The article “I Had a Nice Time with You Tonight On the App” written by Jenna Wortham indicates that though Wortham’s personal experience of using smart phone communication applications. She has found immense benefits of these applications for people, outing to instant, entertaining and multitask functions. However, there are still couple of detrimental effects which attack people’s virtual communication skills and alienate people’s relationship. These limitations proved by the example of an online dating tool which Wortham is using with her boyfriend. Surrounding by an array of dazzling technical tools, Wortham still admits her desire of face-to-face talk. But it seems that she will not give up to use these digital communication tools and she …show more content…
Like the writer says in the article “Online interaction has their own kind of entertaining rapport that can coexist with their offline counterparts” (Whortham 396) . Especially for the young generation, a great number of young people generate the biggest part of users in digital communication apps. However, in terms of its entertaining rapport, it could be regarded as a double-edged sword. People are not likely to meet in the reality as frequent as before. Each of them becomes isolated in their own world, and hide themselves behind the hypocritical words and emojis. For a long term, They would be easy to suffer from some mental diseases. Such as Socialphobia and anxiety disorder. As people would have less belief on each others, they will be afraid to talk to strangers. On the other hand, the impact of network canard which broadcast by technical media must be pay more attention by the public. Some shocking events happen occasionally, which report that juveniles were deceived and murdered after they met some bad people through the digital applications. Moreover, not only bad people will be punished, but also do the apathy public, who ignore the truth and broadcast the rumors as the entertaining gossips. But they do not realize the excessive rumors from those social media are serious enough to lead an innocent people death. Someone may argue that we should not think the worst result when there is nothing happen. Tragedies never happen with forebode, and always start at a moderate start. Can anybody confirm that they would not curious about the gentleman who chat with you every day? Or they will not repost or comment a really funny video which someone is played tricks by others. The answer is negative. At least it is not be guaranteed by everybody. Therefore, so far as you are the one belongs to our society, you need to have the notion to prevent yourself form the hazard of digital
In the article, “Stop Googling. Let’s Talk” author Sherry Turkle wants to tell the reader that people should value and respect their relationship by replacing smartphone with face-to-face conversation. She is a professor who studying psychology for around 30 years; she uses many other psychologists study to proved that people are rely on smartphone too much and start to replace conversations with texting. In the essay, she explains how the smartphone is becoming an essential part of America lives; which later affected people’s way of communication. She also provides several solutions for people to solve the negative effect that come from those devices; so people can learn how to push back against it and start to engage more in the conversation for benefit yourself with friendship and society.
In the21st century, Amazing changes in communication has affected interpersonal relationships. Some prefer to use technology like Facebook, Line, and Wechat to communicate with their friends rather than talking in person. Communicating with technology will make them alienated. Interpersonal relationships are also important by personal talking, which may lead to improve relationships. In her essay, “Connectivity and Its Discontents”, Sherry Turkle believes technology weakens interpersonal relationship among friends, and relatives. In “Mother Tongue”, Amy Tan claims talking with her mother and husband in a personal way can improves their relationship. Using technology to communicate will alienate and widen the distance between friends; talking
In the article, “I Had a Nice Time With You Tonight. On the App,” written by Jenna Wortham from The New York Times, she talks about how social media and other applications affect people in relationships. Many people believe that technology and dating apps let individuals feel closer to one another even if they are thousands of miles apart. Others, however, believe that interaction through phones is causing relationships and meeting people to be not as genuine. Even though Wortham has evidence that technology hinders relationships, she believes that applications can help individuals feel closer to each other.
Advances in technology have complicated the way in which people are connecting with others around them and how it separates people from reality. In “Virtual Love” by Meghan Daum, she illustrates through the narrator 's point of view how a virtual relationship of communicating through emails and text messages can mislead a person into thinking that they actually have a bond with a person whom they have stuck their ideals onto and how the physical worlds stands as an obstacle in front of their relationship when the couple finally meets. In comparison, the article … While Daum and X discuss that technology pushes us apart and disconnects us from the physical world, they evoke a new light into explaining how technology creates the illusion of making
This is in contrast to Turkle who talks about how it is ruining our communication skills, Wortham states that technology is doing just the opposite and bettering our connections with others. Wortham, even though her article is a bit shorter than Turkle’s, still is able to get across the idea that without the technology that we have today she wouldn’t be able to have the relationship she has with her boyfriend. This goes for everyone who is in a long distance relationship, or those who are far away from their families. The use of video chats, texting, and calling improves communication for those who we can’t see on a daily basis. Wortham believes that without these options of technology she would not still be in the relationship with her current boyfriend, or if she was in the relationship still they would not be as close as they are with the use of the video chat dates they have. As it says in her article “we chatted…before bidding each other good night.” (Wortham 393). This may seem like a common thing for couples to do but “we did all of this despite living more than 3,000 miles apart” (Wortham 393). They were only able to do such a task do “to smartphone applications and services” (Wortham 393). As one could see Wortham is for the use of technology, and communication over electronic
On July 4, 1804, an author by the name of Nathaniel Hawthorne was born (Meltzer). As Hawthorne grew, he began to develop a view of himself as “the obscurest man in American letters.” Through the use of popular themes such as isolation, guilt, and earthly imperfection, Hawthorne was able to involve much of his life and ancestral past in his work to answer his own political and religious wonders (“Nathaniel”). Hawthorne successfully “confronts reality rather than evading it” in many of his stories (Clendenning).
