Facebook: A Necessary Evil

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Technology has changed the way our society communicates, socializes, and interacts with each other forever. Some are of the belief that there is nothing better on earth then when the newest technology comes to the shelfs.Whether it is the new Ipad, Iphone, or big flat screen T.V. there always seemed to be a line out the front door. Unfortunately there is a underbelly a very evil and dark side that is finally getting the attention it deserves. One of the biggest contributors to the new social media push is Facebook. This particular application has been used for gross electronic aggression and has become the gateway for the arsenal of schoolyard bullies. In 2008 I watched as my neighbors 14 year old daughter go from being a sweet straight A student, to being a EMU, sexually promiscuous, and participating in drug activity. This occurred in a 9-12 month period after receiving her Facebook account. Ironically in 2008–2009 the School Crime Supplement (National Center for Education Statistics and Bureau of Justice Statistics) indicates that 6% of students in grades 6–12 experienced cyberbullying. Because of Facebook our country has seen are teens start to measure their worth, appearance, and feelings of low self-esteem leading to the tragic suicides in the media.
The media in our country has always been a huge driving force behind many of society's belief systems and social economic status. This can be especially true if you don't have the new Iphone or Ipad, and if they don’t have a phone at all its even worse. The general populace does not realize exactly how mean and ruthless some of these children can be to each other. I experienced this personal face to face bullying when I was younger in regards to the economic inequality. Befor...

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... are up and coming but because of the current legal situation it is even harder to deal with. The CDC, and the Department of Health and Human services state at this time to help with the prevention of all of these complex issues, is to increasing connectedness among youth and parents, other adults, and teachers. They also suggest not to let your teen or child use such applications with out supervison and educate them in regards to the seriousness of all the issues surrounding the World Wide Web. The increase in media becoming a babysitter is a major contributor to this devastating situation. I know many children under 13 who have more than one Facebook. The question that arises in many minds is if Facebook networking is really a necessity. My suggestion, if your the parent, the decision needs to be made if and when Facebook becomes more of a necceassry evil for you.

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