Imagine that your friend is in a difficult situation, such as deciding whether or not to quit their job. Since you are a helpful and compassionate friend, you guide your friend through the situation and give them advice. You come to the realization that there are two possible outcomes: you make the situation significantly better or extremely worse. However, you use your savior complex and help your friend to the best of your ability. According to LaKeisha Fleming, savior complex is “your sense of purpose from helping or “saving” others” (Fleming). With Fleming’s definition, it suggests that individuals possessing a savior complex may seek validation through their accomplishments that are ultimately a result of their savior complex. This validation …show more content…
Since Romeo never received the letter that he was intended to receive, he was under the impression that Juliet was truly dead. Once arriving at the catacombs, it appeared to Romeo “that the lean abhorred monster keeps” (Shakespeare 5.3.104) Juliet “in [the] dark to be his paramour” (Shakespeare 5.3.105). Therefore, Romeo drank a vial of poison that he got from the apothecary and stated, “thy drugs are quick thus with a kiss I die,” (Shakespeare 5.3.120) showing that Romeo killed himself after seeing his lover lie dead. Romeo’s death, caused by his mistaken belief in Juliet’s death, shows the devastating consequences of Friar Lawrence’s savior complex. Friar Lawrence’s plan did not go as expected and was entirely miscommunicated. If the Friar’s plan had been less complex and not as risky, Romeo wouldn’t have ever committed suicide. Romeo committed suicide entirely out of grief of seeing Juliet dead. Although it was miscommunicated, the Friar’s savior complex is to blame because he suggested a plan that was very risky. Friar Lawrence arrived at the catacombs shortly after Romeo committed
Although some believe that Friar Lawrence is to blame for the death because he came up with the plan for Juliet to drink a liquid so she can be with Romeo, Juliet’s cousin, Tybalt, is all to blame and is the reason the drama has happened. Friar Lawrence told Juliet, when in the chamber, “Take thou this vial, being then in bed, and this distilling liquor drink thou off,” (IV.i.93-94). Friar Lawrence wants Juliet to take this while in bed so that it looks like she collapsed and died. Although he wanted her take this, there was no other option, other than suicide. People of Verona thought she was dead, as did Romeo. Romeo wanted to be with Juliet, so he slain himself. Although all of this is true, Tybalt is still to blame for many reasons. Tybalt got Romeo banished from Verona from fighting. Tybalt started the fight. The Prince made an announcement,”And for that offense immediately we do exile him hence,” (III.i.185-186). Since the Prince banished Romeo, he can’t see Juliet anymore. Juliet came up with the plan with Friar Lawrence because of Tybalt causing this.
The attempt that Friar Lawrence had made to fix up his wrong doings was a mistake and took a huge role in leading up to the two deaths. He had a second chance to come clean and tell the families the truth, but he chose to ignore that opportunity and came up with a plan that resulted in the deaths of Romeo and Juliet. After Romeo had been banished, the plan that the Friar conjured up was for Juliet to take a potion which would make her appear dead.
