Biblical Integration
John 8:4-11, tells the story of a woman caught in adultery, her accusers brought her to Jesus, to be judged and condemned for her actions. Instead of blaming the women for her sins, Jesus told those gathered, “let anyone among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her” (New Revised Standard Version). This story in the Bible is a prime example against victim blaming. When individuals participate in victim blaming they ignore the virtues of the person and instead focus on their faults (Aronson, et al., 2016). In the above anecdote, Jesus reminds us that none of us are worthy of assigning blame to another. As Jesus told the woman, after seeing her accusers had left, “neither do I condemn you” (John 8:10, NRSV).
Caution against assigning blame is further stated in Matthew 7:1-2, “do not judge, so that you may not be judged. For with the judgment you make you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get” (NRSV). This
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verse can be applied to rape myth. When victims of rape are blamed for their own victimization, they are being judged for their behaviors leading up to their rape (Hayes, et al., 2013). This is especially true when a woman is blamed for being raped after spending an evening drinking or having fun with friends. However, despite these cautions against victim blaming, many people continue to do so, even unintentionally. Individuals who believe in a just world theory feel the need to explain acts of violence against innocent people. To do so they need to find fault in the victim. Through the defensive attribution process, they can make themselves feel better about the incident by assigning blame in the victim’s actions or lack of action (Aronson, et al., 2016). Again, in the Bible, caution is found against a just world belief theory and victim blaming. James 1:2-3 reminds us, “my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance” (NRSV). This verse reminds us that sometime bad things will happen to good people, due to no fault of their own. As Christians we may be tested and need to always remember when someone else is facing a trial or tribulation to not blame them for their predicament, but support them in love of Christ. “Therefore encourage one another and build up each other” (1 Thessalonians 5:11, NRSV). Conclusion When an individual behaves in a way that is in contradiction to the way they view themselves, cognitive dissonance occurs (Aronson, et al., 2016).
To reduce the cognitive dissonance being experienced, people blame the victim of an individual’s aggression. Victim blaming also occurs when a person’s belief if a just world is threatened. In order to restore the belief that the world is a just place, the victim must be assigned blame for the tragedy they have experienced (Hayes, et al., 2013).
Based upon the studies reviewed, men are more likely than women to participate in victim blaming. This may be due to women, frequently being perceived as victims, which in turn, causes women to feel greater empathy for victims (Hayes, et al., 2013). Further, being a victim of bullying decreases the likelihood of later victim blaming (Garland, et al., 2017). These studies remind us of the importance of being aware of falling for behaviors that result in victim blaming, such as rape
myth. In conclusion, the Bible serves as a guide against victim blaming and believing in a just world. As stated in Romans 12:2, “do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God—what is good and acceptable and perfect” (NRSV). As Christians, we are to rise above the need to resolve our cognitive dissonances, by blaming the victims of our aggressions or of tragedies.
Why is it that we as human beings feel the need to blame someone for every negative situation, which occurs? If we really look at the situation with any great depth, we may discover that an almost endless amount of things may be 'blamed' for the tragedy blaming an individual is pointless - only fate can really be blamed.
Judgement is everywhere. Everyone has blamed another person and likely has been their own fault. In Arthur Miller’s The Crucible the people are ready to hang someone so long as somebody cries witch. For example: reverend Hale judges people from what he has heard from
With one in five college students experiencing sexual assault during their college career who wouldn’t be afraid? This remains especially true for young women between the ages of 18-24 (“The Realities of Sexual Assault”). While a woman’s freshman and sophomore year of college are when she is at a most risk for assault, it can happen at any time. According to Robin Gray in the article on sexual assault statistics, “between 20% and 25% of women will experience a completed and/or attempted rape during their college career,” (Gray). At Northwest Missouri State University for the 2016-2017 academic year there are 5,618 undergraduate students enrolled. With the ratio of male to female students being 44% to 56%, there are about 3,147 female students. In terms of the statistics estimated by Gray, 630-787 of the female student population at Northwest Missouri State will experience rape during their college career (“Northwest Missouri State University”). This is a disturbingly large figure. Women are not the only ones susceptible to these acts, but men are too. It is said about “10%” of all sexual assault cases involve male victims (“The Realities of Sexual Assault”). While this number is slightly lower for men it is often believed that male victims of sexual assault do not often report their crime due to the social stigma surrounding their assault. Men may feel
…many people now acquire "victimhood" through counseling. Being a "victim" draws sympathy. It explains the tragedies, the failures, the hardships, the health problems and the disappointments of life. It relieves people of some of life's natural burdens: dealing with complexity, facing things beyond their control, and accepting responsibility for decisions and actions.
One of the earliest examples of a scapegoat comes in the story of the life of Jesus Christ. Whether one believes in Christ as a savior, the story of his life in...
