take it one way and end up doing it in the