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MacDonald Family Tragedies and Who is to Blame The MacDonald family faced numerous types of problems that most people will never experience in their lives. The mother of this family ultimately by the end of the book losses four of her children, Kevin, Frankie, Davey, and Patrick. All of whom died tragic deaths because of the area in which they were raised. Children in different areas would never have to experience what these kids had. Southie, although claimed by its residents as the best place to live, was not as great as it was made out to seem. This exact place is actually what lead to the demise of this poor family. Although, these children do have to take some responsibility for their actions. There are some success stories of individuals …show more content…
who make it out of the projects. For example, the author of this book Michael was able to make a name for himself and help better the area of Southie. The reason the MacDonald family faced so many problems are because of the area in which they grew up and the choices made by the individuals in this family. Life in Southie Life in Southie was less than ideal for the members of this family. Growing up with virtually no father and a mother who gives no guidance did not help these children. These kids became accustomed to the idea that the way in which life was in Southie was okay. These family members all participated in one way or another in fighting, drugs, and even suicide for some. Yet majority of this family besides Michael and Frankie for the most part saw nothing wrong with engaging in such activities. It was unfortunately just the way this area of Boston was. For instance, on the area of racism Southie seemed to not be lacking much there. It was just the way things were there, you did not like African Americans. Even if there was no reason as to why you just did not tolerate African Americans because they were starting to come into your area. With integration of the school systems that made these rising tensions even worse. A prime example of this would be “But then I belted it out, just as a few other kids I didn’t know joined the chorus. The kids in the crowd all looked at each other as if we were family. This is great, I thought” (MacDonald, 83). The situation above in which the author is speaking about was dealing with integration. Buses of African Americans were coming into their town for school and the people of Southie did not want to deal with it whatsoever. Then they started chanting about their town, that is when Michael decided to join in. He references the idea of how it felt like family and how it great it was. That shows exactly how life in Southie influenced the way in which you lived dramatically. Everything was just accepted, except for the fact that the rules of Southie did not work anywhere else. Furthermore, showing that what went on there was not acceptable elsewhere. Crime in Southie Arguably one of the biggest factors into the misfortune of the MacDonald family would be the crime influence in Southie.
Southie was ruled by the Irish Mob and its evil leader Whitey Bulger. This mob is what influenced the idea of no one is a rat. Whenever a crime occurred in Southie not a single person would speak. Even if someone witnessed the crime and know who did it they did not fess up. Everyone knew if you spoke about a crime you would either be hurt or killed. This is what made it so difficult for life to be improved in Southie. Crimes were being committed and there was no way of the police figuring out who did it. Therefore, there was no way of stopping this mob from continuing to ruin the town. This mob is what ultimately got both Frankie and Kevin killed. This mob is what brought so many problems upon the MacDonald family. For starters, Kevin was selling drugs out of their home for Whitey. That is what tied him into the mob. Frankie, although a straight arrow, was a fighter and worked with a lot of Whitey’s gang. Also, their sister Kathy got herself hooked on Angel Dust which can be connected back to Whitey as well. The results of their involvement ended poorly for every single one of them. Frankie ended up doing a bank job for Whitey and ended up getting killed. He was one of the most promising brothers of the family, yet he died because of Southie and the Irish Mob. Kathy, while high on Angel Dust, fell off the roof and ended up in a coma for months. Finally, …show more content…
Kevin ended up killing himself while in a prison for the criminally insane. However, Michael believed that Whitey had him killed. Kevin seemed to be coming around in a note he left for Ma so that raised some suspicion. Michael goes on to say that “that the last person to visit Kevin, according to the sign-in-book, was Detective Walter Kirby, known to be a good friend to the boys and to Whitey himself” (MacDonald, 196). The quote above exemplifies that more than likely Kevin was murdered by Whitey’s boys. All the siblings that got involved with the Irish Mob had tragic repercussions. This shows how the organized crime that took place in Southie drastically caused many problems for the MacDonald family. Individual Responsibilities The area of Southie was a terrible one to say the least.
