I Had a Nice Time with You Tonight. On the App.
“Anyone who spends much time online and on a smartphone knows that it's no substitute for the real thing-it's just an appetizer that can delight and satisfy until the main course arrives.” (396 Wortham). Renowned author of the New York Times, Jenna Wortham describes the appeal of these new social media technologies and acknowledges that these apps will never fully replace the real thing. Although some argue against these new technologies, such as author Sherry Turkle, who believes these new technology are negatively affecting our real-world interactions and communication. New communication technologies of the 21st century are positively affecting our society by connecting people to anyone, anywhere in the world within a matter of seconds.
In the article I Had a Nice Time with You Tonight. On the App., author Jenna Wortham goes over the numerous ups and downs of many new relationships created by and around digital communication applications. Wortham starts the article off by describing her weekend she had spent with her boyfriend who was over 3,000 miles away. The only way this is possible is with all of the many new message and social media apps which are constantly improving everyday. Wortham goes on
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These technologies have greatly improved long distance relationships as well as talking to distant friends or family members. Wortham argues that, “If anything, the pervasiveness of technology in my life has heightened my desire for actual one-on-one meetings.” (396 Wortham). Wortham describes her real life experiences with social media stating that it has improved her relationship for the better. The easy in access to information and communication to people is almost second nature to today's society. These new technologies can help relationship going and for some stronger than
In Sherry Turkle’s, New York Times article, she appeals to ethos, logos and pathos to help highlight on the importance of having conversations. Through these rhetorical devices she expresses that despite the fact that we live in a society that is filled with communication we have managed to drift away from “face to face” conversations for online connection. Turkle supports her claims by first focusing on ethos as she points out her own experiences and data she has collected. She studied the mobile connection of technologies for 15 years as well as talked to several individuals about their lives and how technology has affected them. Sherry Turkle also shows sympathy towards readers by saying “I’ve learned that the little devices most of us carry
Does communication via social media have a negative impact on the importance of face-to-face interactions? In Jenna Wortham's article, I Had a Nice Time with You Tonight, on the App, this is the central issue. It is easy for a person coming from a simpler generation to agree with this particular statement. On the contrary, if a person coming from this technologically advanced generation were to be asked this question, the individual may have a completely different opinion. Wortham, a credible writer for the New York Times, appeals to the younger and more technologically sound generation. She gathers information from educators and from her own experiences and drafts a thesis. Although there might be some downside to the bulk usage of social media as a means of communication, there is tremendous upside that facilitates the usage of such means.
In the21st century, Amazing changes in communication has affected interpersonal relationships. Some prefer to use technology like Facebook, Line, and Wechat to communicate with their friends rather than talking in person. Communicating with technology will make them alienated. Interpersonal relationships are also important by personal talking, which may lead to improve relationships. In her essay, “Connectivity and Its Discontents”, Sherry Turkle believes technology weakens interpersonal relationship among friends, and relatives. In “Mother Tongue”, Amy Tan claims talking with her mother and husband in a personal way can improves their relationship. Using technology to communicate will alienate and widen the distance between friends; talking
Turkle’s stance on this topic is emotionally engaging as she uses rhetoric in a very powerful approach, while also remaining unbiased. The article flows very smoothly in a beautifully structured format. The author maintains a composition that would appeal to the interest of any sort of audience. She effectively questions the reader’s views on the negative consequences technology has on social interactions. Her work is inspiring, it sheds light on the dark hole society has dug for themselves, a state of isolation through communication in the digital age; this is a wake up
Technology has advanced a lot and has been greatly impacting our lives since the Industrial Revolution. The appearance of the mobile phone, the computer, and the tablets have all changed our ability to communicate with people around the world. Although technologies have greatly improved our lifestyle, they have brought many negative effects on our relationships and happiness as well, for instance distorting people's views on one another and bringing more loneliness to people's lives. Many people believe that benefited by social media platforms such as Facebook, it is now not necessary to talk to someone in person in order to effectively communicate with one and know one’s life. Others, however, believe that technology alone cannot replace
In the article, “I Had a Nice Time With You Tonight. On the App,” written by Jenna Wortham from The New York Times, she talks about how social media and other applications affect people in relationships. Many people believe that technology and dating apps let individuals feel closer to one another even if they are thousands of miles apart. Others, however, believe that interaction through phones is causing relationships and meeting people to be not as genuine. Even though Wortham has evidence that technology hinders relationships, she believes that applications can help individuals feel closer to each other.
