The beautifully written book, If You Come Softly by Jacqueline Woodson, centers around the star-crossed lovers, Jeremiah and Elisha. Woodson wove a story about first love and the challenges that the two protagonists must face as an interracial couple. Jeremiah, known as Miah, is a wealthy fifteen-year-old African American high school student. Elisha, who prefers to be called Ellie, is an upper-class white Jewish fifteen-year-old high school student. They accidentally bumped into each other and instantly felt a connection with each other. Their relationship slowly progresses and they became more comfortable with each other. They tell each other about themselves, with one person confiding their secrets and the other listening closely. Although …show more content…
One example of this being demonstrated is when Ellie and Miah defeat their own fears caused by their family problems. The hate that comes with these problems and fears were overpowered by their love. Ellie was able to trust Miah to not leave her and Miah was comfortable enough reveal the truth about his parents to Ellie. Another example is shown when they did not let the society’s viewpoints that were portrayed by people’s disapproval towards their relationship interfere. They did not let it bother them to the point that they stop their relationship. Their love was too strong for that to happen. Despite these reasons, other readers might think differently and say that Miah’s death was a demonstration of the force of hatred overpowering the force of love. However, this is untrue because Ellie still continued loving Miah and did not regret their relationship. She treasures the time spent with Miah and did not let other people’s opinions and actions get in the way of that. Hence, the love between Ellie and Miah was much more powerful that the hate in their personal life and society’s inability to accept interracial
Jean Thompson’s short story, All Shall Love Me and Despair shows that proves that the feeling of love makes people compromise even if it can be harmful to themselves. When one finds them self constantly questioning every action they do when around a specific person, they may want to reconsider their relationship with that person. I believe this because one should be able to be comfortable, and them self, especially around those that they love. Annie and Scout are a couple who loves each other, but Annie second guesses most of her actions around Scout.
Takes place in a small town in Kentucky that has a small population will little growth over the past twenty years. These two worlds are leads us back to the central idea. If there is no communication in a relationship, the relationship will become stagnant and one person will fall behind in the relationship as the other makes the necessary changes to continue with their life.
In Ethan Frome by Edith Wharton, Ethan, a reserved young man was torn between two women. He was married to Zenobia Frome, but his true love was his wife’s cousin, Mattie Silver. Zeena and Mattie were different in all aspects. Mattie was a caring, loving, beautiful young girl, while Zeena was a sickly, shrewish woman aged well beyond her years. Ethan was continuously drawn to Mattie throughout the novel, as she was much more attractive and amicable than Zeena.
A developed relationship can be interpreted as one where the couple is interdependent, tolerant, and dedicated. Equity allows a relationship to efficiently develop in this manner. Judith Viorst illustrates a poem depicting a couple’s struggles and their sacrifices for the other in “True Love”. In many points of the poem, the couple is compromising for the other’s flaws in order to avoid unnecessary conflicts. “I do not resent watching the Green Bay Packers / Even though I am philosophically opposed to football” (Stanza 1) is an example of the wife forcing herself
Ellie has become a successful adult, after he was liberated from the concentration camp. “I have not lost faith in God. I have moments of anger and protest. Sometimes I 've been closer to him for that reason” (Ellie Weisel (brainyquote)) this quote shows that his faith hasn 't been lost through out what he went through. Throughout the book Ellie was angry at God because he was confused why God was letting all of that happen, why won 't he stop it. Eventually nearly around 2 year Ellie survived through that concentration camp after dealing/facing with many difficulties and he overcame
In the novel Balzac and the little Chinese seamstress by Dai Sijie, I can relate my relationship with Diego, and Lou and the little seamstress's relationship because we have numerous things in common. We both try and keep our sexual relationship a secret. Both of our relationships are open because Diego and I express our feeling's with people we associate with, we are also open by letting other people see our body language. There relationship is intense whereas my relationship if not. There is an equal dynamic in my relationship, what I mean by saying that is we have similarities and differences.
“When Harry Met Sally” depicts the ups and downs of a relationship between and man and a woman over the course of twelve years. These ups and downs are also referred to as the ten interpersonal relationship stages. A couple’s communication throughout their relationship, both positive and negative, determine whether the relationship will be maintained or terminated. Although some couples experience every stage from the beginning to the end of their relationship, many partners, like Harry and Sally, flow back and forth between these stages and sometimes skip a stage completely, making every relationship entirely unique.
One extravagant way love is challenged is due to loss. Esch lost her mother due to childbirth and China and her puppies get sick after birth. Esch is challenged in the sense that will her and her baby survive or will she choose fear over love? Esch in the end chose the risk and decided to keep the baby. With keeping the baby, comes consequences. These consequences include risking her health, upsetting her father and growing up
Ellie and his father both lie about their age and employment in order to stay together and not be killed. As the days passed, many became very greedy, angry, and groosum. Some killed their own to just have a piece of bread. While Ellie and his father still stood by each others side. Ellie never acted upon his grief, he would care for his father, and help him when he was ill.
..., the society begins to see love as a goal. Romantic love becomes a noble trait and just quest if one wishes to embark on it.
In conclusion, all of the above paragraphs dealt with examples proving that love can be associated to a higher power. A higher power in definition is any being or group of beings that have direct control over the actions of another being. Two of the examples showed how a higher power can control love and one of the examples showed how love can defy a higher power and prevail. In any case, it has been proven that a higher power does exist when dealing with love. Many people have wondered what love really is and how love develops between people. Even if love isn't associated with a higher power in life, it is a strange phenomenon and so far the association of love with a higher powers is a valid suggestion as it was proven in the story, "A Midsummer Night's Dream"
Love caused his logic and sensibility to fail him, and provoked him to commit monstrous acts that destroyed many lives. Through analysis of “Happy Endings” by Margaret Atwood, it can be concluded that one of her many intended lessons was to show the value and the powerful effects of love. Atwood successfully proved this lesson by using powerful examples of both successful and disastrous relationships to illustrate the positive and negative effects of love. Atwood truly demonstrated what it is like to follow your heart.
The author sets the scene with the two couples sitting around a table drinking gin and making small talk. The real story begins when the topic of love comes up.
It also shows that in order for relationships to work, both partners must contribute equal effort to ensure that it doesn't fail. ‘A blow, a kiss’ shows how the transition into adulthood can affect one’s relationship with their family. It also makes evident when people are protected and have support, they are more likely to act out against the injustices they witness. To show these concepts, Winton uses several techniques such as metaphors,
cases, grow rather than diminish with time. Falling in love can be one of the