There was crime, drugs, poverty, suicide, and even more. Southie took a hard hit on the MacDonald and influenced a vast amount of their children. However, you cannot blame the area completely for all the misfortunes of this family. At some point these kids need to own up to their actions. Although it may be more slanted for the people of Southie to tell the difference between right and wrong, you still know deep down when something is wrong. Some cases the children of this family would succeed outside of this area, but I believe some would still have the same issues. Frankie for example would have been completely fine if he grew up outside of Southie. He was a straight arrow and only went bad because of Whitey. However, members of the family like Kevin most likely would still have bad outcomes outside of Southie. Kevin’s personality is what ultimately got him killed. He finally started to make a name for himself and was safely living with his own family outside of Southie. His personality drew him back to the area and back to his old ways. Obviously, Whitey’s influence did not help, but what ultimately got him killed was himself. For an example “Ma told him to get out of Southie. But Kevin kept coming around” (MacDonald, 193). This was right after Frankie died and Kevin started getting into trouble again. He just could not stay away, even though he had a life set up for him elsewhere. That shows how regardless of
Southie, with Kevin’s personality, he would not have done well elsewhere. There is no dismissing the influence that Whitey and Southie had on the MacDonald family, however there is a certain point where individuals need to claim responsibility for their actions. Conclusion The MacDonald family experienced many hardships throughout the course of All Souls. All these hardships were due to the fact that they grew up and were influenced by Southie and the fault of the choices made by the individual members of the family. The MacDonald family was never truly given a fair chance. This family faced so many problems that is hard for one to even fathom. The organized crime that took place in Southie took a hard toll on the MacDonalds. That is not dismissible whatsoever. Most of the members of this family would have been completely fine if they were taken out of this environment. However, that is not the case for all and that is why choices made by the individual members of the family got them into the situations they were in. Southie, the best place in the world, I think that is incredibly as far from the truth as possible.
Growing up Mary Karr didn't have a “stable” childhood. Her parents Pete and Charlie had many obstacles they faced throughout their life. Pete, who worked at a graveyard at the oil refinery was an alcoholic. He would drink every day, whether it was at home or with the liars club, he always had a drink in his hand. Charlie, who dealt with many illnesses such as an anxiety disorder and being a hypochondriac was not the best role model in Mary and Lecia life. At only 2 years old, Charlie almost died of pneumonia. After surviving that, she wasn't a normal kid, she had many issues.
The Bragg family grew up with virtually nothing. The father left the family a number of times, offering no financial assistance and stealing whatever he could before he left. When he was there, he was usually drunk and physically abusive to the mother. He rarely went after the children, but when he did the mother was always there to offer protection. Mr. Bragg's mother's life consisted of working herself to exhaustion and using whatever money she had on the children.
Michael Patrick MacDonald saw hatred animated on a Friday in the early days of October. Some people were reading the newspaper in brightly lit kitchens. Some children were coloring with brightly hued crayons. Some fathers were getting into cars in front of their beautiful homes. But there were no crayons, bright kitchens, or fathers in nice cars on Dorchester Street in Southie that day. Only the cruelest manifestation of blind hatred. Michael Patrick MacDonald was an innocent child when he stood only feet away from a black man who was having the life literally beaten from his body, one kick, one punch, one rock at a time.
In the novel “Swallowing Stones” bly Joyce McDonald, Jenna, Michael and Joe have done some deeds that affect them throughout the entire story. Jenna is constantly fighting with her Mother, and Michael has shot off a gun, and Joe has lied to the police. The character’s decisions impact the entire story.
One may assume that Cholly’s abandonment was a result of poverty brought about by a racist society. African American’s means of obtaining money to raise a child were much narrower than that of anyone in a white community. The absence of Cholly’s father also meant the absence of a role model. He had nobody to shown him how to be a good husband and father. Furthermore, the humiliation brought about by the white hunters took a toll on Cholly mentally.