Failing to uphold his end of the plan, causing the plan to fail and resulting with both Romeo and Juliet dying. Friar Laurence admits to being responsible for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet. Friar Lawrence made a huge mistake that he could have avoided himself, if only he had thought out his plan better. He trusted Juliet an unstable fourteen-year-old with a potion to make her appear dead just so she would not have to marry Paris. Resulting in the death of herself, Friar Lawrence had even said, "If…thou hast the strength of will to slay thyself…take thou this vial…no warmth, no breath shall testify the livest." He should have been more careful, Friar Laurence's idea for Juliet was very risky and because of his own ignorance has ended up in tragedy. He also admits that he left the tomb and left Juliet there. The Friar knew that Juliet had previously threatened to kill herself, yet he still abandoned her with Romeo's knife. If the Friar truly cared about her safety, he would have forced her to come with him or stayed to prevent her from making any irresponsible
Friar Lawrence is responsible for Romeo and Juliet’s stronger affections for each other because he married them and therefore binding their love. Friar Lawrence also came up with a risky solution to get Romeo and Juliet together for the rest of their lives without anyone knowing. However, it consisted of faking Juliet’s death and Romeo did not know she was not actually dead, but alive. Friar Lawrence’s messenger did not tell Romeo the plan in time because Romeo had already heard of Juliet’s death and had gone to her tomb to die with her. Friar Lawrence is responsible for the star-crossed lovers’ death because of his miscalculated
Primarily, the lazy and neglectful Friar Lawrence is to blame for Romeo and Juliet’s death. First of all, Romeo discovers Juliet supposedly dead, unaware that she is actually not dead. Romeo is obviously not informed about the plan, Friar Lawrence’s thoughtlessness is clearly shown when Romeo says “Come, bitter conduct, come, unsavoury guide! / Thou desperate pilot, now at once run on / The dashing rocks thy sea-sick weary bark! / Here’s to my love! [Drinks]. O true apothecary” (Shakespeare V, iii, 116-119). If Friar personally went to tell Romeo about Juliet’s plans, instead of promptly assuming that Romeo would get the letter, then Romeo would have not killed himself. The Friar should have taken the time and energy to make a face to face verbal exchange with Romeo, therefore it would have been merely impossible to
His faith in Friar John in delivering the message to Romeo was flawed, therefore leading to Romeo’s misinterpretation that Juliet is dead and kills himself with the poison next to Juliet. Finally, Friar Lawrence’s cowardice in the tomb with Juliet would lead to Juliet’s death next to her Romeo. As the Prince of Verona says, “Some shall be pardoned, and some punished. For never was a story of more woe, than this of Juliet and her Romeo.” (Shakespeare Romeo and Juliet 5.3 319-321.)
The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet goes back for centuries. It still captivates millions of readers every year. Is it the way Shakespeare always keeps people guessing? How about the theme of relying on fate? Maybe its because every time this wonderful piece of literature is read no one can decide exactly on who is blame? Is it really Juliet's fault for falling in love and taking chances? Is it their parent’s faults for fighting in the first place? Yes, but no. Friar Lawrence is the one to blame for the death of Romeo Montague and Juliet Capulet. Lawrence is the one who marries them, gives Juliet a sketchy potion, and does not live up to his promise at the end of the play. Friar Lawrence may be a wise, truthful, friendly human being, however that means nothing when it comes to the fact that he killed the pair of star crossed lovers.
Friar Lawrence showed that he was impatient when he rushed everything and didn’t wait to see if Romeo received the letter, instead he gave her the potion. When she drank the potion and Romeo came to see her, he assumed she was dead and drank a poison and fell dead at her side, after awakening Juliet sees Romeo dead beside her and takes his dagger and says “O happy dagger, this is thy sheath; there rust, and let me die.” And plunges the dagger into her stomach and too falls dead with her beloved Romeo. If Friar Lawrence hadn’t been so sympathetic with marrying the two and hadn’t been impatient when it came to the letter, Romeo wouldn’t have drunken the poison and Juliet would have never stabbed herself. In conclusion, the tragic death of young Romeo and Juliet can be blamed on their family and friends.
Romeo, as a young adolescence, your brain is not fully developed, which may lead to regretful decisions. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, teens have a “tendency to act on impulse -without regard for risk.” Therefore, you may not see how irrational this idea is; although, you will when it is too late. Also, Friar Lawrence has devised a plan that reunites you and your Juliet. His plan is to fake Juliet’s death, steal her away in the night, and hide the two of you from your families so that you may live happily ever after. When you die in a matter of hours, Friar explains to both houses how the plan went wrong starting with how he gave Juliet a sleeping potion and he claims he, “intended for it wrought on her the form of death.” He continues to say, “Meantime I writ to Romeo that he should hither come as this dire night to help to take her from her borrowed grave.” Finally he pleas that, “Friar John was stayed by accident, and yesternight returned my letter back.” In my ghostly form, I witnessed him explain the unfolding of these events. Take it from me that making this impulsive decision is unwise and will only ruin Friar’s plan. In addition, poor Juliet is unfortunate enough to awaken to your
In Romeo and Juliet, a tragedy by William Shakespeare, Friar Lawrence plays a dominate role in the eventual death of Romeo and Juliet even though he is not on stage for most of the play. There are basically three major parts that lead to the tragedy; the marriage, the plan, and the inevitable deaths in all which Friar Lawrence plays a vital role.Friar Lawrence plays an essential role in the marriage of young Romeo and Juliet. At Romeo’s request Friar Lawrence states, "In one respect I’ll thy assistant be; for this alliance may so happy prove, to turn your households to pure love" (Act 2 Scene 3.) Friar Lawrence believes that this holy marriage would bring the Capulet family and Montuague family closer together, for he anticipates that the families will stop hating each other and be peaceful. His attempts to make the marriage of Romeo and Juliet are admirable but poorly planned.
