LGBT Reflection Paper

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Society has shaped the thoughts and minds of many individuals and because of this personal beliefs towards LGBT people came into play. Society was constantly telling people that there was something wrong with them if they were LGBT and that they would go to hell for it because God did not approve of it and it was a sin. I would like to say that because society was judging people and denying them, that they were committing a sin. It is not their place to decide the fate of certain people, the only person that can make those decisions is God. God is the one that decides whether we are deemed worthy to go to Heaven or not. With that being said, I grew up in a family that is very religious on one side and the other side had their person beliefs …show more content…

So that was one side of my family that did not like me due to the color of my skin and it did upset me. This made it even harder for me to be myself when it came to my father’s dad’s side of the family because they were really religious and did not agree with someone being LGBT, or so I thought. I came up with that explanation on my own based off of the time period that they were raised and the fact that they grew up in a church. So I was nervous to tell them that I am a lesbian because of their backgrounds. I should have never done that because I never tried to figure out their true thoughts towards that subject matter. I gave into the way that society was and their beliefs that they put into place, instead of figuring out my own families beliefs. This made me become the part of society that I did not like and that is, the part that passes judgment on people based off of the time that they grew up in and the beliefs that were in …show more content…

My great-grandparents are 78 and 87 years old were raised in a completely different time period and did not discuss or even think of same-sex couples let alone marriages. They were raised in a time that LGBT couples did not “exist” and if they did it was not shown. The LGBT couples mainly existed in private rather than public. The time period that they were raised in followed what society said was the norm and rarely went against it. Well, that is what I assumed because of their ages and religious views. I would like to say that the assumptions that I made were completely wrong. After having a long conversation with my grandparents, I found out that they did not conform to society’s views and expectations. My grandmother had gotten pregnant out of marriage and never married that man, she ended up marrying my grandfather. I mention that because it was definitely frowned upon to become pregnant out of marriage and then marry another man. My grandmother also worked multiple jobs in the medical field and was highly educated. This was definitely not normal for African American women or even men during her time period because the racism that was occurring. After listening to all of her stories, it shinned a light into my eyes. It made me think that even though I am a lesbian that they are going to love me no

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