...g him, the ending of this story would be much different. The more high-class society refuses to help those in need, and care only of their own gain the less lower society will have increasing criminal activity. Criminals have to do their part also, staying blind and letting societies inner workings manipulate them does not help anyone especially not themselves. By over expressing society and making a simple-minded hero, Callaghan creates an extreme example of what can happen when society denies rehabilitation. If everyone in this story had worked together in a positive way Red Ryan’s life and Kip Caley’s fictional story may have had a happier ending
...ism and segregation, it is what will keep any society form reaching is maximum potential. But fear was not evident in those who challenged the issue, Betty Jo, Street, Jerry, and Miss Carrie. They challenged the issue in different ways, whether it was by just simply living or it was a calculated attempt to change the perspective of a individual. McLurin illustrated the views of the reality that was segregation in the South, in the town of Wade, and how it was a sort of status quo for the town. The memories of his childhood and young adulthood, the people he encountered, those individuals each held a key in how they impacted the thoughts that the young McLurin had about this issue, and maybe helping unlock a way to challenge the issue and make the future generation aware of the dark stain on society, allowing for more growth and maximum potential in the coming years.
At a young age Marquese was introduced to drugs and taught to rob people and places. This is the biggest unfortunate event that could happen to him, because he feels he is obligated to do things for his mother. They have built a strong relationship that has held him back from changing the way he handles his delinquent behavior, because he will not step away from his mother. Marquese is a good example of the large amount of children who fall into having delinquent, because they consistently are exposed to the same
The Millers appear to be permissive parents; therefore, the Millers seem to support Kevin in his behavior and his maladaptive ways of coping. Permissive parents are high on warm; subsequently, they are low in setting demands, rules, and guidelines. Kevin is obliviously gifted and talented, and
...d few such as Anna, Stella, and Alice who broke free of the poison, lived their lives as Sam Toms’ did who rooted the family. They as he did lied, cheated, manipuled, and kept secrets to try to live a happy life which in actuality their lives were anything but.
Children living in this type of environment may feel anger, shame, and sadness. They are forced to take on adult roles much earlier because their parents are irresponsible. For instance it shows this in The Glass Castle because the children are forced to make their own meals and fend for themselves because Rex is too busy drinking and Rose Mary is careless (Walls). Alcoholism takes away children’s childhood by forcing them to take on adult roles. Another example of this is when Billy Deel is forced to take care of himself while his father is passed out and constantly drinking, “Billy had a lot of unsupervised time on his hands” (Walls 82). Billy was greatly affected by his father’s alcohol abuse his personality didn’t maturely develop like other children. This is shown when he sexually assaults Jeanette and doesn’t see anything wrong with it, he yells on page 87 “Guess what? I raped you!” (Walls). This statement proves that parents make a huge impact on children, and when children don’t have that, they suffer. Alcohol abuse is not an individual problem, it affects everyone surrounding that person. It isn’t fair for children to be raised in that environment and government should take greater action to protect the children’s safety by removing them from homes like
As a social worker it is often complex to determine which theory to employ in practice, each client will warrant for an in-debt assessment of the presenting problem and goals the client desires to achieve. This paper will explore one family intervention model that can be applied to the Taylor family. The two theories analyzed are Cognitive Behavioral Family Theory, (CBFT) and Structural Family Theory (SFT); both theories can be utilized when assisting individuals or families. The social worker will focus on the Cognitive Behavioral Family Therapy model when applying treatment and interventions to the Taylor family case.
... people getting to the Klondike, the climates when they got there, and striking at rich, all contributed to how these families live today. If it hadn’t had turned out this way their lives would be very different now.
Stevie’s mother Bernice was a victim of abuse by her alcoholic father growing up in the “back hills of West Virginia” (S James, 2002), Bernice, continue the cycle of abuse with her only son who she didn’t want;