Advances in technology have complicated the way in which people are connecting with others around them and how it separates people from reality. In “Virtual Love” by Meghan Daum, she illustrates through the narrator 's point of view how a virtual relationship of communicating through emails and text messages can mislead a person into thinking that they actually have a bond with a person whom they have stuck their ideals onto and how the physical worlds stands as an obstacle in front of their relationship when the couple finally meets. In comparison, the article … While Daum and X discuss that technology pushes us apart and disconnects us from the physical world, they evoke a new light into explaining how technology creates the illusion of making
The evolution of technology has had a great impact on our lives, both positive and negative. While it is great to be able to be able to travel faster and research anything with the smartphones that now contain almost every aspect of our daily lives, there are also many advances within the realm of technology. Nicholas Carr presents information on the dependency aircraft pilots have on automated technology used to control airplanes in the article “The Great Forgetting”. Likewise, in “Is Facebook Making Us Lonely?” written by Stephen Marche, the result of isolation and pseudo relationships created by social media is shown throughout the article. We live in such a fast paced society with so much information at our fingertips that we don’t make
The article “I Had a Nice Time with You Tonight On the App” written by Jenna Wortham indicates that though Wortham’s personal experience of using smart phone communication applications. She has found immense benefits of these applications for people, outing to instant, entertaining and multitask functions. However, there are still couple of detrimental effects which attack people’s virtual communication skills and alienate people’s relationship. These limitations proved by the example of an online dating tool which Wortham is using with her boyfriend. Surrounding by an array of dazzling technical tools, Wortham still admits her desire of face-to-face talk.
Many believes that technological inventions has alter the way human communicate with each other. With new innovations like instant messaging, facebook, and whatsapp the idea of having face to face conversation is considered ancient. In “No Need to Call” the author Sherry Turkle argues that phone calls have decreased due to the luxury the comes with instant messaging, such as texting and email. Turkle claims that voting for online communication may negatively affect the way in which people will hand face to face interaction. Meanwhile, Jenna Wortham the author of “I Had a Nice Time With You Tonight” disagrees by claiming that, despite the vast number of social media and dating sites that exist today, virtual communication can actually strengthen
“Social media, a web-based and mobile technology, has turned communication into a social dialogue, and dominates the younger generation and their culture. As of 2010, Generation Y now outnumbers Baby Boomers, and 96% of Gen Y has joined a social network” (Qualman 1). Social media now accounts for the number one use of the Internet, and this percentage is rising bigger every day (Qualman). As a consequence, people are becoming more reliant on social media, which has a led to a number of advantageous as well as unfavorable effects. The world is more connected today than it has ever been in the past, and this is all because of growth in technology. What has yet to be determined though
Social networking has increasingly had a huge impact on society. Technology has opened the door to a vast amount of information and to the ability to relay that information to practically anybody at anytime and anywhere. People are constantly checking their email, updating their status on Facebook, sending tweets on Twitter, instant messaging, and texting. The debate of whether the use of social networking is a negative or positive aspect is a continuous one. In the case of Steven Pinker, his essay “Mind over Mass Media” argues that media technologies have a positive effect on mental development. In contrast, Sherry Turkle’s essay “Connectivity and Its Discontents” asserts that technology has a negative effect on interpersonal relationships. Although Pinker makes many excellent points on how technology is improving intelligence and Turkle provides exceptional ideas of how technology is damaging to relationships, neither Pinker nor Turkle provides the best answer to this question due to their lack of credibility and inclusion of logical fallacies. Instead, we should, while aware of the risks and dangers of social networking, use the Internet to its full potential.
“We barely have time to pause and reflect these days on how far communicating through technology has progressed. Without even taking a deep breath, we’ve transitioned from email to chat to blogs to social networks and more recently to twitter” (Alan 2007). Communicating with technology has changed in many different ways. We usually “get in touch” with people through technology rather than speaking with them face to face. The most popular way people discuss things, with another individual, is through our phones. Phones have been around way before I was born in 1996, but throughout the years, they have developed a phone called a “smart phone”. The smart phone has all kinds of new things that we can use to socialize with our peers. On these new phones, we can connect with our friends or family on social networking sites such as Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Technology has also developed Skype, a place you can talk with people on the computer with instant voice and video for hours. The new communication changes have changed drastically from the new advances made in technology through our smart phones, social networking sites, and Skype.
In a world run by technology, it is a constant battle to maintain face to face relationships. While some studies do show that certain things such as a couple’s relationship status and interaction online correlate with their satisfaction within the relationship, the majority of online interactions actually lead to distrust and lack of real, vulnerable relationships. It is no surprise that as our fascination with technology grows, our fascination with other people dims. We are becoming increasingly individualistic and closing our once open hearts because of the lack of human interaction so many people are facing. Through examination of multiple studies and peer reviewed journal articles the remainder of this essay will investigate this issue.
People are able to communicate anytime with each other without fear of disrupting anyone. People can’t call each other at two in the morning, but they can send each other an email or comment on some’s profile picture. That makes people more connected and more involved in each other’s lives. “Social media tools can be a gre...