With the entry of technology, humankind built up the capacity to communicate around the world. However, there were many debates whether technology changed the way of socializing with people. Despite the fact that technology has its positive sides, it ought to be found in a negative light. As technology made people's lives easier, they lost their social skills. The problem is that Nowadays' generation is failing to understand the epidemic of communicating via internet and its side effects.
In the article “The Rule of Thumbs” Moore discusses the use of text messages in a romantic relationship. Also, she points out the negative effects that the new generation of technology has had on today 's relationships and she clearly gives her thoughts on how technology interferes with today 's relationships, with the consequences that technology is slowly killing romance. This essay expresses many strong points about the use of texting and I lean towards Natalie Moore’s opinion because texting has strongly changed the way we communicate, unite, and become literate. After all, while analyzing the role that text messaging demonstrates for communication today, it has open four main arguable points that if it is discussed it would be easy to realize that texting is a hard issue overcome. In other words, texting not only has become part of our life today and it has reduced face to face interaction, but also texting has destroyed dating and the way people write or communicate to one
Many believes that technological inventions has alter the way human communicate with each other. With new innovations like instant messaging, facebook, and whatsapp the idea of having face to face conversation is considered ancient. In “No Need to Call” the author Sherry Turkle argues that phone calls have decreased due to the luxury the comes with instant messaging, such as texting and email. Turkle claims that voting for online communication may negatively affect the way in which people will hand face to face interaction. Meanwhile, Jenna Wortham the author of “I Had a Nice Time With You Tonight” disagrees by claiming that, despite the vast number of social media and dating sites that exist today, virtual communication can actually strengthen
There has been no significant difference on the risks between a teenager who is offline or online. Nevertheless, factors such as the type of risk, social media usage, and the psychological makeup of a teenager actively using social media predisposes them to inappropriate manners and behavior that are exposed through real world activities. They also manifest difficulties in some parts of their lives (Berkman, 2010). Therefore, how the person reacts to whatever he or she saw, hear and witness in social media is not always similar to the other person because we perceive what we receive in uniquely different
An aspect of technology that is not often discussed is the effect it has on personal communication. When presented with a situation in which one wants to tell their significant other “I love you” many would opt say this via text message rather than in person. Technology also provides us with the ability to solve the uncertainty associated with a situation. But, rather than meeting people in person to solve uncertainty, one can choose to browse the person...
Social networking and other social technology allows for interactions to occur between friends and family regardless of their location. While people remain social through communicating at a constant rate, the essence of face-to-face interactions is in part affected. In romantic relationships, open and honest communication with one’s partner is critical to the trust and development of the relationship. Young adults use social technology such as the Internet and mobile phones on a daily basis to maintain their relationships. Due to the miscommunication that often occurs from not a lack of face-to-face interactions, social technology shapes the way romantic relationships function. Therefore, social technology impacts romantic relationships through a technological determinist outlook, leading to trust and dissatisfaction issues through the Internet and mobile devices, thus negatively changing face-to-face relationships. Different rhetoric of online communication shapes and transforms problems such as deception in online dating, social monitoring and control on social networking sites, creates negative interpretations and implications of text messages, and thus creates a new image and mindset of romantic relationships.
Social networking is doing more harm than good in society, if traditional and personal interactions continue to be replaced with conversations through online networking sites, it won’t be long before they are perceived as the ‘norm’. Traditional methods of interaction will continue to be at risk if the effects of social media are not realised. Social networking sites were created as a means of making it easier for individuals to communicate in a timely and efficient manner, they were not created to take over face-to-face communications altogether. The constant use of online networking is doing more harm than good not only individually, similarly through the community
As in real life, teenagers are very shy of what is coming out of their mouth, but in social media, it’s the opposite, “Social media is preventing us from standing up for ourselves the way we should be” (Thaiatizickas). Facebook is a convenient way to contact a long distance relative or friends, but teenagers are depending on it too much that make them lacked face to face communication. Social media such as Facebook limits the face to face interaction between humankind. Technology has a huge impact on human life and some may take them as an advantage and disadvantage. Many believed that the digital world is their real life and they can meet and talk to whoever they want through messenger and video calls. Teenagers often say the things that they wanted to say through social media, “they are sending messages and content that they would never share at school, often using language that they would never say to someone’s face, a language that, if used with classmates at school, would lead to disciplinary action” (journal by Steiner-Adair). Compare to the previous generations, the younger generations have the effects on social networking that cause them to grow up differently. Social media are now destroying teenagers’ social skills as well as the future
Social media has created a social problem in society and it is distorting how people are communicating with each other face to face. Social media in today’s day is seen as a worldwide antisocial epidemic amongst the younger generation and a few older adults born in the millennial. Social media is notably used more by the younger people in our society and around the world, considering that technology is more accessible and easier to use for them. This is because their generation was born into a technological and advancing society that it has adapted into modern society’s culture. Social media has become a part of today’s norm, in which people who own a smart phone have downloaded some sort of social media app in order to stay intact with family