Gender Roles In Stephanie Coontz's The Way We Never Were?

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Stephanie Coontz’s speech, “The Way We Never Were,” debunks many social constructs about marriage that our society assumes to be true today. These include ideas about single parent families, divorce, choice of partners, and distinct spheres for men and women. Many people believe that step families and single parent families has only emerged in recent history. However, this was the typical of many families in the early 19th century due to high death rates. For instance, many mothers would die while giving birth leaving the father to take care of the rest of the family. In addition, it was common that these single parents would remarry. Marriage was not about love but about property, so interestingly, the early step families would have many more problems with their new …show more content…

Despite the fact that there are thousands of years of evidence to go against these new gender roles, society assumed these role as if they were absolute. There is evidence showing that these new gender restrictions created less happy marriages, for women began to feel dominated, and men felt the burden of being the sole provider. Marriage has changed more over the last 30 years than the previous 3,500 years. As outlined above, divorce rates, step families, single parent families, love based marriage, and new separate spheres in which husbands and wives are place have caused great change. In addition, more recently we have experience even greater change. There is now about ten to fifteen years of sexual maturity before people are married. Since people have already had sex before marriage, neither sex nor marriage is connected to reproduction.Another change is fulltime housewives are no longer needed because consumer products substantially reduce the time and effort of taking care of a house. Due to this and multiple feminist movements, women can now enter the work force, but policies and laws concerning subsidized prenatal leave

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