First of all, in Romeo and Juliet, Friar Lawrence and his plan contribute to Romeo and Juliet's death. Friar Lawrence is the Franciscan who allows the marriage between Romeo and Juliet. When Romeo leaves to Mantua and Juliet has to have unwanted marriage, he comes up with the plan. His plan is to let Juliet drink a potion, which causes her to sleep for two days, pretending like she is dead so that he can sends a letter to Romeo. At last, Friar plans to help Romeo and Juliet to leave the city
He sends this important letter to Romeo through Friar John and fails to tell him the content of the letter. The letter never reaches Romeo as Friar John is quarantined with other people that are suspected to have traces of the plague. Friar Lawrence was outraged and he is quoted, “Unhappy fortune! By my brotherhood, the letter was not nice but full of charge, of dear import, and the neglecting it may do much danger” (V. ii. 17-20). From his statement, Friar Lawrence had clearly failed to tell Friar John of the importance of the letter. Since he had failed to think of other ways to get the important message to Romeo, Friar Lawrence is to be blamed for not warning Romeo in time. His plan of relying the delivery of the letter to just one person had caused Romeo to believe that Juliet’s death was real. In the play, when Romeo’s friend sees the news about Juliet’s apparent death at the tomb, Friar Lawrence sees him and should have known that Romeo was going to be misinformed. Instead, he does not wait for Romeo to arrive and then to reinform him about his plan of reuniting them. Therefore, Friar Lawrence still had a second chance to correct the situation but does not do so, letting the two lovers’ confused ending in their tragic
The corresponding syllabi.... ... middle of paper ... ... Also, the Friar failed to send word to Romeo that Juliet wasn’t really dead and by the time he got to the tomb, it was too late and Romeo and Juliet were dead. Friar Lawrence was responsible for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet because he was a coward, secretive, and had a lack of communication with the other characters.
According to LaKeisha Fleming, the savior complex is “your sense of purpose from helping or “saving” others” (Fleming). Fleming’s definition suggests that individuals possessing a savior complex may seek validation through their accomplishments that are ultimately a result of their savior complex. This validation becomes intertwined with their self-image, shaping how they see themselves and their place in the world. Moreover, individuals with a savior complex are driven by an urge to make a positive impact on the lives of others to make themselves feel accomplished. Although the savior complex encourages helpfulness, which is a positive, it also has negatives.
This could also be apart of the reason Friar Lawrence gave into Juliet’s plea for help because he is a priest who preaches the word of God and the one responsible for marrying them. When Friar Lawrence agreed to help Juliet he devised a plan allowing for Juliet to avoid marriage to Paris and be reunited with Romeo. However his plan was flawed because there wasn’t a way to notify Romeo when the letter detailing the plan of Juliet’s supposed death wasn’t delivered.”Who bare my letter, then, to Romeo?”-Friar Lawrence ” I could not send it,-here it is again,-...”- Friar John, the messenger. (Doc E- A5,S2). Without the knowledge Juliet wasn’t dead but under the effects of a sleeping potion Romeo committed suicide in the name of love, so he could forever be with his Juliet.(Doc E). Friar Lawrence was an active participant in both their marriage and planned reunion,yet he knew it would lead to their demise. He could've stopped it or refused to be involved in their love affair, but he didn’t and this is why he too is at fault for the death of Romeo and