How do I know when I am in a mature relationship? A mature relationship happens when I am able to realize that I have hurt someone. Once I realized that I have hurt another I need to be able to go to that person, apologize and ask for forgiveness. Not only do I need to be able to do this, but I need to be able to forgive myself. Being in a mature relationship is important because it will help me grow as a person. Immature relationships normally do not last. Mature relationships need communication, time, and courage. In my past experiences, I have lost many people to my pride and lack of maturity. My pride has kept me from apologizing and asking for forgiveness because I want to think that I am right. When really I know I am wrong and just …show more content…
When I grew into my adolescent years, my relationship with the woman I called my mother fell apart and I began to feel abandoned. Being abandon means to be put aside or not included. There are different ways to be abandoned. Three of which include socially, physically, and emotionally. To be socially abandoned is to not have your ideas or thoughts acknowledged. When a person is physically abandoned they are left out on their own; no one there to help. Finally, emotional abandonment means to be in a place and other people don’t care about how something can make you feel. It is important that I not abandon the people who enter my life. I may not know what might be going on in someone’s life and if I abandon them in any way, I could lose that person. I as a human being need to be able to stay in a person’s life even when it gets hard. One day, that could be me again. When I am abandoned by someone, I feel like I am not worth much. Not worth another person’s time. One time when I was getting or of a behavioral hospital back in 2014, Donna (my aunt) and I got into an argument about my sexuality. About nine months before the argument I was placed in a group home. I had weird thoughts about my sexuality. It wasn’t until I got to
Maturity is not a fickle expression such as happiness or frustration, but rather an inherent quality one gains over time, such as courage or integrity. Before maturity can be expressed, the one who expresses it must have significant confidence in himself, since self-confidence is the root of maturity. Being flexible and formulating one's own opinions or ideas are aspects of maturity, but neither is possible without self-confidence. The greatest aspect of maturity is the ability to make decisions which society does not agree with. Whether or not one follows through with these ideas is not important. What is important is the ability to make the decision. These decisions represent the greatest measure of maturity.
First, the power of this quotation overwhelms me with the exact same hurt I always felt when rejected by peers and/or abandoned by a trusted adult (whose gender and role also hold significance, as I will show shortly) in the face of that rejection.
Through years of figuring out and getting used to, people accept the world they live in as the norm. This acceptance, though, is pushed and aided by tips and encouragement from parents or guiding figures. To wake up in a world and immediately be abandoned would be the pinnacle of confusion. Over anything, people crave human attention and company, simply because there are lessons to be learned from others. To be deserted from birth would not only weigh emotionally on someone, but also leave him or her to navigate and discover what is in actuality a strange and unruly world. In this way, Dr. Frankenstein's immediate desertion of his creation is the gravest ...
In conclusion, relationships are very important. Without human relationships a person can’t go through life. It is essential that people have relationships with others if they want to live a happy and full live. Relationships bring joy in times of happiness, and they bring comfort in times of sadness. Relationships with other people help shape your emotions. Not only that but other people are sometimes the best at teaching you things about yourself and the world, which is undeniably one of the most important things of
Abandonment is a major theme of the beginning of the book. Robert Walton writes to his sister that he “[has] no friend,” that when he is “glowing with the enthusiasm of success, there will be none to participate [his] joy,” and that if he is “assailed by disappointment, no one will endeavour to sustain [him] in dejection” (4). He wants a friend, and that is when he finds Victor Frankenstein in the freezing water. Victor Frankenstein
Mellor, Anne. Abandonment and Lack of Proper Nurture Shape the Monster's Nature. N.p.: Copyright Methuen, Inc., 1988.
As people grow, a variety of relationships develop over time. Relationships with family, friends, and romantic partners are such examples of these diverse ties. Friendships in particular are affected by the following: the level of interaction involved, how communication between two friends is established, and contact, if they exist, between multiple circles of friends through one person. Some examples of these are friendship expectations, the stages of childhood friendship, and the stages of adult friendship.
Abandonment is something no child should have to go through. What does an abandon person feel like? It makes a person feel like they are the only ones in the whole entire world. They feel alone, angry, frustrated, and scared. That contradiction between what they experience inside and what is reflected back to them from the outside must be resolved (Blecher). Adoption offers
In Mary Shelley’s novel, Frankenstein shows how a child’s feelings of abandonment, can have an effect on a child’s upbringing into adulthood. Victor Frankenstein a young scientist interested in the study of chemistry, creates the monster as a scientific experiment. After he creates the monster, Frankenstein becomes fearful and disgusted over his creation. He runs away from him and mistreats him as a result. The monster now abandoned does not have anyone in his life to understand him. The relationship between Victor Frankenstein and the monster in this novel parallels how Mary Shelley felt growing up without her mother. Therefore, similarities can be drawn between Mary Shelley’s novel Frankenstein and the feelings of abandonment through the
Maturity is commonly used word, but when asked what the word means many people simply shrug their shoulders. Maturity isn’t a word that has a clear definition. Being based primarily on one’s connotation, it doesn’t mean the same thing to everyone. Personally I picked this word up through context. However, upon doing a careful study of where this word originates and other’s connotation’s, I feel I’ve achieved a relatively good understanding. Webster claims the word to mean “based on slow careful consideration,” but I feel there is much more to this word than that.
Additionally a characteristic of maturity is being able to detach oneself from the situation and imagine themselves in...
Maturity is not something that happens overnight. Maturity comes through trial and error; it’s a process which has to be perfected. Life throws curveballs and there are always multiple ways to deal with the situations. Being mature is making the right choices and knowing right from wrong.
Age do not determined the actual matureness of a person neither the circumstance to handle situations. Adulthood is not based on age; it’s based on emotional maturity. The ability to listen to and evaluate the viewpoint on circumstance they find themselves on and been able to analyze how to find the solution to the problem that makes them mature. Age is just a number; therefore you could be twenty-six, twenty-eight and still act immature. Many teens think that as soon they 18 their parents are going to continue to help them but the true is that they already did their part raising them up. One part of growing up and becoming an adult is that parents are not always going to be there so you got to grow up on your own. Sooner or later he or she are going to face obstacles on their own and that would make them stronger which will help them mature.
The term abandonment has the multitude of uses, which can generally be broken into legal, and extra legal uses. Abandonment in law is the relinquishment of an interest, claim, privilege or possession. In the context of juvenile delinquency child abandonment is recognized as a juvenile delinquency, which comes into the category of neglected child. In this case the child is usually not physically harmed directly as part of the abandonment, distinct from this widely recognized crime of
Maturity is a quality that is admirable for anyone, at any age to have. Perhaps that is because it has to be learned over time and is not something that one naturally has as a character trait. When I think of maturity, I usually think of adults who know how to conduct themselves. Adults are a symbol of maturity-- this goes back to the etymology of the word- which stems from the Latin word maturitas, maturitatis, f. In Latin, the word means ripeness, which would make sense because adults are fully developed. Although the literal meaning of maturity is within the realm of being fully developed, there is a more precise definition that would apply to the psychological and mental practice of what is maturity.