As it is in the case of the majority of violent crimes, (Davies and Rogers, 2006) perpetrators of violent crimes, and especially sexual assault related crimes exert additional force by threatening the victim or their families. Male victims also must contend with an additional sense of shame and embarrassment in being identified with a crime that has been typically portrayed in the media as happening to women. This places men at a disadvantage in the reporting process, because their safety and the safety of others is compromised further if the crime is not reported. (Messerschmitt, 2009)
When the victim does not fit the ideal victim attributes which society has familiarised themselves with, it can cause complications and confusion. Experts have noticed there is already a significant presence of victim blaming, especially for cases involving both genders. The fear of being blamed and rejected by the public is prominent in all victims. Victim blaming proclaims the victim also played a role in the crime by allowing the crime to occur through their actions (Kilmartin and Allison, 2017, p.21). Agarin (2014, p.173) underlines the problem of victim blaming is due to the mass of social problems and misconceptions within society. The offender can have “an edge in court of public opinion” if victim blaming exists, resulting in the prevention of the case accomplishing an effective deduction in court (Humphries, 2009, p.27). Thus, victims will become more reluctant to report offences because of their decrease in trust in the police and criminal justice system, leading to the dark figure of
...everyone else. From a murderer to a thief or liar, we are all the same. It is amazing how a few verses from the word of God can “knock us all down a few pegs”, so to speak. I stepped back, and with the help of God, examined myself. I did not like most of what I found. We think we are good, but being good is nothing, if it is done for the completely wrong reasons, such as self-glorification. We lie to ourselves, but God knows what lies deep in our hearts. I am thankful that through His love and grace, God is willing to accept me and mold me to fit His purpose. Now more than ever, I am eager to take the example of Paul and tell the world, not of condemnation, but of the love of Christ.
It is not a topic that is brought up often, especially at schools or at gatherings, yet it is crucial that everyone be educated, or at least informed on a topic that affects women every day. “Given that sexual violence continues to occur at high rates in the United States, it is vital that we understand attitudes and cultural norms that serve to minimize or foster tolerance of sexual violence” (Aosved, 481). Growing rates of sexual violence goes to prove that it is not taken seriously by many, especially when myths excuse the actions of the perpetrator and instead guilt victims into thinking they are responsible for the horrible act. Burt (1980), in her article titled, “Cultural myths and support for rape” attempts to make sense of the importance of stereotypes and myths, defined as prejudicial, stereotypes, or false beliefs about rape, rape victims and rapists- in creating a climate hostile to rape victims (Burt, 217). Examples of rape myths are such sayings as “only bad girls get raped”; “women ask for it”; “women cry rape” (Burt, 217). This only goes to prove that rape myths against women always blame and make it seem like it is the women’s fault she was raped and that she deserved it for “acting” a certain way. McMahon (2007), in her article titled, “Understanding community-specific rape myths” explains how Lonsway and Fitzgerald (1994) later described rape myths as “attitudes and beliefs that are generally
Scapegoating is when a person irrationally blames their failures on others, therefore not taking responsibility themselves. The “scapegoating theory says that prejudiced people believe they are society’s victims” (Schaefer 38). It is always someone else’s fault that things do not go their way and the person “… transfers the responsibility for failure to some vulnerable group” (Schaefer 38).
I am guilty of inordinate desire; I am guilty of cowardly silence when I should have spoken; I am guilty of untruthfulness and hypocrisy in the face of threatening violence; I am guilty of disowning without mercy the poorest of my neighbors; I am guilty of disloyalty and falling away from Christ. Why does it concern me if others are also guilty? Every sin of another I can excuse; only my own sin, of which I remain guilty, I can never excuse.
"The Sinner is often the Saint" - In order to come to terms with this
Rape and sexual violence is a very serious problem that affects millions of people each year. Rape is someone taking advantage of another person sexually. Sexual assault can be verbal, physical, visual, or anything that forces a person to join in unwanted sexual contact or attention. ("Sexual Assault.") Rape is one of the most underreported crimes. In 2002, only thirty-nine percent of rapes and sexual assaults were reported to law officials. ("Sexual Violence: Fact Sheet.") Victims sometimes do not report that they have raped because of shame or feeling that it was their fault. It is never the victim's fault. "Victim blaming" is holding the victim of a crime to be in a whole or in partly responsible for what had happened to them. Most victims believe this. ("Myths and Facts about Sexual Violence.")
Assigning blame has become an increasingly difficult and complex concept to understand, especially in our legal court system. I associate blame with being held responsible for the consequences of one’s intentional actions. In regards to sexual assault cases, I think the blame should not be placed on the victims, but rather on the perpetrators. Victim blaming justifies the perpetrator’s actions, discourages sexual assault reportings, and can have psychological effects on the victim.
A writer from Southernct stated a fact that “ men, women, and children of all ages, races, religions, and economic classes have been victims of sexual assault. Sexual assault occurs in rural areas, small towns, and larger cities” ( “Southernct” 1). We have all seen on the news a case where a female has been raped and somehow the world makes us believe that it was her own fault that it happened. This is due to victim blaming. Victim blaming occurs when the victim of some sort of crime or wrongdoing is held partially or fully responsible for what happened to them. It is not always easy to identify though. Some people would be considered to be victim blaming over every day situations in life. For example, someone making the