Gender Roles in Great Expectations

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Gender Roles in Great Expectations

The importance of the Victorian ideal of motherhood is glimpsed in Charles Dickens's personal life. Dickens's main complaint against his wife when he separated from her was her terrible parenting. Around the time that his separation from his wife was being finalized, Dickens complains of Catherine in a letter to his friend Angela Burdett Coutts: "'She does not -- and never did -- care for the children; and the children do not -- and they never did -- care for her'" (qtd. in Slater 146). From evidence in other letters and the seeming abruptness with which Dickens took on this point of view, Dickens biographer Michael Slater suggests that this was "something that Dickens had to get himself to believe so that he could the more freely pity himself in the image of his own children" (146; original emphasis). That Dickens would use this "psychological trick" in this way implies the severity of such an accusation for Dickens personally and for Victorian society in general. Dickens's accusation suggests the immense value placed on motherhood and maternity, qualities that, in Great Expectations, Mrs. Joe clearly lacks and that Pip is not accustomed to receiving. In creating a marriage where the wife is supremely un-nurturing and the husband is caring and kind, Dickens uses distortion of accepted gender roles to draw attention to and perpetuate the cult of domesticity. The blurred gender roles in the Gargery home cause Pip to have difficulty making decisions acceptable to bourgeois status quo, because the values he learns at home vary significantly from societal ideals.

Pip himself uses physical descriptions of his parent figures to show Mrs. Joe as masculine a...

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.... Dickens perpetuates the domestic ideal in Great Expectations by arranging Pip's early life in a non-idealized, socially unacceptable manner. The sense of failure and disappointment throughout the novel culminates in the failure of the buildingsroman hero to marry the ideal woman. Dickens uses Great Expectations to comment on middle class ideals, and his refusal to allow a traditional resolution to his buildingsroman highlights the uneasy comparison of Pip's life to the middle class ideal.

Works Cited

Dickens, Charles. Great Expectations. Ed. Janice Carlisle. Boston: Bedford, 1996.

Gorham, Deborah. The Victorian Girl and the Feminine Ideal. Bloomington: Indiana UP, 1982.

Slater, Michael. Dickens and Women. London: Dent, 1983.

Waters, Catherine. Dickens and the Politics of the Family. Cambridge: Cambridge UP, 1997.

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